A client recently discussed her difficulties with managing anger and expressed frustration with her inability to resolve her ‘anger issues’. She worried that her anger would inevitably invite and result in more negativity in her life.

There is value and wisdom in feeling angry, according to Spirit’s response. It is undeniable that at times we become extremely enraged and furious. This is a normal response to situations that oppose our wants and wishes. If anger were not a natural reaction, we would not experience it during our physical existence.

The truth is that all negative emotions are actually a dear friend who is there to tell us something. It indicates that we are out of alignment with our Higher Self, Spirit and the Divine. When we experience fear, anxiety or anger it indicates that we are out of alignment and no longer in the flow.

One prevalent factor that leads to pain is the narratives we create concerning the future. An often encountered story among my clients starts as follows: “I can only achieve happiness when…”

We create a story about the fulfilment of certain desires and then focus more on the result or outcome rather than the process and the present moment. When our happiness depends on the future fulfilment of a story, we are no longer in resonance with the present reality and out of alignment with the universal flow. We are no longer living fully, we are merely playing an impatient waiting game.

Anger is just anger. It isn’t good. It isn’t bad. It just is. What you do with it is what matters ~ Jim Butcher

There are two ways to respond to creating a story. Either we attempt to manipulate every aspect of the situation to make it happen, but this typically has negative consequences. Alternatively, we may have doubts that our desires will ever come true. However, both of these responses contradict the reality that our original desires are inspired by our spirit and it is our soul’s intention for them to be fulfilled.

Our wishes and desires are inherently benevolent and good. They are an expression of our innate ability as incarnated spirit beings to create, attract and manifest. They are conceived by our Higher Self, the Spirit and the Divine, and are therefore meant to be fulfilled!

Our wishes and desires, which originate from a spiritual inspiration, can be distorted or corrupted when we attempt to exert excessive control or prioritize fulfilling our ego-driven impulses. Adversely, these occurrences can lead to unfavorable and damaging outcomes. However, it is important to recognize that our wishes and desires in their pure state are bestowed upon us by a higher power.

If all desires in their original state are inherently positive, as long as we stay in harmony and have faith in the cosmic order, how does anger impact the realization of our divine desires? At first glance, anger does not appear to be in alignment or in harmony with the cosmic flow. How can anger be perceived as spiritual?

To gain a complete comprehension of the significance and benefits of anger (and other adverse emotions) and its impact on the realization of our wishes, we must acknowledge two fundamental spiritual principles of manifestation.

The Mystical Power Of Faith

The first important spiritual principle to understand about the manifestation process is that our life experiences unfold based on our faith and mental focus. As creative spirit entities, we manifest realities based on our personal beliefs. Our beliefs are so powerful that they continually expand or limit our realities. Faith or belief is a creative force within each of us that drives the manifestation process.

This spiritual principle is confirmed in many ancient texts and spiritual teachings. In Christianity, for example, faith is a central concept. The Bible emphasises in numerous verses the importance of faith in manifesting miracles and bringing about desired results. For example, Jesus often performed miracles in response to people’s faith, such as healing the sick or raising the dead. Jesus also said that with enough faith a person could move a mountain.

In Buddhism, the influence of faith is frequently observed within the context of the mind’s role in shaping the world. The idea of “mindfulness” highlights the significance of one’s thoughts and beliefs in determining their experiences and perceptions of reality. According to the teachings of the Buddha, by transforming one’s mind, it is possible to overcome suffering and achieve enlightenment. Another example can be found in Hindu philosophy, where the concept of bhakti or devotion is emphasized. Devotees firmly believe that their loyalty and dedication to a deity can bring blessings, protection, and even liberation from the cycle of life and death. The Bhagavad Gita, a highly respected Hindu scripture, extensively discusses the power of faith and devotion.

It is prudent to channel your anger towards issues rather than individuals, and to dedicate your efforts towards finding solutions instead of making excuses. ~ William Arthur Ward

The Divine Source Of Abundance

The second important principle of manifestation is that we are all connected to an infinite and powerful source of abundance and benevolence that fulfils our desires. Known to us as God, Source, Spirit, the Divine, the Universe, it is a central concept in many spiritual and religious traditions. There is a limitless and omnipotent energy or higher power from which all things come and to which all things return.

As creators of our individual and collective realities, it is essential for us to establish a connection with an inexhaustible source of wealth or contentment. This source, whether universal or divine, is not bound by earthly limitations and possesses the power to profoundly change our lives and the world. By linking ourselves to this boundless wellspring of creativity, we amplify our ability to bring our desires into reality.

Numerous religious practices emphasize the significance of belief and giving up control in order to establish a connection with a higher power. When we let go of our own desires and have faith in the knowledge and kindness of the universe, we become receptive to receiving guidance, assistance, and abundance from an endless source. Aligning ourselves with this boundless source signifies a deep comprehension of the true nature of our existence and our role in it. It prompts us to recognize our innate ability to shape and collaborate in the creation process while acknowledging the inherent sanctity and interdependence of all life.

The Wisdom Of Anger

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Returning to the emotion of anger, it is crucial to avoid labeling it as “bad” since this hinders the process of manifestation. Anger is not inherently negative or positive. It is simply a vibration of energy. It exists without any inherent moral value. All energy present in the universe is inherently neutral. This neutrality implies that spiritual energy itself cannot be classified as either good or bad; it purely exists.

The way neutral energy appears in our lives depends on our intentions, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. When we have positive intentions and take positive actions, we create uplifting and beneficial experiences. Conversely, negative intentions and actions result in discordant and undesirable outcomes.

I am sure you have seen in your own situation that when you try to resist your anger, it only increases or finds a way to express itself in other ways. This can often manifest in addictions, relationship difficulties, violent behaviour and other self-destructive patterns. It is the outer manifestation of an inner reality. The dilemma here is not that anger is bad, but that the vibration of anger (and all the pain experiences we go through) will not go away until its purpose or higher truth is revealed and acknowledged.

When you feel anger, do not attempt to restrain, dismiss, or push it away. Instead, embrace it and inquire about the lessons it can teach you. This process is not based on reason or logic. For instance, at times when I experience anger, it may urge me to cry or scream loudly. However, when I address my pain, I consistently discover that it conveys a message. The message I often receive is that it signifies an aspect of my life where I am not aligned with the kindness of God. Typically, this is due to my lack of faith and confidence in God’s ability to fulfill my spiritually motivated aspirations.

Sometimes, the anger stems from previous experiences. It involves emotional distress linked to past connections. For instance, in my younger years, I faced certain financial difficulties. Consequently, when I feel anxious about money in the present, it often reminds me of those past challenges and suffering. My ego continuously holds onto a fear-based narrative, attempting to validate the belief that the Universal Source of Abundance cannot fulfill my financial requirements.

My ego attachment to this fear-based story from my past is not conducive to my God-given desires. In essence, if I choose to believe that my innate desires for financial prosperity are not good because they may never be fulfilled, then I am denying the reality that they are spirit given. I am out of alignment and trying to manifest with resistance and lack of awareness rather than trusting the flow with an abundance mindset. Until I align with the reality that there are enough resources to fulfil these desires, I will never find actual fulfilment.

If anger is ignored or dismissed, it will only slow down or prevent the achievement of your desires. It will turn into a harmful and negative force in your life. However, if you acknowledge and deal with your anger in a healthy manner, considering it as a message or indicator, rather than suppressing or neglecting it, you will realign yourself with what is best for you and gain the ability to bring your natural desires into reality.

Typically, individuals tend to be inactive when they feel sad. They simply shed tears, dwelling on their circumstances. However, when they become angry, they take action, leading to transformation ~ Malcolm X

Strategies For Expressing Anger

Some possible approaches for effectively communicating and dealing with anger in a positive and empowering manner are:

Acknowledge and affirm: Understand that it is acceptable to experience anger and acknowledge the truthfulness of your emotions. Avoid repressing or dismissing your emotions, as doing so can result in harboring bitterness and resentment within yourself.

Take a moment to stop and think: Prior to reacting hastily, pause for a while and contemplate on what caused your anger. Determine the hidden emotions and thoughts that are fueling your anger, as well as any recurring patterns or triggers that might be present.

Engage in mindfulness: Engage in various mindfulness practices like deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation to bring tranquility to your mind and body. Mindfulness enables you to observe your anger without feeling consumed by it and allows you to respond with greater expertise.

Engage in spiritual practices such as prayer, metta meditation, affirmations, rituals, or ceremonies to cultivate forgiveness, love, and inner peace. This may involve actions like lighting candles, burning sage or incense, or performing symbolic rituals to release anger and invite healing and peace. Repeat affirmations like “I let go of anger and welcome peace” or “I forgive myself and others for any harm done.” Utilize journaling as a means of self-exploration, healing, and personal growth.

Service and compassion: Instead of giving in to feelings of frustration and anger about injustices you encounter in the world, do something to help alleviate or change them. Engage in acts of service, compassion and activism to channel your anger into positive action and contribute to the greater good. Volunteer your time, skills or resources to help those in need and foster a sense of connection, purpose and spiritual fulfilment.

Express your anger in a assertive and respectful manner by using “I” statements to convey your feelings, needs, and boundaries. Refrain from blaming or criticizing others and instead emphasize constructive communication.

Establish limitations: Create explicit limitations that shield you from circumstances or actions that provoke your anger. Communicate these boundaries with assertiveness and consistency, and be ready to uphold them when required.

Engage in physical activity: Redirect your anger into activities like taking a walk, doing yoga, or using a punching bag. Physical activity aids in releasing built-up energy and stress, ultimately fostering relaxation and a feeling of well-being.

Creative outlets: Express your anger through creative outlets such as writing, drawing, painting or playing music. Creative expression can be a healthy and constructive way to process emotions and gain insight into your feelings.

Get help: Consult with close friends, family members, or a therapist to receive assistance and confirmation. Engaging in conversations about your emotions with a trusted individual can provide you with a different outlook and enable you to discover constructive methods to manage your anger.

“A person with a steady mind, unaffected by the threefold miseries or overly excited by happiness, and who is detached, fearless, and free from anger, is referred to as a sage.”

Next time you feel angry, remind yourself that the great spiritual teachers, such as Jesus and Buddha, have all taught us that holding onto anger only perpetuates suffering and separation. Instead, they advocated responding to anger with love, compassion and forgiveness, recognising the interconnectedness of all beings and the transformative power of empathy and understanding.

Jesus, although known for teachings of love, compassion, and forgiveness, did feel and display negative emotions such as anger or frustration. However, it is crucial to note that his anger was primarily aimed at unjust actions or behaviors, rather than individuals personally.

In the Gospels, there is a significant incident where Jesus purifies the temple. The story in Matthew 21:12-13 recounts Jesus’ actions as he enters the temple and removes the people engaged in buying and selling. He overturns the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. Jesus addresses them, saying, “It is written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you are turning it into a hideout for thieves.”

In Buddhist tradition, Siddhartha Gautama, who later became known as the Buddha, experienced various human emotions before attaining enlightenment. While the Buddha’s teachings emphasize overcoming suffering, including anger, through the Noble Eightfold Path and the practice of mindfulness, there are accounts suggesting that he experienced anger prior to his enlightenment.

One such story involves an incident where the Buddha encountered a group of ascetics who criticized him and his followers. Initially, the Buddha felt anger rising within him, but he later reflected on the situation and responded with compassion and understanding. This event is often cited as an example of the Buddha’s ability to recognize and overcome anger through mindful awareness and insight.

Acknowledge, contemplate and channel anger constructively whenever it arises in your life. It has the potential for great wisdom and healing to manifest abundance and prosperity in your life.

The Significance of Anger in Attaining Your Goals

When we consider anger, we often associate it with negative feelings and harmful behavior. However, anger can actually be a valuable tool in reaching our goals and bringing about positive change in our lives. While it is important to handle and express anger in a healthy manner, tapping into its energy can propel us forward and assist us in overcoming obstacles. In this article, we will explore the importance of anger in achieving your desires and how to effectively channel it.

1. Motivation and Determination:
Anger can act as a catalyst for change by fueling our motivation and determination. When we feel angry about a situation or injustice, it ignites a passion within us to take action and make things right. This intense emotion can drive us to work harder, persist through challenges, and remain focused on our goals. Anger can serve as the driving force behind our determination to achieve our desires.

2. Establishing Boundaries:
Anger can also aid us in setting boundaries and asserting ourselves in various situations. When we feel angry, it often indicates that our values or personal boundaries have been violated. By recognizing and expressing our anger in a constructive manner, we communicate to others what is acceptable and what is not. This assertiveness is crucial in achieving our desires because it ensures that we are treated with respect and that our needs are met.

3. Overcoming Challenges:
In the pursuit of our desires, we are likely to face obstacles and setbacks along the way. Anger can be a powerful tool in helping us overcome these challenges. When confronted with an obstacle, anger can provide us with the energy and determination required to find alternative solutions, think creatively, and persist until we attain our desired outcome. It can assist us in pushing through adversity and maintaining a resilient mindset.

4. Self-Reflection and Growth:
Anger can also serve as a valuable tool for self-reflection and personal growth. When we experience anger, it presents an opportunity to examine the underlying reasons behind it. By exploring our anger, we can gain insights into our values, needs, and desires. This self-reflection enables us to make informed decisions and take actions that align with our true selves. Anger can be a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement.

5. Advocacy and Social Change:
Throughout history, anger has played a significant role in advocating for social change and justice. Many movements and revolutions have been fueled by anger towards inequality, oppression, and injustice. By channeling anger into constructive actions such as peaceful protests, advocacy, or community organizing, individuals and communities can work towards achieving their desires for a fairer and more just society.

While anger can be a powerful tool, it is crucial to effectively manage it. Uncontrolled anger can lead to harmful behavior and damage relationships. To harness the power of anger in achieving your desires, consider the following tips:

1. Recognize and acknowledge your anger.
2. Take a step back and contemplate the underlying reasons for your anger.
3. Channel your anger into productive actions such as problem-solving or seeking support.
4. Practice healthy coping mechanisms like exercise, deep breathing, or talking to a trusted friend or therapist.
5. Use assertive communication to express your needs and establish boundaries effectively.

What is your understanding of spiritual maturity? Whenever I inquire about this, I receive diverse responses.

A Baby Boomer I asked said it meant going to church, donating to charities, studying the Bible, and following the Ten Commandments.

When I asked a Gen Z client, she said it meant minding your own business and not caring what others think of you because it is none of your business what they think. She also said she was a Wiccan and didn’t believe in wishing negative energy on others, because she knew it would only come back to her if she did.

At a gathering, I spoke with four individuals who were in their 30s and 40s and accompanied by a young teenager. Surprisingly, despite having varied perspectives, they unanimously believed that establishing healthy boundaries with loved ones is a sign of spiritual maturity and essential for one’s mental and spiritual health. To illustrate, a woman shared that severing ties with a particular friend prevented her from reaching an emotional breaking point.

“I simply couldn’t tolerate the manner in which she treated me. I used to invest significant time and energy worrying about her words and actions. I constantly overanalyzed every harmful encounter with her, and our alleged friendship had a negative impact on my mental well-being,” she described. “Therefore, in my opinion, attaining spiritual maturity entails distancing oneself from individuals who drag you down.”

Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself ~ Rumi

I completely agree. In my perspective, if an individual persists in insulting you, breaking your trust, or causing you emotional harm, it indicates their lack of spiritual growth. Spiritual maturity entails not just having goodwill towards others and avoiding desires for their failure, but actively working towards assisting and encouraging those around us. Personally, spiritual maturity involves ongoing growth, retaining what benefits you and letting go of what does not.

Most of all, spiritual maturity for me means recognizing that I am a soul, a spiritual being having an earthly experience in a physical body, and that this comes with a certain karmic responsibility and a divine duty to myself, others, and the planet we inhabit.

I also loved what my guides made me aware of, that the animal kingdom and Mother Nature have much to teach us about true spiritual maturity. We can learn a great deal about spiritual maturity simply by spending time with our pets. Our sweet furry companions are much wiser and more spiritually aware than many people realize.

I think the most important thing to understand is that spiritual maturity is a journey, not a destination. It is an ongoing process of deepening our spiritual awareness, wisdom and understanding. It’s not just about accumulating mystical knowledge or following certain esoteric practices.

Spiritual maturity is not dependent on age, knowledge, education, or life experience, much like how there are elderly individuals who act immaturely and wise teenagers. I have encountered individuals who have dedicated years to studying spirituality, exploring different religions, and engaging in esoteric practices, yet they still lack spiritual wisdom and maturity. It is not measured by the extent of one’s knowledge or beliefs, but rather by their character and actions.

Thomas Merton believes that the spiritual life does not separate us from the world, but rather guides us to delve deeper into it.

Spiritual maturity is about profound inner transformation and personal growth in one’s relationship to the Divine, to oneself, to others, and to the world. This process involves the following key aspects:

Self-Awareness & Self-Control: Recognizing our own imperfections, emotions, and behaviors and striving to manage them constructively. We must cultivate spiritual virtues and personal values such as patience, humility, compassion, and temperance.

A developed spiritual life is marked by a strong and unshakable trust or certainty in individual beliefs that directs your thoughts and behaviors, even when confronted with tough obstacles and uncertainties.

Releasing and letting go: This concept does not imply being alone or apathetic, but rather, having the capacity to be internally unfettered by attachment to physical possessions, outcomes, or even one’s own pride. It involves relinquishing what does not benefit you and refraining from holding onto ideas and belongings that may bring harm to yourself or others.

Growth & Learning: Spiritually mature people understand that spiritual development is an ongoing journey. They embrace opportunities for learning, growth, and transformation throughout their lives.

Inner Peace: Spiritual maturity is also the ability to maintain peace and inner calm in various circumstances, rooted in a deep sense of connection to the divine or a higher power.

Community & Relationships: Spiritually mature people strive to develop and maintain healthy, supportive relationships and contribute to their community in ways that reflect their spiritual values.

Compassion & Service: A spiritually mature person understands, empathizes with, and selflessly serves others, recognizing the interconnectedness of everyone and everything.

Spiritual Practices: Regular engagement in practices such as prayer and meditation cultivates a sense of connection to the divine, enhances mindfulness, and promotes spiritual reflection.

Taking care of ourselves and practicing self-love is a vital part of developing spiritually. It is important to prioritize our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, as it not only benefits our personal health and wellness, but also allows us to effectively assist and support others.

Spiritual maturity is highly personal and varies widely across faiths, spiritual paths, and individual life experiences. It’s the result of a conscious, ongoing effort to grow spiritually and live in alignment with one’s deepest values and beliefs.

The Lifelong Journey of Spiritual Maturity

Spiritual maturity is a lifelong journey that encompasses personal growth, self-discovery, and a deepening connection with the divine. It is a process of evolving and expanding one’s consciousness, beliefs, and understanding of the world around us. This journey is not limited to any particular religion or belief system but is a universal quest for meaning and purpose.

At its core, spiritual maturity involves developing a sense of inner peace, wisdom, and compassion. It is about transcending the ego and connecting with something greater than ourselves. This journey often begins with a spiritual awakening, a moment of realization that there is more to life than what meets the eye. It can be triggered by a significant life event, a personal crisis, or simply a deep longing for something more meaningful.

As we embark on this journey, we start to question our beliefs, values, and the way we live our lives. We seek answers to profound questions about the nature of existence, the purpose of suffering, and the meaning of life. This quest for truth leads us to explore various spiritual traditions, philosophies, and practices. We may find solace in meditation, prayer, yoga, or other contemplative practices that help us cultivate mindfulness and inner stillness.

Spiritual maturity also involves cultivating virtues such as patience, humility, gratitude, and forgiveness. It requires us to confront our fears, heal past wounds, and let go of attachments that no longer serve us. This process can be challenging and uncomfortable at times, as it requires us to confront our shadow selves and embrace our vulnerabilities. However, it is through these struggles that we grow and evolve.

One of the key aspects of spiritual maturity is the development of empathy and compassion towards others. As we deepen our understanding of ourselves and our connection to the divine, we start to see the interconnectedness of all beings. We recognize that we are all part of a larger whole and that our actions have ripple effects on the world around us. This realization leads us to live more consciously, making choices that align with our highest values and contribute to the well-being of others.

The journey of spiritual maturity is not linear but rather cyclical. We may experience moments of profound insight and transformation, followed by periods of stagnation or regression. It is important to embrace these ebbs and flows with patience and self-compassion, knowing that growth takes time and that setbacks are part of the process.

As we continue on this lifelong journey, we may find ourselves becoming more attuned to the subtle energies and synchronicities that guide us. We may experience moments of profound connection with the divine, where we feel a sense of oneness and unity with all creation. These experiences can be deeply transformative and serve as reminders of the infinite potential within each of us.

In conclusion, the lifelong journey of spiritual maturity is a profound and transformative process that involves personal growth, self-discovery, and a deepening connection with the divine. It is a quest for meaning, purpose, and inner peace that transcends any particular religion or belief system. As we navigate this journey, we cultivate virtues, confront our fears, and develop empathy and compassion towards others. It is a cyclical process that requires patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to embrace the unknown. Ultimately, it is through this journey that we uncover our true selves and find our place in the interconnected web of life.

The quest to understand the significance of pain, difficulty, and adversity is a deep and ongoing pursuit of humanity.

Throughout the course of human history, our spiritual convictions and theological instructions have provided us with comprehension and purpose in the face of the hardships and distressing encounters of life.

These interpretations provide comfort, guidance, and a sense of peace in the face of adversity as we learn that suffering has a purpose or can lead to spiritual growth, enlightenment, or a deeper connection with the divine.

Our spiritual quest to better understand pain is driven by a deep desire to make sense of life’s challenges and to discover how these difficult experiences fit into the larger tapestry of our existence.

Different viewpoints on pain and suffering are provided by religions and spiritual wisdom traditions across the globe. Each of these perspectives offers its own interpretation of why these occurrences happen and suggests different ways to approach or comprehend them.

These diverse perspectives all share certain common threads: that the origins of pain and suffering lie in the concept of duality; that there is meaning to be found in suffering; and that through faith, reflection, and spiritual practice we can transcend the pain caused by duality and connect with something greater than ourselves.

The essence of the Garden of Eden resides within each of us, although we often perceive it as a distant and mythical past. – Joseph Campbell

Throughout my life, most of my spiritual education has come from the Christian faith. I was raised in a very strict evangelical family that held to a literal interpretation of the Bible. I was also trained and ordained as a Christian minister, so much of my knowledge and understanding of spirituality comes from this religious tradition. However, I remain open to all wisdom traditions and have gained deeper insight into God and spirituality through many other paths over the years.

I have realized that interpreting the Bible strictly as the absolute truth about God goes against its true purpose. By worshiping the Scripture as solely literal and the only source of knowledge and understanding, it unintentionally becomes a “god” in its own way. It goes beyond its intended role by trying to provide answers to all of life’s questions, not just serving as a tool to know and understand God, but to substitute God Himself.

This perspective turns the Bible into an idol or totem. Several passages in the Bible highlight the importance of directly worshiping only God and avoiding the creation or adoration of physical representations or idols. Idolatry is anything that stands above ultimate reality, our direct connection with the Holy Spirit, and our innate love for God.

The Bible should not be worshipped, but rather seen as a valuable resource that can help us develop a deeper understanding and connection with the infinite grace and love of God. It is important to approach it as a tool for spiritual growth and learning, rather than as the ultimate and definitive authority.

The texts in the Bible serve various purposes, one of which is to provide insight into the nature of human suffering, grief, and our capacity for a meaningful relationship with God’s love. However, in order to fully comprehend and benefit from its spiritual teachings and guidance, it is essential to embrace the profound symbolism and allegorical aspects of the text, rather than attempting to interpret everything literally.

These are a few of the discoveries I have made while embarking on my personal spiritual development.

The Story Of Creation

The Genesis creation narrative, well-known to many, presents a depiction of a world brought into existence solely by God. Within this world, God fashioned humanity in the likeness of the divine, within a beautiful and flawless garden, along with two extraordinary trees. One of these trees is referred to as the Tree of Life, which bestowed abundance and perfection upon the garden. The other tree was called the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. God cautioned the man and woman, known as Adam and Eve, that consuming from this latter tree would lead to their eventual demise.

As the story progresses, the man and woman were ultimately persuaded by a serpent to consume the fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. The serpent holds significance as it symbolizes rebirth, immortality, transformation, healing, and life in various metaphysical traditions throughout history. This diverges from the traditional portrayal of snakes I learned as a child, where the serpent was viewed as the embodiment of evil, opposed to God, and maliciously sought to ruin God’s flawless creation by bringing about the downfall of humanity.

Today, I grasp the meaning behind the serpent symbolizing eternal life. In my understanding, within the story’s context, the temptation did not happen randomly or due to an evil presence within the paradisiacal setting. Instead, it occurred as a result of the garden’s intended purpose and fate. As the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil existed from the start, the longing to consume its fruits was bound to reveal itself as a deliberate design.

Banish me from Eden if you will; but first let me eat of the fruit of the tree of knowledge! ~ Robert G. Ingersoll

The Emergence of Duality

The key point to keep in mind regarding the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil is that it is not inherently negative or “evil.” Instead, it represents the introduction of duality into human awareness: the understanding of two conflicting realities within a state of perfection. In the flawless Garden of Eden, there was nothing within human existence that could contradict the inherent “goodness” of their surroundings. In fact, this had been affirmed by God in previous chapters.

After partaking from the Tree of Knowledge, humanity’s initial encounter with contrast arises when they become aware of their nudity. They become conscious of their distinct existence separate from the surrounding world, prompting a desire to protect themselves from this newfound awareness. Despite their mistake leading to further suffering, they exerted strenuous efforts to cover up independently.

Duality is a notion present in different religious, philosophical, and spiritual beliefs, suggesting the presence of two essential forces or principles that shape the fundamental structure of existence. It suggests that the universe, creation, the world, life itself, and even human nature are comprised of or influenced by contrasting elements like good and evil, light and darkness, spirit and matter, or order and chaos.

In many traditions, spiritual duality is seen as a framework for understanding the complexity of existence and human experience. In Zoroastrianism, for example, there’s a clear dualistic cosmology of good and evil deities in constant conflict. Similarly, in Taoism, the concept of Yin and Yang represents interrelated and opposing forces that interact to form a dynamic system in which the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

Duality is mainly utilized to examine and clarify the sources of pain, suffering, and evil, along with the meaning of life and the journey towards salvation, enlightenment, harmony, or transcendence.

The Persistent Love of God

The subsequent event in the tale of creation involves a meeting with God. God actively sought them. When I initially learned the literal understanding of this narrative, I was informed that the “sin” or wrongdoing that transpired after their consumption of the fruit led to a disconnection between the inhabitants of Eden and divinity. It was believed that God and evil could not exist together. However, this initial encounter reveals the contrary to be true. Despite the fact that duality caused them to embrace both good and evil, it did not sever their connection to eternal love. This love persisted in pursuing them even after they ate from the tree.

It still does today. The pursuit of the Divine for the attention of humanity has always persisted and will always persist. I am convinced that this Supreme Love has persistently sought me and is persistently seeking you. Thus, the symbolic image of God seeking the two naked and afraid humans in the garden represents God’s persistent search to connect with humanity regardless of our state of mind or being.

Immortality is what the mortals must try to achieve if they want to live up to the world into which they were born ~ Hannah Arendt

The Serpent of Immortality

The initial act of the Divine was to address the serpent. As a symbol, the serpent signifies the everlasting aspect of our being. Hence, it is crucial for us to grasp that God did not eliminate the serpent but instead subjected it to slither on the ground and created a conflict between humans and the serpent. Furthermore, God proclaimed that human descendants would eventually crush the serpent’s head, but the serpent would retaliate by biting their heels.

Because the snake represents immortality, what happens here is that man’s experience of immortality is diminished or downgraded. It doesn’t disappear or end, which is why it is still expressed in many spiritual traditions and teachings about the afterlife, rebirth, and so on. Immortality exists, but our full human understanding of it is lost or obscured.

More importantly, because of immortality and dualism, there is also good and evil in the afterlife. The only logical conclusion is that the duality we experience in mortal life must also be eternal in the afterlife. Granted, not all religious traditions view the afterlife as dualistic in nature, but it is a common belief in many. This is the nature of the serpent. Immortality exists and is often feared.

God also says in Genesis that the sons of the woman would crush the head of the serpent, but the serpent would respond by biting his heel. This is the rejection of the eternal or immortal nature of our existence, but even though the head is crushed, the serpent (immortality) will strike back. This represents our own struggle with the nature of our human experience and the concept of eternal life.

Humanity’s fascination with death has led to the creation of belief systems aimed at negating our inherent immortality. This is evident in the rejection of any concept of an afterlife and the denial of God’s existence.

The Nature of Pain and Suffering

In Genesis, the subsequent significant progression occurs when God addresses humanity and declares that they too are subject to “curse,” which entails facing difficulties, suffering, and hardship. This encompasses the struggles in daily life, exemplified by the necessity to exert significant effort for survival, as well as the pain involved in childbirth, symbolizing the renewal of life.

I was previously taught that God’s actions in this were driven by anger and wrath, but my current belief is that this is actually a significant blessing. When we perceive pain within the framework of duality, it appears as a dreadful curse. Taking this interpretation literally would lead us to view God as lacking love and reliability. Nevertheless, it is the inherent nature of our dualistic existence that gives rise to such judgments.

Pain is not our enemy. It is an honest teacher, telling us when there is something in our situation that needs to be changed or addressed. Both pleasure and pain are not just psychological states, but spiritual experiences that can lead to deeper insight, growth, and understanding of the true nature of our existence.

Our resistance to pain is represented in Genesis by the symbolism of nakedness. It represents how we became aware of duality, that parts of us are “good” and others are “bad” or “evil. When we resist pain because we conceptualize it as “bad” or “evil,” we are essentially judging and creating resistance. The result of resistance is suffering, which is represented in this story as the expulsion of the man and woman from the Garden.

Instead of resisting the duality in our human existence, we must recognize and accept both pleasure and pain as essential aspects of life, each offering opportunities for learning, transformation, and connection with God. By embracing duality rather than trying to escape it, we achieve a more harmonious and balanced approach to life, recognizing the role of both pleasure and pain in the spiritual journey toward enlightenment, self-discovery, or connection with the Divine.

Helen Keller once stated that even though our world is plagued with suffering, it is also abundant with the triumphs over it.

Birth of the Human Ego

The next step in the Eden story is clothing. To give them a method of dealing with their newfound awareness of good and evil, God, in absolute love, covered them so that they would not have to deal with the shame of their “nakedness” all at once. An insulation was constructed to deal with their “nakedness” in a way that would allow them to exist without having to completely isolate themselves. Thus the human ego was born – a means of experiencing the agony of duality and resistance to pain, which is suffering, without being consumed by it.

The ego is beneficial as it enables us to persist and search for truth. However, the ultimate objective is not ego but being vulnerable and open. It involves realizing that the events unfolding in our lives are neither inherently positive nor negative, but simply exist. The ego serves as a temporary shield to safeguard our emotions until we are prepared to embrace reality without any prejudice. It prevents us from completely disconnecting from what is real, a state known as psychosis.

The Kingdom of Heaven

Spirit also communicated to me that this narrative is not an actual occurrence, but rather a representation of life’s experience. It symbolizes the daily challenges we encounter and our path towards growth. Eden is still accessible to us at present. This is what Jesus intended when he stated, “The kingdom of heaven is within you.” It pertains to the inherent reality of existence and the fulfillment of non-judgment. To attain this, we need to let go of categorizing things as good or evil and instead simply embrace what is, whether it brings pain or pleasure. Pain can lead us to a deeper comprehension of our essence, while pleasure can resonate with the goodness of God within us.

Understanding the biblical creation story in this way resonates with my spiritual path. It may or may not resonate with you. I’m not asking you to adopt my belief system; in fact, I don’t want anyone to simply adopt my belief system. Belief is simply a state of mind that helps us move into a higher reality. It is inevitable that many of my current beliefs are flawed or my understanding is limited. My purpose is to share what I have experienced as a higher reality, a reality that accepts things as they truly are.

Suffering is always a resistance to something that, through our duality, appears inherently bad or good in our experience. The practice I want you to consider is the complete acceptance of what is happening in and around you without judgment. Tell yourself that it is okay. If you feel pain, give yourself permission to feel the pain. Allow yourself to ask it why it is there.

Embracing The Wisdom of Pain

I believe it was only after my father passed away and I had the opportunity to take care of him during his final six months that I truly started to see pain as a teacher and advisor. The sadness that accompanies such a loss is a normal reaction. As I navigated through the mourning process with guidance from my inner self, I discovered the importance of understanding the reasons behind my pain. There were times when I needed to cry, and occasions when I felt anger, but I always accepted and honored my emotions without passing judgment.

As I continue to experience this process of mourning, there are moments where I am reminded that the pain has become more bearable and has even become a treasured companion. It has allowed me to gain a deeper comprehension of life and a more authentic connection with my spirituality.

You couldn’t relive your life, skipping the awful parts, without losing what made it worthwhile. You had to accept it as a whole ~ Stewart O’Nan’

The Return To Eden

I firmly believe that the sole path to connect with God is by embracing both good and bad aspects without making any judgments. Love is achieved through acceptance. To clarify, love means accepting without judgment, and in my perception, God embodies love. God exists in everything around us- the birds, the trees, the walls, the floor, and in each of us. The essence of God’s love resonates through all elements, including our suffering, and consistently guides us towards greater acceptance. This is the genuine essence of faith.

When we accept everything that comes into our lives as the nature of God, we find the Tree of Life again. The ability to experience life fully without judgment, the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.

This could be a novel idea for you, and that’s perfectly fine. Allow yourself some time to ponder, contemplate, or engage in prayer about it. Dedicate a few moments each day to live without judgment, and eventually, you’ll gain a better understanding of your suffering. Recognizing the presence of spirituality is a gradual journey, but my advice to you is to always persevere in this journey.

Let me share another personal example. One of my major challenges was dealing with being overweight in a society that idealizes thinness. I used to view fat as negative and thinness as positive. This perspective caused me a lot of pain for a long time. But when I eventually understood that there is nothing fundamentally wrong with being overweight, my perspective changed and I was able to find peace with myself again. Occasionally, I still struggle with these negative thoughts, but my experience is evolving in a way that now I am living in a state of contentment rather than self-imposed suffering.

In Matthew 7:7-8 of the New Testament, Jesus delivers a straightforward message. He states that if you ask, you will receive; if you seek, you will find; and if you knock, the door will be opened to you. It emphasizes that everyone who asks receives, those who seek find, and those who knock have the door opened for them.

Have patience with yourself and keep going. If you didn’t already have some perseverance, you wouldn’t be reading this. Understand and fully embrace this fact. Regardless of the time it takes to reach a better place, it will always be there, patiently waiting for your return.

How to Deal with Pain: Lessons from a Christian Mystic

Pain is an unavoidable part of life, whether it is physical, emotional, or spiritual. Everyone experiences pain at some point, and navigating through these difficult times can be overwhelming. However, Christian mystics offer valuable insights that can provide guidance and comfort. They have a unique perspective on pain, considering it an opportunity for personal growth, transformation, and a closer relationship with God. In this article, we will explore their teachings on how to cope with pain.

1. Embrace the reality of pain: Christian mystics stress the importance of acknowledging and accepting pain as a natural part of life. Instead of avoiding or suppressing it, they encourage individuals to embrace their pain and see it as a catalyst for spiritual growth. By facing pain directly, we can learn valuable lessons about ourselves, our limitations, and our reliance on God’s grace.

2. Seek solitude and silence: Christian mystics often find solace in solitude and silence as a means of coping with pain. They believe that in the stillness of being alone, one can have a profound encounter with God. By creating space for silence and reflection, individuals can find comfort and inner peace amid their pain. This practice enables a deeper connection with God, allowing us to draw strength and find solace in His presence.

3. Practice surrender: Christian mystics emphasize the significance of surrendering to God’s will in times of pain. They believe that by surrendering our pain to God, we can find healing and transformation. Surrendering does not mean giving up or resigning oneself to suffering; rather, it is an act of trust and faith in God’s plan. By relinquishing control and entrusting our pain to God, we open ourselves to His healing power and guidance.

4. Cultivate gratitude: Gratitude is a powerful tool for navigating pain. Christian mystics encourage individuals to develop a spirit of gratitude, even in the midst of suffering. By focusing on the blessings and gifts that still exist in our lives, we can shift our perspective and find hope amid the pain. Gratitude fosters trust in God’s goodness and provision, enabling us to find strength and resilience.

5. Seek support and community: Christian mystics emphasize the importance of seeking support and community during times of pain. They believe that sharing our pain with others can bring comfort, understanding, and encouragement. By connecting with others who have experienced similar struggles, we find solace in knowing that we are not alone. Supportive relationships can provide practical help, emotional support, and spiritual guidance, making it easier to navigate through the pain.

6. Engage in contemplative practices: Christian mystics often engage in contemplative practices such as prayer, meditation, and reading scripture to cope with pain. These practices help individuals connect with God on a deeper level and find comfort in His presence. By immersing ourselves in these spiritual disciplines, we can find strength, peace, and guidance amid our pain.

In conclusion, dealing with pain is a universal experience. Christian mystics offer valuable insights on how to approach pain from a spiritual perspective. By embracing the reality of pain, seeking solitude and silence, practicing surrender, cultivating gratitude, seeking support and community, and engaging in contemplative practices, individuals can find comfort, healing, and personal growth amid their pain. These teachings remind us that pain is not the end of the journey but rather a stepping stone towards a deeper connection with God and a greater understanding of ourselves.

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