A client recently discussed her difficulties with managing anger and expressed frustration with her inability to resolve her ‘anger issues’. She worried that her anger would inevitably invite and result in more negativity in her life.

There is value and wisdom in feeling angry, according to Spirit’s response. It is undeniable that at times we become extremely enraged and furious. This is a normal response to situations that oppose our wants and wishes. If anger were not a natural reaction, we would not experience it during our physical existence.

The truth is that all negative emotions are actually a dear friend who is there to tell us something. It indicates that we are out of alignment with our Higher Self, Spirit and the Divine. When we experience fear, anxiety or anger it indicates that we are out of alignment and no longer in the flow.

One prevalent factor that leads to pain is the narratives we create concerning the future. An often encountered story among my clients starts as follows: “I can only achieve happiness when…”

We create a story about the fulfilment of certain desires and then focus more on the result or outcome rather than the process and the present moment. When our happiness depends on the future fulfilment of a story, we are no longer in resonance with the present reality and out of alignment with the universal flow. We are no longer living fully, we are merely playing an impatient waiting game.

Anger is just anger. It isn’t good. It isn’t bad. It just is. What you do with it is what matters ~ Jim Butcher

There are two ways to respond to creating a story. Either we attempt to manipulate every aspect of the situation to make it happen, but this typically has negative consequences. Alternatively, we may have doubts that our desires will ever come true. However, both of these responses contradict the reality that our original desires are inspired by our spirit and it is our soul’s intention for them to be fulfilled.

Our wishes and desires are inherently benevolent and good. They are an expression of our innate ability as incarnated spirit beings to create, attract and manifest. They are conceived by our Higher Self, the Spirit and the Divine, and are therefore meant to be fulfilled!

Our wishes and desires, which originate from a spiritual inspiration, can be distorted or corrupted when we attempt to exert excessive control or prioritize fulfilling our ego-driven impulses. Adversely, these occurrences can lead to unfavorable and damaging outcomes. However, it is important to recognize that our wishes and desires in their pure state are bestowed upon us by a higher power.

If all desires in their original state are inherently positive, as long as we stay in harmony and have faith in the cosmic order, how does anger impact the realization of our divine desires? At first glance, anger does not appear to be in alignment or in harmony with the cosmic flow. How can anger be perceived as spiritual?

To gain a complete comprehension of the significance and benefits of anger (and other adverse emotions) and its impact on the realization of our wishes, we must acknowledge two fundamental spiritual principles of manifestation.

The Mystical Power Of Faith

The first important spiritual principle to understand about the manifestation process is that our life experiences unfold based on our faith and mental focus. As creative spirit entities, we manifest realities based on our personal beliefs. Our beliefs are so powerful that they continually expand or limit our realities. Faith or belief is a creative force within each of us that drives the manifestation process.

This spiritual principle is confirmed in many ancient texts and spiritual teachings. In Christianity, for example, faith is a central concept. The Bible emphasises in numerous verses the importance of faith in manifesting miracles and bringing about desired results. For example, Jesus often performed miracles in response to people’s faith, such as healing the sick or raising the dead. Jesus also said that with enough faith a person could move a mountain.

In Buddhism, the influence of faith is frequently observed within the context of the mind’s role in shaping the world. The idea of “mindfulness” highlights the significance of one’s thoughts and beliefs in determining their experiences and perceptions of reality. According to the teachings of the Buddha, by transforming one’s mind, it is possible to overcome suffering and achieve enlightenment. Another example can be found in Hindu philosophy, where the concept of bhakti or devotion is emphasized. Devotees firmly believe that their loyalty and dedication to a deity can bring blessings, protection, and even liberation from the cycle of life and death. The Bhagavad Gita, a highly respected Hindu scripture, extensively discusses the power of faith and devotion.

It is prudent to channel your anger towards issues rather than individuals, and to dedicate your efforts towards finding solutions instead of making excuses. ~ William Arthur Ward

The Divine Source Of Abundance

The second important principle of manifestation is that we are all connected to an infinite and powerful source of abundance and benevolence that fulfils our desires. Known to us as God, Source, Spirit, the Divine, the Universe, it is a central concept in many spiritual and religious traditions. There is a limitless and omnipotent energy or higher power from which all things come and to which all things return.

As creators of our individual and collective realities, it is essential for us to establish a connection with an inexhaustible source of wealth or contentment. This source, whether universal or divine, is not bound by earthly limitations and possesses the power to profoundly change our lives and the world. By linking ourselves to this boundless wellspring of creativity, we amplify our ability to bring our desires into reality.

Numerous religious practices emphasize the significance of belief and giving up control in order to establish a connection with a higher power. When we let go of our own desires and have faith in the knowledge and kindness of the universe, we become receptive to receiving guidance, assistance, and abundance from an endless source. Aligning ourselves with this boundless source signifies a deep comprehension of the true nature of our existence and our role in it. It prompts us to recognize our innate ability to shape and collaborate in the creation process while acknowledging the inherent sanctity and interdependence of all life.

The Wisdom Of Anger

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Returning to the emotion of anger, it is crucial to avoid labeling it as “bad” since this hinders the process of manifestation. Anger is not inherently negative or positive. It is simply a vibration of energy. It exists without any inherent moral value. All energy present in the universe is inherently neutral. This neutrality implies that spiritual energy itself cannot be classified as either good or bad; it purely exists.

The way neutral energy appears in our lives depends on our intentions, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. When we have positive intentions and take positive actions, we create uplifting and beneficial experiences. Conversely, negative intentions and actions result in discordant and undesirable outcomes.

I am sure you have seen in your own situation that when you try to resist your anger, it only increases or finds a way to express itself in other ways. This can often manifest in addictions, relationship difficulties, violent behaviour and other self-destructive patterns. It is the outer manifestation of an inner reality. The dilemma here is not that anger is bad, but that the vibration of anger (and all the pain experiences we go through) will not go away until its purpose or higher truth is revealed and acknowledged.

When you feel anger, do not attempt to restrain, dismiss, or push it away. Instead, embrace it and inquire about the lessons it can teach you. This process is not based on reason or logic. For instance, at times when I experience anger, it may urge me to cry or scream loudly. However, when I address my pain, I consistently discover that it conveys a message. The message I often receive is that it signifies an aspect of my life where I am not aligned with the kindness of God. Typically, this is due to my lack of faith and confidence in God’s ability to fulfill my spiritually motivated aspirations.

Sometimes, the anger stems from previous experiences. It involves emotional distress linked to past connections. For instance, in my younger years, I faced certain financial difficulties. Consequently, when I feel anxious about money in the present, it often reminds me of those past challenges and suffering. My ego continuously holds onto a fear-based narrative, attempting to validate the belief that the Universal Source of Abundance cannot fulfill my financial requirements.

My ego attachment to this fear-based story from my past is not conducive to my God-given desires. In essence, if I choose to believe that my innate desires for financial prosperity are not good because they may never be fulfilled, then I am denying the reality that they are spirit given. I am out of alignment and trying to manifest with resistance and lack of awareness rather than trusting the flow with an abundance mindset. Until I align with the reality that there are enough resources to fulfil these desires, I will never find actual fulfilment.

If anger is ignored or dismissed, it will only slow down or prevent the achievement of your desires. It will turn into a harmful and negative force in your life. However, if you acknowledge and deal with your anger in a healthy manner, considering it as a message or indicator, rather than suppressing or neglecting it, you will realign yourself with what is best for you and gain the ability to bring your natural desires into reality.

Typically, individuals tend to be inactive when they feel sad. They simply shed tears, dwelling on their circumstances. However, when they become angry, they take action, leading to transformation ~ Malcolm X

Strategies For Expressing Anger

Some possible approaches for effectively communicating and dealing with anger in a positive and empowering manner are:

Acknowledge and affirm: Understand that it is acceptable to experience anger and acknowledge the truthfulness of your emotions. Avoid repressing or dismissing your emotions, as doing so can result in harboring bitterness and resentment within yourself.

Take a moment to stop and think: Prior to reacting hastily, pause for a while and contemplate on what caused your anger. Determine the hidden emotions and thoughts that are fueling your anger, as well as any recurring patterns or triggers that might be present.

Engage in mindfulness: Engage in various mindfulness practices like deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation to bring tranquility to your mind and body. Mindfulness enables you to observe your anger without feeling consumed by it and allows you to respond with greater expertise.

Engage in spiritual practices such as prayer, metta meditation, affirmations, rituals, or ceremonies to cultivate forgiveness, love, and inner peace. This may involve actions like lighting candles, burning sage or incense, or performing symbolic rituals to release anger and invite healing and peace. Repeat affirmations like “I let go of anger and welcome peace” or “I forgive myself and others for any harm done.” Utilize journaling as a means of self-exploration, healing, and personal growth.

Service and compassion: Instead of giving in to feelings of frustration and anger about injustices you encounter in the world, do something to help alleviate or change them. Engage in acts of service, compassion and activism to channel your anger into positive action and contribute to the greater good. Volunteer your time, skills or resources to help those in need and foster a sense of connection, purpose and spiritual fulfilment.

Express your anger in a assertive and respectful manner by using “I” statements to convey your feelings, needs, and boundaries. Refrain from blaming or criticizing others and instead emphasize constructive communication.

Establish limitations: Create explicit limitations that shield you from circumstances or actions that provoke your anger. Communicate these boundaries with assertiveness and consistency, and be ready to uphold them when required.

Engage in physical activity: Redirect your anger into activities like taking a walk, doing yoga, or using a punching bag. Physical activity aids in releasing built-up energy and stress, ultimately fostering relaxation and a feeling of well-being.

Creative outlets: Express your anger through creative outlets such as writing, drawing, painting or playing music. Creative expression can be a healthy and constructive way to process emotions and gain insight into your feelings.

Get help: Consult with close friends, family members, or a therapist to receive assistance and confirmation. Engaging in conversations about your emotions with a trusted individual can provide you with a different outlook and enable you to discover constructive methods to manage your anger.

“A person with a steady mind, unaffected by the threefold miseries or overly excited by happiness, and who is detached, fearless, and free from anger, is referred to as a sage.”

Next time you feel angry, remind yourself that the great spiritual teachers, such as Jesus and Buddha, have all taught us that holding onto anger only perpetuates suffering and separation. Instead, they advocated responding to anger with love, compassion and forgiveness, recognising the interconnectedness of all beings and the transformative power of empathy and understanding.

Jesus, although known for teachings of love, compassion, and forgiveness, did feel and display negative emotions such as anger or frustration. However, it is crucial to note that his anger was primarily aimed at unjust actions or behaviors, rather than individuals personally.

In the Gospels, there is a significant incident where Jesus purifies the temple. The story in Matthew 21:12-13 recounts Jesus’ actions as he enters the temple and removes the people engaged in buying and selling. He overturns the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. Jesus addresses them, saying, “It is written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you are turning it into a hideout for thieves.”

In Buddhist tradition, Siddhartha Gautama, who later became known as the Buddha, experienced various human emotions before attaining enlightenment. While the Buddha’s teachings emphasize overcoming suffering, including anger, through the Noble Eightfold Path and the practice of mindfulness, there are accounts suggesting that he experienced anger prior to his enlightenment.

One such story involves an incident where the Buddha encountered a group of ascetics who criticized him and his followers. Initially, the Buddha felt anger rising within him, but he later reflected on the situation and responded with compassion and understanding. This event is often cited as an example of the Buddha’s ability to recognize and overcome anger through mindful awareness and insight.

Acknowledge, contemplate and channel anger constructively whenever it arises in your life. It has the potential for great wisdom and healing to manifest abundance and prosperity in your life.

The Significance of Anger in Attaining Your Goals

When we consider anger, we often associate it with negative feelings and harmful behavior. However, anger can actually be a valuable tool in reaching our goals and bringing about positive change in our lives. While it is important to handle and express anger in a healthy manner, tapping into its energy can propel us forward and assist us in overcoming obstacles. In this article, we will explore the importance of anger in achieving your desires and how to effectively channel it.

1. Motivation and Determination:
Anger can act as a catalyst for change by fueling our motivation and determination. When we feel angry about a situation or injustice, it ignites a passion within us to take action and make things right. This intense emotion can drive us to work harder, persist through challenges, and remain focused on our goals. Anger can serve as the driving force behind our determination to achieve our desires.

2. Establishing Boundaries:
Anger can also aid us in setting boundaries and asserting ourselves in various situations. When we feel angry, it often indicates that our values or personal boundaries have been violated. By recognizing and expressing our anger in a constructive manner, we communicate to others what is acceptable and what is not. This assertiveness is crucial in achieving our desires because it ensures that we are treated with respect and that our needs are met.

3. Overcoming Challenges:
In the pursuit of our desires, we are likely to face obstacles and setbacks along the way. Anger can be a powerful tool in helping us overcome these challenges. When confronted with an obstacle, anger can provide us with the energy and determination required to find alternative solutions, think creatively, and persist until we attain our desired outcome. It can assist us in pushing through adversity and maintaining a resilient mindset.

4. Self-Reflection and Growth:
Anger can also serve as a valuable tool for self-reflection and personal growth. When we experience anger, it presents an opportunity to examine the underlying reasons behind it. By exploring our anger, we can gain insights into our values, needs, and desires. This self-reflection enables us to make informed decisions and take actions that align with our true selves. Anger can be a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement.

5. Advocacy and Social Change:
Throughout history, anger has played a significant role in advocating for social change and justice. Many movements and revolutions have been fueled by anger towards inequality, oppression, and injustice. By channeling anger into constructive actions such as peaceful protests, advocacy, or community organizing, individuals and communities can work towards achieving their desires for a fairer and more just society.

While anger can be a powerful tool, it is crucial to effectively manage it. Uncontrolled anger can lead to harmful behavior and damage relationships. To harness the power of anger in achieving your desires, consider the following tips:

1. Recognize and acknowledge your anger.
2. Take a step back and contemplate the underlying reasons for your anger.
3. Channel your anger into productive actions such as problem-solving or seeking support.
4. Practice healthy coping mechanisms like exercise, deep breathing, or talking to a trusted friend or therapist.
5. Use assertive communication to express your needs and establish boundaries effectively.

Almost all of us have encountered the grief of losing someone dear to us, be it a parent, a spouse, or even a child. Additionally, we have observed or personally undergone the various methods individuals employ to deal with this overwhelming sorrow.

Dealing with the significant void created by the loss can adversely affect individuals’ actions. Certain individuals resort to extreme measures such as alcohol, substance misuse, excessive eating, prescription medications, or other methods to numb their pain and divert the overpowering emotions linked to grief and loss.

What we ultimately learn is that there is no set time frame in which such profound pain can be dealt with. It can take weeks, months, years or even decades for some. But even when the worst is over, we never really get over the sense of loss. We simply learn to cope and get on with our lives, forever changed, as best we can.

However, the greatest tribute we can pay the loved ones we have lost is to grieve with grace and dignity. Abusing substances or indulging in other distractions may temporarily numb our pain, but how does that honour the memory of the one we professed to care so much about? It also does not allow us to confront and process our emotions in a healthy and constructive manner. Grieving is natural and necessary. When we try to avoid our grief, we miss out on opportunities for personal growth, self-reflection, and ultimately finding peace with the loss.

I will continue to observe the world on behalf of both of us as much as I am able. I will find joy in the company of birds, sing alongside the flowers, and offer prayers to the stars, all for the sake of both of us.

Moreover, when we opt to mourn with elegance and poise, we are actively recognizing the importance of the bond we had with our beloved. Rather than avoiding our sorrow, we embrace it as a testament to the profoundness of our connection and the influence they had on our existence. By electing to pay tribute to the memory of our loved ones with grace and dignity, we not only honor their lasting impact but also honor ourselves and the profound relationship we had.

Ten years ago, I experienced a tragic loss as my dear daughter passed away. Initially, I struggled to comprehend and cope with this immense pain, as it seemed impossible to fill the void left behind. Nevertheless, as time went on, I made the choice to honor her memory by openly and sincerely expressing my sorrow.

I also considered her legacy: she had a passion for improving the lives of the oppressed and downtrodden; she was extremely connected to animals and had such a deep respect for Mother Nature; and she was highly creative and took such joy in her involvement with the things she loved. It became my mission to honor her accordingly.

My affinity has always been with children. Their lives are uncomplicated because they come so easily from a place of honesty and innocence. They are not caught up in the everyday social and material trappings that us adults have convinced ourselves we cannot live without.

I am not skilled in art like my daughter, but I can knit and sew. As a result, I began creating basic items such as gloves, slippers, and baby bibs to send to an orphanage in South America. Did my modest endeavors have a profound impact on the lives of those children? Most likely not. However, maybe the mere knowledge that someone from a distant land loves and cares for them deeply was sufficient to foster a sense of assurance in the hearts of those vulnerable individuals.

Through acts of charity, kindness and compassion, by channeling our grief into meaningful actions that honor the memory of our loved one, we not only pay tribute to their life but also find solace and purpose in our own journey of healing. Whoever that special person was in your life, the one you cared about so much, by all means express your grief. Do it loudly or quietly – there is no magic way. But whatever you do, please do it with honor, grace and dignity.

Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest ~ Jamie Anderson

Select the most superior approaches accessible and strive to contribute towards the betterment of society. This way, when your dear ones observe your determination in overcoming sorrow and hopelessness, they will take pride in the respectful tribute you are dedicating towards them. Below are a few suggestions on how to achieve this:

Donate or volunteer: Make a charitable donation or volunteer your time to causes that were important to your loved one. This could involve supporting organizations they were passionate about or participating in community service projects in their honor.

Create a legacy project: Start a project or initiative that honors your loved one’s memory and makes a positive impact in their honor. This could involve starting a scholarship fund, organizing a fundraiser, or launching a community outreach program in their name.

Perform acts of kindness: Pay tribute to your loved one’s legacy by performing acts of kindness and compassion in their honor. This could involve helping others in need, volunteering in your community, or simply being there for someone who is going through a difficult time.

Engage in activities that your loved one was passionate about or support causes they cared about to celebrate their interests. This may include participating in their hobbies, attending events related to their interests, or advocating for the issues they were passionate about.

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You can share the experiences and memories of your loved one with others. You may choose to write about their life in a journal, create a scrapbook or photo album, or take part in storytelling events that enable you to share their lasting impact with others.

Create a memorial: Establish a physical or digital memorial that pays tribute to your loved one’s life. This could include a memorial website, a dedicated space in your home with photos and mementos, or planting a tree or garden in their memory.

Keep their traditions alive: Continue to celebrate holidays, birthdays, and other significant milestones in ways that honor your loved one’s traditions and values. Incorporate their favorite foods, activities, or rituals into these occasions to keep their memory alive.

Seek healing and support: Take care of yourself and seek support from friends, family, or a support group as you navigate the grieving process. Honor your loved one’s memory by finding healing and solace in your own journey of grief and healing.

Honoring the memory of deceased loved ones with grace and dignity is a meaningful way to keep their legacy alive and find comfort and healing in the midst of grief. Each person’s journey of remembrance is unique, so choose the ways that resonate most deeply with you and your loved one’s memory.

Experiencing the loss of a loved one is an incredibly difficult and painful experience. The emotions and sorrow can be overwhelming, leaving us feeling lost and unsure of how to handle it. However, it is possible to navigate this challenging journey gracefully and find ways to honor their memory while also taking care of ourselves. Here are some strategies to help cope with the loss of loved ones in a graceful manner.

1. Give yourself permission to grieve: Grieving is a natural and necessary process for healing. It’s important to allow yourself to feel the pain and sadness that comes with loss. Cry, express your emotions, and take the time you need to mourn. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everyone’s journey is unique.

2. Seek support: Surround yourself with a support system of friends, family, or a grief support group. Sharing your feelings and memories with others who have experienced similar losses can provide comfort and understanding. Lean on your loved ones during this difficult time, as they can be there for you when you need them.

3. Take care of yourself: Grief can take a toll on your physical and emotional well-being. Prioritize self-care during this time. Make sure you eat well, get enough rest, and engage in activities that bring you joy and peace. Exercise or relaxation techniques like meditation or yoga can also help reduce stress and promote healing.

4. Create meaningful rituals or memorials: Finding ways to honor the memory of your loved one can bring solace and comfort. Consider creating a memorial or tribute that reflects their life and legacy. Planting a tree, creating a memory box, or organizing a charity event in their name can help keep their memory alive and provide a sense of connection.

5. Seek professional help if needed: If your grief becomes overwhelming or interferes with your daily life, seeking professional help can be beneficial. A therapist or counselor can guide and support you through the grieving process. They can help develop coping strategies, provide a safe space to express emotions, and assist in finding meaning and purpose after loss.

6. Be compassionate towards yourself: Be patient and kind to yourself as you grieve. Understand that healing takes time and it’s normal to have good and bad days. Allow yourself to experience a range of emotions without judgment or guilt. Remember that grief is a journey, and it’s important to be gentle with yourself as you navigate through it.

7. Find meaning and purpose: While the pain of loss may never fully disappear, finding meaning and purpose in life can bring peace and acceptance. Engage in activities that align with your values or volunteer for causes that were important to your loved one. By channeling your grief into something positive, you can create a legacy that honors their memory.

As the evening descends and the surroundings grow calm, our thoughts tend to do the opposite. Numerous individuals get trapped in a never-ending cycle of excessive contemplation as they revisit past events and fret about what lies ahead. This intense mental turbulence of anxiety can lead us to feel mentally cloudy and drained emotionally, far from our genuine state.

In the midst of chaos, there is a chance to experience personal development and empowerment. How can this be achieved? The answer lies in developing a deeper understanding of our intuition and improving our mental clarity, which will help us break free from the cycle of negativity and align with our true potential.

Many of us experience the common issue of excessive thinking during nighttime. When everything is quiet and our minds have been on autopilot throughout the day, it becomes a fertile ground for concerns, apprehension, and remorse. This eventually creates a harmful pattern of anxiety and sleeplessness, resulting in increased stress the following day. Consequently, this heightened stress fuels further anxiety and insomnia during subsequent nights, continuing the cycle.

Not only do we experience constant fatigue and lack of energy, but we also become detached from our true selves and our purpose in life. This energetic depletion and disconnection lead to doubt and uncertainty about our decisions and path, resulting in heightened anxiety and diminished self-worth. This harmful cycle greatly impacts our overall well-being, affecting us physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Upon waking up, ponder upon the valuable privilege of being alive – the ability to breathe, to contemplate, to experience joy, and to love. ~ Marcus Aurelius

Intuitive Awareness

Our intuition is an innate ability that transcends rational thought. Our higher selves, spirit guides, angels and the Divine communicate with us through our intuitive awareness. It’s the inner voice of our soul that guides us to our true path. Unfortunately, this voice is often drowned out by the noise of daily life.

When we develop a deeper sense of intuition, we are able to discern our genuine wants and fears, distinct from the everyday conflicts and external influences. By aligning ourselves with our soul or higher self, we gain insight into our genuine requirements, desires, and purpose, which serves as a guiding light through the confusion of excessive thinking and doubt. This leads us towards a path that reflects our true essence, offering a sense of security and confidence with the assistance of Spirit and the Divine.

Mental Clarity

In order to improve our decision-making and stay aligned with our intuition, it is important to have a focused and clear mind. This means organizing our thoughts, ideas, and plans while avoiding unnecessary worries, regrets, and fears. By attaining mental clarity, we can approach daily problems and challenges in a calm and composed manner, making it simpler to find solutions, make smart choices, and have peaceful sleep at night.

To minimize nighttime anxiety, worry, and stress, it is essential to enhance our intuitive consciousness and mental clarity throughout the day. This will enable us to remain focused and reduce our concerns at night, ultimately breaking the cycle of insomnia.

Incorporating self-care and spiritual practices at the beginning of your day can greatly affect your overall well-being and productivity. Establishing certain habits in the morning can assist you in connecting with your inner guidance and maintaining a clear and focused mindset.

Having the correct morning routine can assist in eliminating harmful and destructive habits, as well as ensuring that you start your day with the necessary energy and positive mindset to make a meaningful contribution to your life. It enables you to have a productive and gratifying day, reducing your concerns and anxieties at night.

Morning is God’s way of saying one more time, ‘Go make a difference, touch a heart, encourage a mind, inspire a soul, and enjoy the day’ ~ Mufti Menk

Some suggestions for beginning your day with increased intuitive awareness and mental clarity are:

Meditation & Breathwork

Meditation calms the mind, reduces stress, and increases self-awareness, making it easier to connect with your intuitive self. Breathwork helps regulate the body’s stress response and can improve focus and clarity.

Start your day by dedicating at least 5-10 minutes to breathwork or meditation. Concentrate on your breath or utilize a guided meditation specifically crafted to heighten your intuition. Integrate deep breathing techniques to provide oxygen to your brain and body, consequently getting ready for the upcoming day.

Nature Meditation

Engaging with the natural world, whether by spending time outdoors or simply taking a quick break outside, has the power to greatly enhance your emotions, decrease stress levels, and enhance brain function. Being in natural surroundings helps keep us centered and fosters a deeper understanding of ourselves.

Drink your morning coffee outside, take a short walk in a nearby park, or simply stand on your balcony and watch the sky. The key is to be present and absorb the calming effects of the natural world.

Mindful Movement

Add a brief morning workout of yoga, stretching, or tai chi to your routine. Pay attention to how your body feels and your breath flows. Engaging in gentle physical activity like yoga, tai chi, or stretching in the morning enhances blood circulation to the brain, boosts mental clarity, and aids in connecting with your body’s instincts. Mindful exercises also aid in relieving physical stress that may impact your thought process.

Journaling

Morning journaling can help you capture your first thoughts of the day, which are often closer to your subconscious. This practice can reveal intuitive insights and help clear mental clutter by organizing your thoughts.

Keep a journal by your bed and write for a few minutes each morning. You can record dreams, list things you’re grateful for, set intentions for the day, or write down any thoughts or feelings that come up. You can also ask yourself these important questions and meditate on them:

In which areas do I experience the least movement of energy? In which areas do I experience the most vibrant energy flow?

Have I fulfilled my life’s purpose?

3. Am I hindering my life’s purpose? Am I permitting anger or a lack of empathy, maybe thoughtless remarks, to influence my behavior and speech?

What am I evading in my life? What is the essential issue I need to confront in order to progress and lead a fulfilling life?

What objectives do I have for today and tomorrow?

What possessions am I keeping that are no longer necessary? What can I give away or donate in order to feel more relaxed and liberated?

How can I achieve a state of calmness and cultivate a greater sense of inner peace?

Am I getting sufficient sleep? If not, I will make sure to consider these factors in order to improve my sleep habits.

Which individuals in my life should I detach myself from? Sever connections with anyone or anything that is burdening you.

Am I fully present in the present moment or am I preoccupied with thoughts of the future? If the latter is true, I will release those thoughts and direct my attention solely to the present, embracing each moment as it comes.

Taking some time to go over these questions, whether individually or as a group, can be a beneficial way to refresh your thoughts and begin your day with a clear mind.

Intention Setting

Setting intentions in the morning helps to guide your actions throughout the day, aligning them with your inner values and goals. This practice helps maintain focus and clarity, reduces decision fatigue, and increases intuitive decision-making.

After completing your morning meditation or journaling session, take some time to ponder what you aim to achieve or the emotions you desire to experience throughout the day. Establish one to three concise objectives.

Lifestyle Habits

Eating a well-balanced diet gives your brain the necessary fuel for optimal functioning, whereas maintaining sufficient hydration prevents tiredness and enhances mental sharpness. Start your day with a healthy and nutritious breakfast, accompanied by a glass of water. Remember to stay hydrated consistently throughout the day.

Start the day with a digital detox. Delaying morning email and social media check-ins can prevent the immediate stress response and cognitive overload, allowing you to begin your day with a clearer, more intuitive mindset. Set a specific time to start checking your phone or computer, and at least the first hour or two of your day will be free of digital input and toxic trolls.

By incorporating these activities into your morning routine, you establish a strong sense of intuition and clear thinking, which will assist you in effortlessly dealing with the challenges of everyday life. Explore different spiritual practices and lifestyle habits to discover what aligns with you and seamlessly fits into your mornings. Witness the amazing transformation these practices have on your daily life: smoother days, a greater sense of purpose, and a peaceful night’s sleep. It is your inherent right to live a content and fulfilling life.

How to Replace Nighttime Overthinking with Morning Clarity

Do you often find yourself struggling to fall asleep because your mind is filled with thoughts and worries? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many people experience nighttime overthinking, which can lead to restless nights and groggy mornings. However, there are steps you can take to replace nighttime overthinking with a clear and focused mindset in the morning. In this article, we will explore effective strategies to help you achieve a more peaceful and productive sleep.

1. Create a consistent bedtime routine: Establishing a regular routine before bed can signal to your body that it’s time to wind down and prepare for sleep. Engage in relaxing activities such as reading, taking a warm bath, or practicing meditation. Avoid stimulating activities like watching TV or using electronic devices, as they can interfere with your ability to fall asleep.

2. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being fully present in the moment without judgment. By focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, you can reduce nighttime overthinking. Try incorporating mindfulness techniques into your daily routine, such as deep breathing exercises or guided meditation, to cultivate a calmer mind.

3. Write in a journal before bed: Putting your thoughts and worries down on paper can help release them from your mind. Journaling allows you to externalize your concerns and gain perspective on them. By acknowledging and addressing your worries in writing, you can prevent them from spiraling into nighttime overthinking.

4. Designate a worry period: Instead of allowing your mind to wander freely at night, set aside a specific time during the day to focus on your concerns. Dedicate 15-30 minutes to actively think about and address these worries. By confining your worries to this designated time, you can prevent them from intruding on your sleep and have a more restful night.

5. Challenge negative thoughts: Nighttime overthinking often involves negative thoughts and self-criticism. Learn to identify and challenge these negative thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on evidence or if there might be alternative explanations. Replace negative thoughts with more positive and realistic ones. This cognitive restructuring can help alleviate anxiety and promote a more peaceful mindset.

6. Make a to-do list: Sometimes, overthinking at night arises from a fear of forgetting important tasks or responsibilities. To ease this worry, create a to-do list before bed. Write down all the tasks you need to accomplish the next day, allowing your mind to rest knowing that you won’t forget anything important.

7. Incorporate relaxation techniques: Include relaxation techniques in your nighttime routine to promote a calm and restful sleep. Deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, or listening to soothing music can help relax your body and mind, making it easier to let go of overthinking and fall asleep.

8. Limit caffeine and alcohol intake: Both caffeine and alcohol can disrupt your sleep patterns and contribute to nighttime overthinking. Limit your consumption of these substances, especially in the evening, to ensure a more restful sleep.

9. Create a sleep-friendly environment: Transform your bedroom into a peaceful haven for sleep by creating a comfortable environment. Keep the room cool, dark, and quiet. Invest in a supportive mattress and pillows, use blackout curtains or an eye mask, and consider using white noise machines or earplugs to block out any disturbing sounds.

10. Seek professional help if needed: If nighttime overthinking persists despite your best efforts, seeking professional help may be beneficial. A therapist or counselor can offer guidance and support in managing anxiety and overthinking, and help you develop effective coping strategies based on your unique needs.

By implementing these strategies, you can replace nighttime overthinking with morning clarity. Remember, changing deep-rooted thought patterns takes time and practice, so be patient with yourself. With persistence and a commitment to self-care, you can enjoy more restful nights and wake up with a clear and focused mind ready to take on the day.

Sometimes in life, we can experience extreme highs and lows, going from feeling ecstatic to completely shattered. Life can be difficult, but Spirit emphasizes that our attitude is crucial in how we navigate through it.

The ups and downs of life’s emotions are a natural aspect of being human. Nonetheless, by adopting a positive mindset, we can turn this journey into a chance to evolve, gain knowledge, and experience deep spiritual enlightenment. Selecting the right attitude has the power to alleviate the intense fluctuations of life’s emotional ride.

Our soul purpose requires that there be times of great happiness and deep sorrow, for it is through successes and hardships that we learn how to evolve spiritually.

When we make the decision to have faith in the process and accept our journey with a positive mindset, it becomes simpler to handle the stressful challenges and responsibilities of daily life.

The way we view the highs and lows of life has a significant impact on our experiences. Having a positive attitude can help us better manage the emotional difficulties that come with challenges. It’s similar to adding a cushion to a roller coaster seat – it doesn’t eliminate the dips and drops, but it does make the ride more tolerable.

We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude ~ Charles R. Swindoll

The spiritual wisdom of embracing life with the right attitude is not a new concept. Since the dawn of civilization, ancient philosophers, enlightened gurus, and wise sages have recognized and taught this truth. Their teachings echo through the ages, reminding us that while we may not have control over the events that unfold in our lives, we do have control over how we respond to them.

The significance of attitude in navigating life has been emphasized by spiritual traditions and teachings for a long time. Our journey as souls is meant to include a range of experiences, both joyful and sorrowful. This duality is not a mistake, but rather it is a part of our existence that helps us evolve spiritually. Success and hardship work together to push us forward on our spiritual path, providing valuable lessons that aid in our personal growth.

Attitude Is A Choice

We all know people who seem hardwired to always walk on the sunny side of the street and see the glass as half full. But we also know many cynical people who focus primarily on the doom and gloom. They allow their present circumstances to define their future. These self-limiting people bring everyone down because they choose to be frustrated and unhappy.

Our outlook on life is a conscious decision. Despite any situation, certain individuals have the ability to approach each day with conviction, whereas others anticipate the worst outcomes. Gradually, this persistent negativity affects one’s mental state and magnifies the perception of life as a perpetual struggle, even during positive moments.

Choosing to have a positive mindset doesn’t involve disregarding the hardships and difficulties we encounter in life. Instead, it means placing trust in the process and accepting our life’s journey with hopeful determination. By doing this, we allow ourselves to delve into a greater comprehension of the meaning behind our experiences and gain the fortitude to gracefully navigate through them.

The quality of your life is not predominantly influenced by the circumstances that come your way, but rather by your perspective and approach towards life. It is not solely about the events that occur, but about how you perceive and interpret them in your mind.

Attitude Is A Habit

Attitude is simply a habit or learned behavior, so it is always possible to make some changes to improve your outlook on life. Many of us also need to work on raising our “level of deservingness. If you are surrounded by many doomsayers and naysayers who want to keep you in your current state of negativity, don’t be afraid to stand up and assert your position in this world.

It is crucial to understand that as a spiritual being, you possess the divine power to create, draw in, and bring about anything you set your mind to, whether it be positive or negative outcomes. If you maintain a defeated, victimized, self-pitying, lacking, or resentful mindset, you will still experience a result, though not necessarily the desired one. By concentrating on positive aspects, you will attract more positive things into your life. Take a moment to observe your accomplishments and manifestations thus far. If you find them unsatisfactory, make the decision at this very moment to focus more on your desired achievements, rather than fixating on your current surroundings.

By developing a positive mindset, we not only reduce the influence of difficulties in life, but also enhance our capacity to find happiness and satisfaction. It empowers us to confront the everyday stresses with calmness and belief, recognizing that every encounter, whether positive or negative, contributes towards our spiritual growth.

After deciding to alter your perspective, how can you develop a more positive mindset towards life? Spirit suggests that it begins with two important habits: expressing gratitude and practicing mindfulness. These habits are essential for fostering a positive attitude towards the obstacles we face, as they help us change how we perceive adversity and increase our ability to bounce back.

Mindfulness grounds us in the present moment, allowing us to navigate difficulties with a calm and focused mind, diminishing the impact of stress and anxiety. It encourages acceptance and awareness, making us less reactive to negative circumstances.

Expressing gratitude redirects our attention away from our deficiencies and towards our possessions, creating a feeling of abundance and contentment. When we acknowledge the positive aspects of our existence, even in difficult situations, we nurture a hopeful perspective that has the potential to turn obstacles into chances for personal development.

The combination of being mindful and grateful enhances our ability to cope with challenges in a positive and graceful manner, leading to a better quality of life and well-being.

External things are constantly changing. They can be lost at any moment. But the good news is that the real source of happiness is not outside us. It’s within us. It arises from our mental attitude ~ Dalai Lama

How To Practice Gratitude

Gratitude is commonly misunderstood as mere constant expression of gratitude through saying “thank you”, but it goes beyond being a polite gesture or a temporary feeling of appreciation. Fundamentally, true spiritual gratitude involves deeply acknowledging the interconnectedness of all things and recognizing the divine abundance that exists in our lives.

True gratitude is a deep sense of joy, appreciation, and fulfillment that envelops us as we begin to see the beauty and value in every moment, every experience, and the many blessings in our lives, both great and small.

From a metaphysical perspective, gratitude serves as an energetic magnet for positive outcomes and experiences. It raises our vibrational focus from what we lack to what we have, from scarcity to abundance. This shift in perspective not only enhances our mental and emotional well-being, but also aligns us more closely with our spiritual essence. By practicing gratitude, we cultivate a heart and mind that is open and receptive, ready to receive the blessings that life has to offer.

Here are a few methods to start incorporating gratitude into your everyday routine:

Start your day by expressing gratitude for the opportunity to experience a new day. Take a few moments each morning to contemplate and appreciate the different aspects of your life that bring you joy and fulfillment. This could be something as simple as acknowledging the sun’s warmth, the comfort of your bed, or the love of your dear ones. Another impactful way to begin your day is to express gratitude through a prayer, recognizing the blessing of another day of life and the joys it brings. By embracing a thankful mindset in the morning, you set a positive tone for the remainder of the day.

Keeping a gratitude journal is a highly effective method to nurture gratitude. Begin a gratitude journal to ponder upon your productive interactions, achievements, milestones, and outcomes. Every day, find something positive to jot down in your journal. It could be something as minor as a raindrop on a leaf or as significant as a long-awaited success. Every expression of gratitude matters. Eventually, this habit not only heightens your awareness of the blessings in your life but also acts as a reminder of the abundance that envelops you, particularly in difficult times.

Expressing Gratitude: Gratitude grows exponentially when it is shared. Make it a habit to express your appreciation to others, whether it’s saying thank you for a kind gesture, acknowledging someone’s impact on your life, or simply offering a smile. These acts of gratitude not only brighten the day of those around you, but also strengthen your own feelings of gratitude.

Reflection & Learning: Cultivating gratitude isn’t limited to the good times; it’s also about finding value and lessons in the challenges we face. Reflect on difficult experiences and try to identify how they contributed to your growth or changed your perspective for the better. This practice not only builds resilience, but also helps you embrace life’s ups and downs with grace and gratitude.

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same ~ Carlos Castaneda

How To Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a transformative spiritual practice that can greatly enhance your ability to cultivate a more positive outlook. By promoting awareness of the present moment, mindfulness helps you recognize and appreciate life’s joys, navigate its challenges with grace, and respond to situations with a calm and positive outlook.

Being mindful, showing gratitude, and maintaining a positive outlook are interconnected. When you practice mindfulness, you become attuned to the present moment and develop an awareness of the delightful aspects and blessings it holds. This heightened perception naturally fosters a greater appreciation for life. Whether it involves relishing the taste of a meal, admiring the wonders of nature, or treasuring a heartfelt connection, mindfulness enhances your encounters with gratitude.

Mindfulness also increases your awareness of your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. This heightened awareness can help you identify negative patterns or triggers in your life. With this understanding, you can consciously choose to focus on the positive aspects of your situation or environment, gradually shifting your perspective to a more optimistic one.

Here are a few strategies to start incorporating mindfulness into your everyday routine:

Mindful Breathing: One of the easiest ways to practice mindfulness is to focus on your breath. Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and observe your breath. Notice the sensation of air entering and leaving your body, and gently bring your attention back to your breath whenever your mind wanders.

Body Scan Meditation: A meditative body scan involves paying attention to different parts of your body one at a time, noting any sensations or tensions. Start at the top of your head and work your way down to your toes. This practice helps you connect with your body and bring your focus to the present moment.

Mindful Eating: Turn meals into a mindfulness practice by eating slowly and without distractions. Pay attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of your food. Mindful eating not only increases the enjoyment of your meal, but also promotes a more positive and grateful attitude toward food.

Mindful Walking involves taking a stroll and directing your attention solely to the act of walking. Be attentive to the sensation of your feet touching the earth, the cadence of your strides, and the surrounding sights and sounds. Engaging in mindful walking is a wonderful method to cultivate mindfulness while being physically active.

Daily Activities: Incorporate mindfulness into your normal daily activities, such as washing dishes, taking a shower, or even brushing your teeth. Pay attention to the sensations and movements involved in the activity, and gently bring your mind back when it drifts to other thoughts.

Cultivating a positive attitude is a journey that requires regular practice and commitment. By incorporating these spiritual practices into your daily life, you can begin to shift your perspective, embrace positivity, and open yourself up to a more fulfilling and spiritually enriched life.

Life is valuable. Immerse yourself. Take action for improvement. Adopt a fresh perspective. Begin now.

How to Approach Life’s Challenges with a Positive Mindset

Life is filled with ups and downs, unexpected obstacles, and twists and turns. It is easy to get caught up and let these challenges bring us down. However, with the right mindset, we can learn to embrace these challenges and use them as opportunities for personal growth. Here are some suggestions on how to do just that.

1. Acceptance is crucial: The first step in embracing life’s challenges is accepting that they are a natural part of being human. No one’s life is always smooth sailing, and setbacks are inevitable. By accepting this reality, we can let go of resistance and frustration that often accompany unexpected difficulties.

2. Change your perspective: Instead of perceiving challenges as negative, try viewing them as chances for growth and learning. Every challenge has the potential to teach us valuable lessons and make us stronger. By shifting your perspective, you can approach difficult situations with a sense of curiosity and openness instead of fear or resistance.

3. Build resilience: Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity and keep moving forward. Developing resilience is essential when it comes to embracing life’s challenges. Find coping mechanisms that help you stay strong in the face of difficulties, such as practicing mindfulness, engaging in regular exercise, or seeking support from loved ones. Remember that setbacks are temporary, and you possess the strength to overcome them.

4. Embrace change: Life’s challenges often come in the form of unexpected changes. Instead of resisting or fearing change, learn to embrace it. Change can bring new opportunities, experiences, and personal growth. Embracing change allows us to adapt and thrive in an ever-changing world.

5. Focus on control: When faced with challenges, it is easy to feel overwhelmed and powerless. However, focusing on what you can control can help you regain a sense of agency and reduce anxiety. Identify the aspects of the situation that you have control over and take action in those areas. This proactive approach can help you navigate difficult times with a greater sense of purpose and control.

6. Practice gratitude: Gratitude is a powerful tool for shifting our mindset and finding joy even in the midst of challenges. Take time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for, no matter how small they may seem. This practice can help you cultivate a positive outlook and appreciate the blessings in your life, even when things don’t go as planned.

7. Seek support: Remember that you don’t have to face life’s challenges alone. Reach out to friends, family, or a support group for guidance and encouragement. Sharing your experiences and feelings with others can provide valuable perspective and remind you that you are not alone in your struggles.

In conclusion, embracing life’s challenges with a positive mindset involves acceptance, resilience, and gratitude. By changing your perspective, focusing on what you can control, and seeking support, you can navigate through life’s difficulties with grace and emerge stronger. Remember, it’s not about avoiding challenges but rather learning from them and growing along the way.

The quest to understand the significance of pain, difficulty, and adversity is a deep and ongoing pursuit of humanity.

Throughout the course of human history, our spiritual convictions and theological instructions have provided us with comprehension and purpose in the face of the hardships and distressing encounters of life.

These interpretations provide comfort, guidance, and a sense of peace in the face of adversity as we learn that suffering has a purpose or can lead to spiritual growth, enlightenment, or a deeper connection with the divine.

Our spiritual quest to better understand pain is driven by a deep desire to make sense of life’s challenges and to discover how these difficult experiences fit into the larger tapestry of our existence.

Different viewpoints on pain and suffering are provided by religions and spiritual wisdom traditions across the globe. Each of these perspectives offers its own interpretation of why these occurrences happen and suggests different ways to approach or comprehend them.

These diverse perspectives all share certain common threads: that the origins of pain and suffering lie in the concept of duality; that there is meaning to be found in suffering; and that through faith, reflection, and spiritual practice we can transcend the pain caused by duality and connect with something greater than ourselves.

The essence of the Garden of Eden resides within each of us, although we often perceive it as a distant and mythical past. – Joseph Campbell

Throughout my life, most of my spiritual education has come from the Christian faith. I was raised in a very strict evangelical family that held to a literal interpretation of the Bible. I was also trained and ordained as a Christian minister, so much of my knowledge and understanding of spirituality comes from this religious tradition. However, I remain open to all wisdom traditions and have gained deeper insight into God and spirituality through many other paths over the years.

I have realized that interpreting the Bible strictly as the absolute truth about God goes against its true purpose. By worshiping the Scripture as solely literal and the only source of knowledge and understanding, it unintentionally becomes a “god” in its own way. It goes beyond its intended role by trying to provide answers to all of life’s questions, not just serving as a tool to know and understand God, but to substitute God Himself.

This perspective turns the Bible into an idol or totem. Several passages in the Bible highlight the importance of directly worshiping only God and avoiding the creation or adoration of physical representations or idols. Idolatry is anything that stands above ultimate reality, our direct connection with the Holy Spirit, and our innate love for God.

The Bible should not be worshipped, but rather seen as a valuable resource that can help us develop a deeper understanding and connection with the infinite grace and love of God. It is important to approach it as a tool for spiritual growth and learning, rather than as the ultimate and definitive authority.

The texts in the Bible serve various purposes, one of which is to provide insight into the nature of human suffering, grief, and our capacity for a meaningful relationship with God’s love. However, in order to fully comprehend and benefit from its spiritual teachings and guidance, it is essential to embrace the profound symbolism and allegorical aspects of the text, rather than attempting to interpret everything literally.

These are a few of the discoveries I have made while embarking on my personal spiritual development.

The Story Of Creation

The Genesis creation narrative, well-known to many, presents a depiction of a world brought into existence solely by God. Within this world, God fashioned humanity in the likeness of the divine, within a beautiful and flawless garden, along with two extraordinary trees. One of these trees is referred to as the Tree of Life, which bestowed abundance and perfection upon the garden. The other tree was called the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. God cautioned the man and woman, known as Adam and Eve, that consuming from this latter tree would lead to their eventual demise.

As the story progresses, the man and woman were ultimately persuaded by a serpent to consume the fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. The serpent holds significance as it symbolizes rebirth, immortality, transformation, healing, and life in various metaphysical traditions throughout history. This diverges from the traditional portrayal of snakes I learned as a child, where the serpent was viewed as the embodiment of evil, opposed to God, and maliciously sought to ruin God’s flawless creation by bringing about the downfall of humanity.

Today, I grasp the meaning behind the serpent symbolizing eternal life. In my understanding, within the story’s context, the temptation did not happen randomly or due to an evil presence within the paradisiacal setting. Instead, it occurred as a result of the garden’s intended purpose and fate. As the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil existed from the start, the longing to consume its fruits was bound to reveal itself as a deliberate design.

Banish me from Eden if you will; but first let me eat of the fruit of the tree of knowledge! ~ Robert G. Ingersoll

The Emergence of Duality

The key point to keep in mind regarding the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil is that it is not inherently negative or “evil.” Instead, it represents the introduction of duality into human awareness: the understanding of two conflicting realities within a state of perfection. In the flawless Garden of Eden, there was nothing within human existence that could contradict the inherent “goodness” of their surroundings. In fact, this had been affirmed by God in previous chapters.

After partaking from the Tree of Knowledge, humanity’s initial encounter with contrast arises when they become aware of their nudity. They become conscious of their distinct existence separate from the surrounding world, prompting a desire to protect themselves from this newfound awareness. Despite their mistake leading to further suffering, they exerted strenuous efforts to cover up independently.

Duality is a notion present in different religious, philosophical, and spiritual beliefs, suggesting the presence of two essential forces or principles that shape the fundamental structure of existence. It suggests that the universe, creation, the world, life itself, and even human nature are comprised of or influenced by contrasting elements like good and evil, light and darkness, spirit and matter, or order and chaos.

In many traditions, spiritual duality is seen as a framework for understanding the complexity of existence and human experience. In Zoroastrianism, for example, there’s a clear dualistic cosmology of good and evil deities in constant conflict. Similarly, in Taoism, the concept of Yin and Yang represents interrelated and opposing forces that interact to form a dynamic system in which the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

Duality is mainly utilized to examine and clarify the sources of pain, suffering, and evil, along with the meaning of life and the journey towards salvation, enlightenment, harmony, or transcendence.

The Persistent Love of God

The subsequent event in the tale of creation involves a meeting with God. God actively sought them. When I initially learned the literal understanding of this narrative, I was informed that the “sin” or wrongdoing that transpired after their consumption of the fruit led to a disconnection between the inhabitants of Eden and divinity. It was believed that God and evil could not exist together. However, this initial encounter reveals the contrary to be true. Despite the fact that duality caused them to embrace both good and evil, it did not sever their connection to eternal love. This love persisted in pursuing them even after they ate from the tree.

It still does today. The pursuit of the Divine for the attention of humanity has always persisted and will always persist. I am convinced that this Supreme Love has persistently sought me and is persistently seeking you. Thus, the symbolic image of God seeking the two naked and afraid humans in the garden represents God’s persistent search to connect with humanity regardless of our state of mind or being.

Immortality is what the mortals must try to achieve if they want to live up to the world into which they were born ~ Hannah Arendt

The Serpent of Immortality

The initial act of the Divine was to address the serpent. As a symbol, the serpent signifies the everlasting aspect of our being. Hence, it is crucial for us to grasp that God did not eliminate the serpent but instead subjected it to slither on the ground and created a conflict between humans and the serpent. Furthermore, God proclaimed that human descendants would eventually crush the serpent’s head, but the serpent would retaliate by biting their heels.

Because the snake represents immortality, what happens here is that man’s experience of immortality is diminished or downgraded. It doesn’t disappear or end, which is why it is still expressed in many spiritual traditions and teachings about the afterlife, rebirth, and so on. Immortality exists, but our full human understanding of it is lost or obscured.

More importantly, because of immortality and dualism, there is also good and evil in the afterlife. The only logical conclusion is that the duality we experience in mortal life must also be eternal in the afterlife. Granted, not all religious traditions view the afterlife as dualistic in nature, but it is a common belief in many. This is the nature of the serpent. Immortality exists and is often feared.

God also says in Genesis that the sons of the woman would crush the head of the serpent, but the serpent would respond by biting his heel. This is the rejection of the eternal or immortal nature of our existence, but even though the head is crushed, the serpent (immortality) will strike back. This represents our own struggle with the nature of our human experience and the concept of eternal life.

Humanity’s fascination with death has led to the creation of belief systems aimed at negating our inherent immortality. This is evident in the rejection of any concept of an afterlife and the denial of God’s existence.

The Nature of Pain and Suffering

In Genesis, the subsequent significant progression occurs when God addresses humanity and declares that they too are subject to “curse,” which entails facing difficulties, suffering, and hardship. This encompasses the struggles in daily life, exemplified by the necessity to exert significant effort for survival, as well as the pain involved in childbirth, symbolizing the renewal of life.

I was previously taught that God’s actions in this were driven by anger and wrath, but my current belief is that this is actually a significant blessing. When we perceive pain within the framework of duality, it appears as a dreadful curse. Taking this interpretation literally would lead us to view God as lacking love and reliability. Nevertheless, it is the inherent nature of our dualistic existence that gives rise to such judgments.

Pain is not our enemy. It is an honest teacher, telling us when there is something in our situation that needs to be changed or addressed. Both pleasure and pain are not just psychological states, but spiritual experiences that can lead to deeper insight, growth, and understanding of the true nature of our existence.

Our resistance to pain is represented in Genesis by the symbolism of nakedness. It represents how we became aware of duality, that parts of us are “good” and others are “bad” or “evil. When we resist pain because we conceptualize it as “bad” or “evil,” we are essentially judging and creating resistance. The result of resistance is suffering, which is represented in this story as the expulsion of the man and woman from the Garden.

Instead of resisting the duality in our human existence, we must recognize and accept both pleasure and pain as essential aspects of life, each offering opportunities for learning, transformation, and connection with God. By embracing duality rather than trying to escape it, we achieve a more harmonious and balanced approach to life, recognizing the role of both pleasure and pain in the spiritual journey toward enlightenment, self-discovery, or connection with the Divine.

Helen Keller once stated that even though our world is plagued with suffering, it is also abundant with the triumphs over it.

Birth of the Human Ego

The next step in the Eden story is clothing. To give them a method of dealing with their newfound awareness of good and evil, God, in absolute love, covered them so that they would not have to deal with the shame of their “nakedness” all at once. An insulation was constructed to deal with their “nakedness” in a way that would allow them to exist without having to completely isolate themselves. Thus the human ego was born – a means of experiencing the agony of duality and resistance to pain, which is suffering, without being consumed by it.

The ego is beneficial as it enables us to persist and search for truth. However, the ultimate objective is not ego but being vulnerable and open. It involves realizing that the events unfolding in our lives are neither inherently positive nor negative, but simply exist. The ego serves as a temporary shield to safeguard our emotions until we are prepared to embrace reality without any prejudice. It prevents us from completely disconnecting from what is real, a state known as psychosis.

The Kingdom of Heaven

Spirit also communicated to me that this narrative is not an actual occurrence, but rather a representation of life’s experience. It symbolizes the daily challenges we encounter and our path towards growth. Eden is still accessible to us at present. This is what Jesus intended when he stated, “The kingdom of heaven is within you.” It pertains to the inherent reality of existence and the fulfillment of non-judgment. To attain this, we need to let go of categorizing things as good or evil and instead simply embrace what is, whether it brings pain or pleasure. Pain can lead us to a deeper comprehension of our essence, while pleasure can resonate with the goodness of God within us.

Understanding the biblical creation story in this way resonates with my spiritual path. It may or may not resonate with you. I’m not asking you to adopt my belief system; in fact, I don’t want anyone to simply adopt my belief system. Belief is simply a state of mind that helps us move into a higher reality. It is inevitable that many of my current beliefs are flawed or my understanding is limited. My purpose is to share what I have experienced as a higher reality, a reality that accepts things as they truly are.

Suffering is always a resistance to something that, through our duality, appears inherently bad or good in our experience. The practice I want you to consider is the complete acceptance of what is happening in and around you without judgment. Tell yourself that it is okay. If you feel pain, give yourself permission to feel the pain. Allow yourself to ask it why it is there.

Embracing The Wisdom of Pain

I believe it was only after my father passed away and I had the opportunity to take care of him during his final six months that I truly started to see pain as a teacher and advisor. The sadness that accompanies such a loss is a normal reaction. As I navigated through the mourning process with guidance from my inner self, I discovered the importance of understanding the reasons behind my pain. There were times when I needed to cry, and occasions when I felt anger, but I always accepted and honored my emotions without passing judgment.

As I continue to experience this process of mourning, there are moments where I am reminded that the pain has become more bearable and has even become a treasured companion. It has allowed me to gain a deeper comprehension of life and a more authentic connection with my spirituality.

You couldn’t relive your life, skipping the awful parts, without losing what made it worthwhile. You had to accept it as a whole ~ Stewart O’Nan’

The Return To Eden

I firmly believe that the sole path to connect with God is by embracing both good and bad aspects without making any judgments. Love is achieved through acceptance. To clarify, love means accepting without judgment, and in my perception, God embodies love. God exists in everything around us- the birds, the trees, the walls, the floor, and in each of us. The essence of God’s love resonates through all elements, including our suffering, and consistently guides us towards greater acceptance. This is the genuine essence of faith.

When we accept everything that comes into our lives as the nature of God, we find the Tree of Life again. The ability to experience life fully without judgment, the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.

This could be a novel idea for you, and that’s perfectly fine. Allow yourself some time to ponder, contemplate, or engage in prayer about it. Dedicate a few moments each day to live without judgment, and eventually, you’ll gain a better understanding of your suffering. Recognizing the presence of spirituality is a gradual journey, but my advice to you is to always persevere in this journey.

Let me share another personal example. One of my major challenges was dealing with being overweight in a society that idealizes thinness. I used to view fat as negative and thinness as positive. This perspective caused me a lot of pain for a long time. But when I eventually understood that there is nothing fundamentally wrong with being overweight, my perspective changed and I was able to find peace with myself again. Occasionally, I still struggle with these negative thoughts, but my experience is evolving in a way that now I am living in a state of contentment rather than self-imposed suffering.

In Matthew 7:7-8 of the New Testament, Jesus delivers a straightforward message. He states that if you ask, you will receive; if you seek, you will find; and if you knock, the door will be opened to you. It emphasizes that everyone who asks receives, those who seek find, and those who knock have the door opened for them.

Have patience with yourself and keep going. If you didn’t already have some perseverance, you wouldn’t be reading this. Understand and fully embrace this fact. Regardless of the time it takes to reach a better place, it will always be there, patiently waiting for your return.

How to Deal with Pain: Lessons from a Christian Mystic

Pain is an unavoidable part of life, whether it is physical, emotional, or spiritual. Everyone experiences pain at some point, and navigating through these difficult times can be overwhelming. However, Christian mystics offer valuable insights that can provide guidance and comfort. They have a unique perspective on pain, considering it an opportunity for personal growth, transformation, and a closer relationship with God. In this article, we will explore their teachings on how to cope with pain.

1. Embrace the reality of pain: Christian mystics stress the importance of acknowledging and accepting pain as a natural part of life. Instead of avoiding or suppressing it, they encourage individuals to embrace their pain and see it as a catalyst for spiritual growth. By facing pain directly, we can learn valuable lessons about ourselves, our limitations, and our reliance on God’s grace.

2. Seek solitude and silence: Christian mystics often find solace in solitude and silence as a means of coping with pain. They believe that in the stillness of being alone, one can have a profound encounter with God. By creating space for silence and reflection, individuals can find comfort and inner peace amid their pain. This practice enables a deeper connection with God, allowing us to draw strength and find solace in His presence.

3. Practice surrender: Christian mystics emphasize the significance of surrendering to God’s will in times of pain. They believe that by surrendering our pain to God, we can find healing and transformation. Surrendering does not mean giving up or resigning oneself to suffering; rather, it is an act of trust and faith in God’s plan. By relinquishing control and entrusting our pain to God, we open ourselves to His healing power and guidance.

4. Cultivate gratitude: Gratitude is a powerful tool for navigating pain. Christian mystics encourage individuals to develop a spirit of gratitude, even in the midst of suffering. By focusing on the blessings and gifts that still exist in our lives, we can shift our perspective and find hope amid the pain. Gratitude fosters trust in God’s goodness and provision, enabling us to find strength and resilience.

5. Seek support and community: Christian mystics emphasize the importance of seeking support and community during times of pain. They believe that sharing our pain with others can bring comfort, understanding, and encouragement. By connecting with others who have experienced similar struggles, we find solace in knowing that we are not alone. Supportive relationships can provide practical help, emotional support, and spiritual guidance, making it easier to navigate through the pain.

6. Engage in contemplative practices: Christian mystics often engage in contemplative practices such as prayer, meditation, and reading scripture to cope with pain. These practices help individuals connect with God on a deeper level and find comfort in His presence. By immersing ourselves in these spiritual disciplines, we can find strength, peace, and guidance amid our pain.

In conclusion, dealing with pain is a universal experience. Christian mystics offer valuable insights on how to approach pain from a spiritual perspective. By embracing the reality of pain, seeking solitude and silence, practicing surrender, cultivating gratitude, seeking support and community, and engaging in contemplative practices, individuals can find comfort, healing, and personal growth amid their pain. These teachings remind us that pain is not the end of the journey but rather a stepping stone towards a deeper connection with God and a greater understanding of ourselves.