The Tale of a Cursed Sorceress’s Misguided Affection
Long ago, there was a benevolent witch named Wanda. Despite her occasionally fiery nature, her intentions were mostly noble.
For many years, Wanda enjoyed a comfortable life alongside her partner, Colwyn the Brave, in a joyful and satisfying relationship.
Then one day, unexpectedly, Colwyn declared that he was ending their partnership. Though he professed his love for Wanda, he explained that he no longer felt the romantic or emotional connection required for their relationship.
But Wanda was no naive soul. Fee-fi-fo-fum, she sensed with the sting of her thumb…that he was not being truthful! The reality was that he had chosen to leave her for her so-called best friend, Suvanna the Enchantress.
Wanda was heartbroken. She had invested over twenty years in this man, supporting him through thick and thin. The treachery of her friend only compounded her heartbreak.
Confronted with the pain he had inflicted, Colwyn attempted to console Wanda, telling her that one day she would find someone who would bring her far more happiness than he could.
But his words were of no comfort. Wanda’s heart was shattered, and she was furious.
Then, she remembered…she was a witch. She had the power to change things, especially with her sisterhood of witches by her side.
“I will win him back,” she swore, shaking her fist. “If needed, I will move mountains to achieve this.”
With her coven’s backing, Wanda began to harness magic to reclaim Colwyn. Together, they crafted an intricate spell, aware that it would take time to manifest, yet Wanda was willing to wait. Every aspect had to be flawless: syncing the moon phase for the ritual, preparing the chants, concocting the most potent love potion with the perfect blend of herbs and essential oils for optimal results.
Wanda didn’t just want Colwyn back; she wanted to ensure he would truly remain with her. She was immensely satisfied with her strategy.
However, while strolling through the enchanted woods near her home one day, she encountered the Wise Woman of the Woods. Filled with enthusiasm, Wanda bravely shared her plan to reclaim Colwyn. The Wise Woman listened closely, then sighed and shook her head.
“You may wield magical powers, my dear,” she stated, “but are you wielding them wisely? Power is wonderful, but only if it’s used with care.”
Wanda felt both surprised and slightly irritated. The old woman’s candor caught her off guard, yet her words resonated deeply.
“Be aware and consider this,” the wise crone continued. “You are acting against a man’s free will. Yes, you can influence his thoughts and actions to return, but his heart won’t truly belong to you.”
Wanda began to ponder whether she genuinely wanted to be with someone who didn’t wholeheartedly choose her? Could she face a man every day knowing he was with her out of coercion rather than genuine affection?
After much reflection, Wanda came to the realization that this wasn’t her true desire. To the shock of her coven, she canceled her magical endeavors and allowed Colwyn to follow his own path, free from her influence.
Colwyn never returned to Wanda. Instead, he moved on with another person (after later abandoning the duplicitous Suvanna). And Wanda too moved on. In time, both rediscovered happiness, proving that sometimes letting go is the most beneficial step. And just like fairy tales, they all found their happiness, except perhaps Suvanna, who vanished without a trace.
Whether the story above is a fable or not, it imparts an essential lesson: at times, we must release what we’ve held onto, even when it feels insurmountable, for the greater good of everyone involved. How do we achieve this, especially when love lingers? Consider the sage advice below:
No Contact: Minimize or cut off all communication with your ex. Ongoing interactions only heighten feelings, reopen wounds, and hinder your ability to move forward. Establish physical and digital boundaries by unfollowing or muting them on social media. This distance will help you concentrate on your recovery and well-being.
Express Yourself: Suppressing your anger, sorrow, and disappointments won’t facilitate healing. Though difficult, allowing yourself to genuinely experience and process your emotions is a key step toward recovery and getting an ex out of your system. Write in a journal, cry if necessary, hit a pillow with a bat, or channel your feelings through art or music. Emotions come in waves—they ebb and flow, but recognizing them aids healing.
Social Support: Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or colleague for emotional backing. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust can provide great relief. Consider joining a support group or seeking professional counseling if needed. Cultivating a network of caring people will make you feel less isolated during this challenging time.
Spirit Support: Request assistance, guidance, and healing from your departed loved ones, ancestors, spirit guides, or angels. Spirit can provide wisdom and direction, aiding you in navigating your feelings, gleaning lessons from the breakup, and finding the strength to move forward. Invoke Archangel Raphael, the archangel of emotional healing, for comfort. Speak to him aloud or silently in your mind; he will hear you and assist. Picture his calming green light surrounding you, bringing peace to your heart. Remember to express gratitude for his divine help.
Prioritize Self-Care: Redirect your energy from your ex to personal and spiritual self-care. Spend time on activities that bring joy and fulfillment. Engage in regular exercise, meditate for inner tranquility, eat nourishing foods, and immerse yourself in nature to rejuvenate. This is your chance to rediscover your passions and prioritize your happiness.
Energy Healing: Energy healing serves as a potent resource for recovering from a relationship breakup, balancing emotions, alleviating stress, and enhancing relaxation. It also fosters self-awareness, self-love, and compassion while addressing lingering trauma and emotional scars. Techniques like Reiki, acupuncture, crystal healing, and chakra balancing can significantly bolster your healing journey.
Find Forgiveness: Granting forgiveness to someone who has hurt you poses challenges, yet it is vital for your own peace. Forgiveness doesn’t equate to condoning their actions; it signifies releasing the burden of anger, resentment, and bitterness. This act of letting go will lighten your emotional weight and enable you to move forward with an unburdened heart.
Practice Gratitude: Even amidst heartache, there is always room for gratitude. Contemplate the positive facets of the relationship and the lessons it imparted. Perhaps it offered valuable insights, treasured memories, or personal growth. Gratitude can shift your perspective and open your heart to new opportunities.
Rediscover Yourself: In lengthy relationships, we sometimes lose touch with our individual selves. Take a moment to reflect on your interests, hobbies, and aspirations. Which activities or dreams have you set aside? Reconnecting with your true, original self will aid in rebuilding your confidence and fostering a renewed sense of identity and purpose.
Set New Goals: Crafting a vision for your future is one of the best ways to advance. What do you aspire to achieve in the upcoming month, year, or even five years? These goals don’t have to be monumental—they can include small steps like acquiring a new skill, planning a getaway, or undertaking a project. Establishing goals will instill a sense of purpose and excitement about what lies ahead.
Trust The Process: Healing requires time, and there will be moments when progress seems slow or absent. Have faith that letting go is an integral part of life’s journey and that everything occurs for a reason. Trust that the universe has better plans for you, even if they remain unseen. Be patient with yourself; brighter days are forthcoming.
By integrating these strategies into your recovery process, you will gradually find yourself releasing the past and stepping into a more radiant and fulfilling future. Remember, just like Wanda the pragmatic witch, you possess the power within to let go of what no longer serves you and welcome the life you truly deserve.
Lucinda is a skilled Intuitive and Empath residing in a picturesque village in North Yorkshire, England. She possesses a unique gift for comprehending a client’s personal struggles and has faced many obstacles herself, which have only strengthened her! It is both her purpose and her joy to aid those in need. Whenever she seeks assistance, her Guides are always present to support her growth and provide clear insights for her clients. Prediction has consistently served as a reliable tool for her to foretell events accurately, but Lucinda also relies on her expertise in Dream Interpretation, Numerology, Angel Cards, Law of Attraction, and Life Coaching to offer comprehensive solutions to any dilemma. As a member of AMORC and Beyond Freedom Evolution, she offers inspiration, education, and personal support for spiritual growth. If you seek answers or wish to manifest your desires, you can connect with Lucinda at PsychicAccess.com. |