As a psychic medium, I have devoted decades to observing the profound and intricate path of grief.

Throughout the years, I’ve discovered that grief takes on various expressions and takes many forms. It’s not solely confined to death and dying; it can stem from countless losses such as losing a pet, the conclusion of a relationship, a shift in life direction, job loss, or relocating from a cherished home.

My clients frequently express sentiments like, “There’s a void in my heart,” or “It feels as though my heart has been ripped apart.”

These phrases are more than mere figurative language. Grief can be so overwhelming that it feels akin to a physical wound — like a ‘heart attack’ of the spirit. Grief resonates throughout our heart, mind, body, and spirit, impacting all aspects of our existence.

One of the most crucial lessons I’ve come to understand is that grief is profoundly individual. Each person processes it in a different manner. There is no universal “right” way to grieve nor a predetermined timeline.

Some individuals may begin to feel a slight relief after a few weeks or months, while for others, the pain may extend for years or even decades. And that’s completely acceptable.

Grieving signifies that you loved deeply, cared earnestly, and formed significant connections. It’s about more than just saying farewell; it involves cultivating a new bond with their absence, one that honors the love in a different format.

Grief represents both a natural emotional response and a sacred journey. In spiritual terms, it’s a deep voyage of the soul — involving transformation rather than merely sorrow. It transcends emotional anguish; it touches the most profound facets of your faith, beliefs, and relationship with something larger than yourself.

The price of love is loss; and the cost of loss is grief – Yet the ache of grief is merely a shadow when contrasted with the agony of never having risked love ~ Hilary Stanton Zunin

In numerous spiritual beliefs, grief is regarded as a pathway to wisdom and growth. Some view it as the soul’s method of deepening its comprehension of love and impermanence, pushing one towards acceptance and renewal. Others perceive it as a sacred moment, where the essence of loss also embodies something significant — whether it’s the enduring love from those we’ve lost or the epiphany of life’s interconnectedness.

There’s also a mystical dimension to grief: in times of profound sorrow, individuals may become more spiritually aware and receptive to signs, dreams, or sensations that exceed rationality.

It’s essential to remember that we grieve not only for what we’ve lost but also for what never came to be. For instance, when a marriage dissolves, people may grieve the hopes they had for the relationship rather than accepting its reality. This too is a legitimate form of grief.

The Five Stages Of Grief

In her pioneering work On Death and Dying (1962), psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross introduced the renowned Kübler-Ross model, which delineates the five stages of grief.

Denial – This is the initial reaction to loss, where we grapple with accepting reality. It acts as a psychological defense mechanism, fostering temporary emotional numbness to protect us from overwhelming sensations.

Anger – As the reality of the loss dawns, emotions transition to frustration and resentment. We may direct our anger towards ourselves, others, or the situation, looking for something or someone to blame.

Bargaining – In an effort to reclaim control or reverse the loss, we may attempt to negotiate with a higher power, with ourselves, or with others. Common thoughts include “If only I had acted differently…” or “Maybe if I change things, it will improve.”

Depression – The gravity of the loss becomes fully apparent, resulting in profound sadness, withdrawal, and reflection. This stage is often characterized by feelings of hopelessness, isolation, or contemplation of what has been lost.

Acceptance – Eventually, we arrive at a point where we cease to resist the reality of our loss. This doesn’t imply forgetting or feeling “fine” about it, but rather assimilating the experience into our lives and finding paths to advance.

However, it’s crucial to acknowledge that grief is predominantly personal — there is no preset timeline, and healing manifests differently for everyone. The five stages are not strictly sequential; we may navigate them in various orders or revisit certain stages multiple times. Grief can ebb and flow like the tides. One moment, we may feel acceptance; the next, we may find ourselves submerged in sorrow once more.

Triggers, such as a familiar melody, a specific scent, or a meaningful location, can unexpectedly transport us back to the depths of our anguish. Yet, these instances also provide chances for healing. They serve as sacred reminders of our ongoing connection to our lost loved ones.

Moving on after a loss doesn’t equate to forgetting. It involves learning to carry love in a new fashion. A good starting point is granting yourself permission to mourn at your own pace, free of judgment.

Grief resembles the ocean; it washes over us in waves, ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the waters are calm, and other times they are all-consuming. All we can do is learn to swim ~ Vicki Harrison

Charting Your Own Course Through Grief

The following are some suggestions to aid you in navigating grief on your own terms:

Honor your emotions – There is no single correct manner to grieve. Permit yourself to experience whatever feelings arise, whether they be sadness, anger, relief, or even unexpected joy. Don’t suppress your feelings; grief must process through you. Cry as needed. Laugh when possible. Embrace it all.

Grieve at your own rhythm – Grief does not adhere to a schedule. Take all the time you require, and resist any pressure to “move forward” before you’re ready.

Adapt to change – Loss frequently transforms our lives in unforeseen ways. Embrace your evolution, even if it feels strange at the outset.

Find purpose and significance – Whether through spirituality, creativity, therapy, or volunteering, seeking purpose in your loss can assist in steering you through the pain and towards healing.

Reach out and maintain connections – Even if solitude feels preferable at this moment, staying connected with supportive individuals can offer comfort and perspective. You don’t need to grieve in isolation. Contact friends, join a support group, or converse with someone who can relate.

Create personal rituals – Establishing rituals— such as lighting a candle, composing letters, visiting a significant site, or scattering ashes — can help preserve your bond with what was lost.

Engage in creative pursuits and constructive activities – Hobbies and crafts can serve as powerful mediums for processing grief. Try your hand at painting, drawing, pottery, sculpting, woodworking, DIY projects, knitting, crocheting, calligraphy, or journaling.

Honor memories by sharing stories. Look through photographs. Celebrate birthdays or anniversaries in a manner that holds meaning for you.

Listen to your body – Grief encompasses both emotional and physical dimensions. Nourish your body with healthy food, ensure you rest adequately, and gently move your body, even if it’s simply a brief stroll.

Practice self-kindness. Grieving is demanding. Treat yourself with gentleness. Don’t anticipate a rapid recovery; there will be challenging days. Extend to yourself the same kindness and patience you would show a dear friend.

Avoid making significant decisions. Refrain from major life changes in the immediate aftermath of a loss. Allow time for stabilization.

Spend time in nature or with animals. The natural environment and loving pets can provide grounding and calming influences for a grieving spirit.

Avoid major life decisions. When possible, hold off on significant choices in the immediate aftermath of your loss. Take time to regain your equilibrium.

Think about a mediumship session. A meeting with a reputable psychic medium could relay messages of love, peace, and closure from those who have passed. This connection has the potential to mend a grieving heart.

As a medium, I often have the honor of facilitating reconnections between clients and their loved ones in spirit. These encounters can be incredibly healing. Spirits frequently share messages of encouragement; they wish for us to live, find joy, and embrace tranquility. They remind us that they have not truly departed—they have merely transitioned to another realm.

Grief is a transformative odyssey. It reshapes our identities and perceptions of the world. However, it can also ignite profound spiritual awakening. May you grant yourself the grace to mourn and the bravery to heal. Always bear in mind that you are not alone.

Grief is a shared human experience that we all encounter at some point in our lives. Whether it be the loss of a beloved individual, a job, a relationship, or a cherished dream, grief can be a daunting and overpowering journey. Nevertheless, it is also a sacred pathway that can lead to healing, growth, and transformation when approached with awareness and self-kindness.

Here are some suggestions on how to traverse the sacred journey of grief:

1. Allow yourself to experience your emotions: Grief is intricate and multifaceted, presenting itself in numerous forms, including sadness, anger, guilt, and even relief. It is vital to let yourself experience all of these feelings without judgment or suppression. By recognizing and accepting your emotions, you can begin to process and release them healthily.

2. Prioritize self-care: Grief can take a toll on you physically and emotionally, so it’s crucial to care for yourself during this challenging period. Ensure you eat healthily, exercise, get adequate rest, and engage in activities that bring you joy and comfort. Self-care can help you manage the stress associated with grief and preserve your overall well-being.

3. Seek support: Grieving is a deeply personal journey, yet it’s equally essential to seek support from others who can offer comfort, understanding, and empathy. Reach out to friends, family, support groups, or a therapist who can help guide you through your grief and provide a listening ear when needed.

4. Honor your loved one: If you are mourning the loss of someone dear, consider ways to commemorate their memory and legacy. This might involve creating a memorial, writing a letter, planting a tree, or participating in a charitable event in their name. By keeping their memory alive, you can find solace in knowing they will always be present in spirit.

5. Embrace mindfulness and self-compassion: Grief can be a surge of emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations that can sometimes feel overwhelming. By practicing mindfulness and self-compassion, you can foster a sense of presence, acceptance, and kindness towards yourself as you navigate the highs and lows of grief. Take time to breathe, meditate, journal, or engage in other self-soothing practices that can help you stay grounded and centered during this demanding time.

6. Be patient and gentle with yourself: Grief is a journey that requires time, patience, and self-kindness. It’s important to be gentle with yourself and allow your grief to unfold at its own pace. Remember that healing is not a straightforward process, and it’s normal to have good days and bad days. By being patient and kind to yourself, you can gradually navigate the phases of grief and discover peace and acceptance on the other side.

In closing, navigating the sacred journey of grief is a deeply personal and transformative experience that leads to healing, growth, and resilience. By allowing yourself to feel your emotions, prioritizing self-care, seeking support, honoring your loved one, practicing mindfulness and self-compassion, and being patient and gentle with yourself, you can navigate grief’s ups and downs with grace and courage. Remember that you are not alone in your grief and that there is light beyond the tunnel. Trust in the process, trust in yourself, and trust in the healing power of love and resilience. Continue reading →

We draw into our lives what we anticipate. When parents, friends, peers, and most significantly, your own self-talk assert that you are insufficient, unintelligent, or unattractive, and you opt to accept such notions, they become your reality.

Reinforcing these thoughts within your subconscious solidifies this belief until it eventually manifests as truth in your existence. The subconscious accepts each statement it hears as fact, not differentiating between objective reality and what has simply been echoed frequently enough.

Self-talk, whether encouraging or filled with uncertainty, is internalized similarly. The subconscious operates like a curious child: eager to absorb all information, particularly messages that are consistent and repetitive. It hears and learns without judgment, merely assimilating and accepting.

This makes it challenging to distinguish between authentic inner truths and false beliefs established through repeated external influences, such as television content, narratives shared by others, or even our own internal dialogue.

Consider this: you might doze off while watching a cheerful, comedic show. Then, a disturbing war documentary airs. Although you’re no longer consciously engaged, your subconscious continues to process the content. Those distressing visuals and feelings may infiltrate your dreams, creating new fears and anxieties, even though they stem from fiction or someone else’s experience.

This serves as a strong reason to refrain from social media, television, or podcasts just before sleep. In those peaceful, accepting hours, your subconscious takes in everything — and what it absorbs can subtly influence your emotional and spiritual health without your awareness.

The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind ~ William James

The Impact Of Self-Talk

Self-talk stands as one of our most potent tools for personal growth. It carries the capacity to uplift or undermine us. When we converse with ourselves kindly, confidently, and with optimism, we sow the seeds for positive change.

Conversely, if we continually judge ourselves harshly, we erode our own foundation. As the adage suggests, if you often remind yourself that you can, you will. On the flip side, if you repeatedly insist that you cannot, you will almost certainly encounter failure.

It’s also crucial to realize that the subconscious mind captures everything, encompassing what you express to others. Comments made in jest or dishonesty can be retained as truths. Falsehoods can eventually solidify into beliefs and become part of your inner narrative. Over time, these beliefs may resurface to challenge you, as the subconscious regards them as facets of your reality.

Altering Your Thoughts

We frequently hear that altering your thoughts can transform your life. While this is a beautiful and empowering truth, executing it is often more challenging than it seems. You can immerse yourself in self-help audiobooks, read numerous motivational texts, and attend various spiritual seminars and workshops—yet still grapple with lingering feelings of insecurity or self-doubt.

This persistent “but” typically arises from internal resistance or a deeply embedded belief that genuine change is unattainable for you. Authentic transformation does not commence with external lessons; it begins with an internal shift—a profound and steadfast belief in your capacity to evolve, your worthiness of joy, abundance, and tranquility.

Most people are thinking about what they don’t want, and they’re wondering why it shows up over and over again ~ John Assaraf

The Resonance Of Doubt

Many individuals seek guidance in books such as The Secret by Rhonda Byrne (2006), Wayne Dyer’s Wishes Fulfilled (2012), and Gabrielle Bernstein’s Super Attractor (2019). These widely-read works all advocate for the fundamental idea that like attracts like. Your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs transmit a vibrational frequency that draws akin experiences into your existence. When you think positively and emotionally resonate with your desires, you begin to attract those outcomes toward you.

However, what often goes unacknowledged is the focus these authors emphasize on the essential foundation of belief, trust, and inner faith. Byrne discusses the importance of genuinely believing you already have what you desire. Dyer asserts that you must embrace the feeling of your wish already being realized. Bernstein encourages us to fully trust the universe and to feel deserving of receiving.

This, for many, presents the real challenge. Clients often express to me that they’re implementing everything advised by the books—visualizing, affirming, and expressing gratitude—but still feel entrenched. “What am I doing incorrectly?” they ponder. “Why isn’t the universe responding? Doesn’t the universe wish for my happiness?”

During readings, the spirit consistently conveys the same answer: “The universe is on your side.” Followed by a gentle nudge for self-reflection: “Ask yourself instead: Do you harbor even the slightest doubt that your request will be fulfilled?”

And often the reply is a soft, sincere, “Well… yes, just a little.”

A hint of doubt can obstruct the flow of manifestation. When you make a demand of the universe while doubting its feasibility, it’s as if you’re softly saying, “I hope this materializes, but I don’t genuinely believe it will… not for someone like me.”

We attract exactly what we anticipate. Doubt establishes the frequency you emit, and the universe, true to its essence as a reflector, responds accordingly. This captures the heart of energetic alignment. We manifest not what we desire, but what we genuinely expect. What we hope for does not materialize, but who we are does.

We must embody success before it will come to us. We must mentally, in terms of attitude, become the individuals we aspire to be ~ Earl Nightingale

Embracing The Co-Creative Journey

Manifestation represents a co-creative endeavor. You need to fulfill your role, engage actively in the process, and undertake aligned actions. The journey is seldom straightforward. There are curves, bumps, inclines, and dips. Sometimes, it’s essential to carve your own route through uncharted territory to discover places you’ve never ventured before. However, with persistence and firm belief, you will reach your desired destination. Why? Because you anticipate it.

When initiating a journey, you begin with the conclusion in mind. You understand your destination. You chart your course, gather resources, and have faith that you will arrive. You harbor no doubt about your destination; you progress with intention! That confidence and absence of hesitation is what facilitates the journey to unfold.

If you expect less, you will obtain less. When you envision the best for yourself, you pave the way for miracles. Yet remember that gifts do not always arrive in the forms you anticipate. They may manifest as challenges, surprises, or detours. Nevertheless, these too are gifts, frequently leading you to unforeseen blessings and deeper insights.

Foster the internal belief that you are worthy, your aspirations are legitimate, and the universe fully supports you. Treat yourself with compassion and truthfulness. Transform your subconscious into an ally along your journey instead of a reservoir of past limitations.

Anticipate miracles. Anticipate joy. Anticipate the life you genuinely desire, and it shall be yours.

Aligning your thoughts with the life you wish to lead is an essential step in realizing your aspirations and living a satisfying life. By directing your thoughts and beliefs toward your objectives, you can bring forth your desires and craft the life you genuinely seek. Here are several strategies to help align your thoughts with the life you envision:

1. Define clear objectives: The initial step in aligning your thoughts with your desired life is to articulate distinct and specific goals. Take some time to contemplate what you truly want in life and document your goals. Ensure your goals are specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-constrained (SMART). This will provide you with clear guidance and focus for your thoughts and actions.

2. Envision your success: Visualization is an effective tool that can assist you in aligning your mindset with the life you want. Dedicate some time each day to imagine yourself accomplishing your objectives and experiencing the life you aspire to lead. Picture yourself in vivid detail, relishing the success and fulfillment you yearn for. This practice will foster a positive mindset and attract the opportunities and resources necessary for reaching your goals.

3. Utilize positive affirmations: Affirmations are uplifting statements that can aid in reprogramming your subconscious and aligning your thoughts with your desires. Compile a list of affirmations reflecting your goals and recite them daily. For instance, if your aim is to establish a thriving business, you might say affirmations such as “I am a successful entrepreneur” or “I attract abundance and prosperity into my life.” This approach will help you remain focused and motivated on your objectives.

4. Surround yourself with positivity: Your surroundings significantly influence your thoughts and beliefs. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging individuals who believe in your aspirations and goals. Steer clear of negative influences and toxic relationships that can deplete your energy and impede your progress. Cultivate a positive and motivating environment that will help you remain focused and aligned with the life you wish for.

5. Practice thankfulness: Gratitude is a potent practice that can assist in aligning your thoughts with the life you desire. Dedicate some time each day to contemplate the things you are grateful for in your life. This will help you shift your attention from deficiency and scarcity to abundance and prosperity. Practicing gratitude will also draw in more positive experiences and opportunities.

6. Take inspired steps: Aligning your thoughts with the life you crave encompasses more than merely thinking positively; it also entails taking inspired steps toward your goals. Break down your objectives into smaller, achievable steps and consistently act toward realizing them. Trust your instincts and take bold and courageous steps toward your aspirations. This will enable you to synchronize your thoughts, beliefs, and actions with the life you desire.

In summary, aligning your thoughts with the life you aspire to is a transformative practice that can aid in accomplishing your goals and living a meaningful life. By defining clear objectives, envisioning your achievements, employing positive affirmations, surrounding yourself with positivity, practicing gratitude, and taking inspired actions, you can synchronize your thoughts, beliefs, and actions with your ambitions. Stay focused, remain positive, and believe in yourself – the life you long for is attainable. Continue reading →

The pendulum is an uncomplicated yet effective psychic instrument that can significantly boost spiritual growth and intuitive development — when utilized with genuine intent and attuned to the highest good of everyone involved.

From my perspective, anyone can engage in dowsing with a pendulum. It doesn’t necessitate special skills or training — merely an openness to trust and practice. As with any spiritual practice or metaphysical instrument, the essential element is consistent practice, coupled with a sincere desire to achieve proficiency.

Initially, it’s crucial to grant yourself the grace to err. That’s a fundamental part of the learning process.

The journey of discovering how the pendulum works optimally for you is highly individual. There’s no strict protocol to adhere to. While certain books may propose a certain method it’s “meant to function,” I urge you to release rigid rules and expectations, allowing the pendulum’s energy to manifest in a way that naturally resonates with your own vibration. This will invariably be the most precise and effective approach for you.

As time progresses and you consistently engage with your pendulum, the outcomes become more dependable, steady, and lucid. You start to develop a heightened sensitivity — not only to the pendulum’s movements but also to the energy propelling it.

Through continual exploration and commitment, you begin to harmonize more profoundly with your higher self, subconscious mind, and spirit guides. The pendulum evolves into a mirror and a conduit — reflecting your inner landscape and connecting you with dimensions beyond ordinary perception.

A vital point to remember is to set your ego aside. Pendulum work isn’t about controlling the result. It’s about becoming a vessel — permitting the energy to flow through you and communicate in its distinct manner.

Among the various oracles available, pendulums may be the most user-friendly, particularly for obtaining swift and spontaneous answers. You can conveniently carry one with you and easily pull it out for quick yes or no responses ~ Radleigh Valentine

Approach your pendulum with humility, reverence, and clarity. Always set the intention that the information you obtain serves the highest good, both for yourself and for those to whom you are reading. You may not always receive the answer you desire, but if you align with truth and service, you will obtain the response that is most fitting.

A Transformative Personal Encounter

One of my most transformative experiences with the pendulum transpired when I was first beginning to explore pendulum dowsing. It occurred one serene evening when I was home alone. The house is nearly three hundred years old, and I’m the fourth generation to inhabit it, so its walls harbor a profound family legacy.

On this specific night, I was practicing with what would soon become my favorite pendulum – a silver one featuring an elaborate Celtic design – and utilizing a new alphabet pendulum chart.

Intrigued, I inquired, “Is there a spirit with me at this moment?” The pendulum swung decisively to “yes.”

I felt a tingle, not of fear, but of exhilaration. I then asked, “Who are you?”

I allowed the pendulum to swing from letter to letter. At first, it seemed nonsensical, but a few letters in, I was astonished to realize it was spelling out my grandfather’s full name:

S-i-l-a-s-T-a-r-b-e-l-l-L-o-n-g-l-e-y.

A unique and notable name.

I had never met Grandpa Silas in my life, and the thought of him certainly hadn’t crossed my mind that evening. That moment solidified my conviction in the pendulum as a bridge to genuine spirit interaction, and I sought his counsel on some personal matters, as well as a significant decision looming ahead. It was a deeply moving and enlightening experience.

Dowsing is the execution of a human ability that allows one to acquire information in a way that transcends the capabilities of standard human physical senses such as sight, sound, and touch ~ Raymond C. Willey

Selecting & Preparing Your Pendulum

<pChoosing a pendulum to utilize is a deeply intuitive and personal journey. Let your heart lead the way. You may find yourself attracted to a specific crystal or metal, or perhaps to a symbolic design such as a Celtic knot or sacred geometrical pattern. The ideal pendulum will typically "speak" to you — it might catch your eye or feel right in your hand. When held, it ought to feel balanced, comfortable, and reactive.

If you don’t possess a commercially made pendulum, you can effortlessly create one. Simply take a piece of thread, string, or chain measuring about six to seven inches long. Attach a small, weighted object such as a ring, bead, or even a needle to one end. A traditional homemade pendulum often consists of a needle and string. Secure a bead or knot at the opposite end for grip while divining.

Before commencing a session, it’s advisable to find a tranquil, comfortable location where you won’t be interrupted. Center yourself. Take deep breaths, relax your body, and focus on the present moment. This will help align your energy and quiet your mind, allowing clearer responses to emerge.

Mastering Pendulum Reading

The initial step in using a pendulum is understanding how it conveys messages to you. Each individual has a distinct energetic reaction. Prompt your pendulum to indicate what “yes” looks like. Observe its movement — does it swing clockwise? In a straight line? Then ask it to illustrate “no.” Some individuals may also define a motion for “maybe” or “undecided.” There’s no right or wrong here; it’s about crafting a consistent energetic dialogue between you and your pendulum.

Once you’ve recognized your movement patterns, you can commence asking questions. Pendulums are most effective with inquiries that can be answered with a clear “yes,” “no,” or “maybe.” You can also incorporate pendulum charts for more detailed responses. These charts can consist of letters, numbers, months, colors, and more. Various pendulum charts are available online, or you can create your own tailored to the answers you seek.

It’s essential to bear in mind that the pendulum reflects the energy of the current moment. Responses can shift as situations evolve or new information arises. Therefore, I constantly underscore that pendulum readings represent a snapshot of the prevailing energy field — not an unyielding prediction etched in stone.

Factual information alone isn’t enough to navigate life’s intricate challenges. You require and deserve regular doses of uncanny insights. One of your inherent rights as a human being should be to receive mysteriously helpful omens every day of your existence ~ Rob Brezsny

Practical Applications for Daily Insight

The pendulum is not solely for spirit communication. I’ve utilized it for everything from selecting the most beneficial supplements for my health to making everyday choices. When approached respectfully and with reverence, the pendulum transforms into a trusted ally across all facets of life.

If you wish to delve deeply into working with the pendulum, I recommend dedicating 20 to 30 minutes daily for focused practice. This regular time fosters a connection between your energy and the pendulum. As you become more familiar with its movements and more confident in your questioning, your results will undoubtedly improve.

Over time, you’ll realize that pendulum dowsing can assist you in nurturing intuition, alleviating doubts, receiving guidance, and enriching your spiritual journey. Like all spiritual instruments, the pendulum does not bestow power — it aids you in recalling the power and wisdom that already resides within you.

Engaging with the pendulum is both an art and a science. It requires patience, trust, and an openness to work with the unseen realms. However, with consistent practice, it can evolve into one of your most cherished and dependable spiritual instruments.

Most importantly, allow your heart to lead you. Ensure your intentions are pure. Let your inquiries come from a place of humility and curiosity. And let the pendulum swing — not as a fortune-teller, but as a sacred companion in your journey of awakening.

Pendulums have served as a divination and spiritual guidance tool for centuries. They are thought to connect with the energy of the subconscious mind and the spiritual realm, enabling users to gain insights and direction on various aspects of their lives. If you’re keen on using a pendulum for spiritual guidance, here are some effective tips to follow.

1. Select the appropriate pendulum: Pendulums are available in various shapes, sizes, and materials. It’s vital to choose one that resonates with you and feels comfortable in your hand. Depending on your preference, opting for a pendulum made of crystal, metal, or wood is essential.

2. Cleanse and charge your pendulum: Prior to utilizing your pendulum for spiritual guidance, cleanse and charge it to eliminate any negative energy and align it with your intentions. You can accomplish this by holding it under running water, smudging it with sage or incense, or placing it in sunlight or moonlight for a few hours.

3. Define your intention: Before utilizing the pendulum, it’s crucial to establish your intention and request guidance from the spiritual realm. You can hold the pendulum in your hand and concentrate on your question or intention. Alternatively, you can recite a prayer or affirmation to invite positive energy and guidance.

4. Create a connection: To effectively use the pendulum for spiritual guidance, establish a connection with your higher self or spirit guides. You can achieve this through meditation, deep breathing, or visualizing a white light encompassing you. This will aid in clearing your mind and preparing you to receive divine guidance.

5. Pose your question: Once you’ve forged a connection, start using the pendulum to ask questions. Hold it in your dominant hand and pose a yes or no inquiry. The pendulum will begin to swing in a specific direction, indicating the answer. A back-and-forth movement might signify a yes, while a circular motion could indicate a no.

6. Interpret the movement: As you inquire, observe the pendulum’s motion. Trust your intuition and interpret the movements based on your own feelings and beliefs. Remember that the pendulum serves as a guidance tool, and responses may not always be crystal clear or unequivocal.

7. Practice and trust: Like any form of divination, using a pendulum for spiritual guidance necessitates practice and patience. Trust your intuition and the guidance you receive, continually using the pendulum to strengthen your bond with the spiritual realm.

In summary, employing a pendulum for spiritual guidance can be a powerful mechanism for uncovering insights and advice from the spiritual realm. By selecting the right pendulum, cleansing and charging it, defining your intention, establishing a connection, asking questions, interpreting movements, and consistent practice, you can harness the pendulum’s power for clarity and guidance across various life facets. Always trust your intuition and have faith in the guidance you obtain. Continue reading →

Table turning, often referred to as “table tipping” or “table tilting,” is an intriguing method of spirit communication that takes place during séances.

This practice involves individuals positioning themselves around a table, lightly resting their hands on its surface to establish a connection with spirits. The table may then move, tilt, or, in extraordinary instances, float or rotate in reply to inquiries made to the spirit realm.

The phenomenon of table turning rose to fame in the mid-1800s, a period when Spiritualism was rapidly gaining traction across Europe and North America. People were captivated by the potential of reaching out to the afterlife, making séances a popular social event.

During that era, individuals lacked the resources or easy access to mediums and channelers available today. Small circles of family and friends would convene to engage with the spirit world.

Table turning was deemed an entertaining way to amuse guests at social functions and was even classified as a parlor game. Notably, Mary Todd Lincoln, the wife of President Lincoln, is said to have participated in and even organized séances in the White House.

Prominent spiritualists of the time, including the Laurie family and Nettie Colburn Maynard, reportedly joined the Lincolns during their séances. Mrs. Lincoln exhibited a profound interest in spiritualism and mediumship, especially following the deaths of her children, Edward and later Willie.

While accounts of table turning can be traced back to the second century, its surge in popularity during the 19th century is primarily linked to the renowned Fox family in Hydesville, New York. In 1848, reports of poltergeist activities led to strange knocking sounds and the movement of tables.

The applications of table tipping are diverse and rich, unveiling a magnificent world filled with potential — one where this connection with spirit benefits not just you but also those around you who may not even be present at the table ~ Teresa Lally

By the 1850s, table turning had become a widespread sensation in America, enthralling many, and in 1852, two American mediums, Mrs. Hayden and Mrs. Roberts, brought the practice to England.

Within a year, the activity gained tremendous popularity nationwide, leading to fashionable events known as “tea and table turning” parties. Even Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were reported to have attended table-turning séances.

However, there was a notable backlash from religious groups, with clergymen attributing the phenomenon to demonic forces and numerous scientists dismissing it as folly or deception.

Table Turning Skepticism & Research

Michael Faraday, a British scientist renowned for his groundbreaking work in electromagnetism, electrochemistry, and parapsychology, endeavored to apply scientific principles to investigate supernatural occurrences. He performed experiments on table turning and eventually concluded that the movements were the result of the ideomotor effect — unconscious muscular actions causing participants to push the table without being aware.

Yet, Faraday’s theory didn’t elucidate all observed cases. There have been documented instances of tables tilting and even floating without any physical contact. A notable incident was recorded in 1853 in Valleyres, Switzerland, where Count Agenor de Gasparin, a French scholar and paranormal researcher, chronicled a heavy table’s remarkable movements without any direct touch. Even when bags of sand and heavy stones were placed on it, it lifted multiple times before ultimately disintegrating.

The subsequent year, Marc Thury, a physics professor at the University of Geneva and a colleague of Gasparin, conducted his own investigations. Thury reported observing a piano move seemingly on its own, attributing the occurrence to psychokinetic forces from a young boy nearby, who lacked the strength or opportunity to move the piano himself.

In 1869, the London Dialectical Society formed several committees consisting of scientists, clergymen, and laypeople to examine spiritualist phenomena like table turning and spirit communication. Sub-Committee No. 1 specifically documented various instances of table movements and levitation occurring without any physical contact. Some initial skeptics among committee members converted to believers after witnessing the phenomena with their own eyes.

Further evidence was recorded in the early 20th century. Mediums like Indridi Indridason from Iceland and Kathleen Goligher from Ireland were subjects of thorough scientific studies, with numerous observers reporting remarkable and unexplained table movements during their séances.

As recently as the 1970s, researchers such as Kenneth Batcheldor and Colin Brookes-Smith executed experiments demonstrating that tables could move under regulated conditions — some even soaring several feet into the air! Their findings remain a significant aspect of parapsychological research history.

Then the table commenced rising from the ground, reaching a height of about twelve to eighteen inches, remaining suspended and perfectly level. We were permitted … to enter beneath the clasped hands of the sitters into the circle and attempt to force the table down. We both found it impossible to do so ~  William Barrett

How To Conduct A Table Turning Séance

Preparation: Creating the right atmosphere is key. Arrange your table in a serene, dimly lit space devoid of distractions. Employ candlelight or soft illumination to foster a tranquil, welcoming environment. Soft music or incense may also enhance the ambiance.

Gathering: Organize a setting around a fitting table, such as a card table or small wooden table. Table turning is most effective with a small group containing at least two and no more than seven participants. Everyone should approach the session with openness, calmness, and focus. Lightly place your fingertips on the table’s surface — avoid pressing down. Keep your arms relaxed to create a gentle and connected energy flow.

In my experience, every table moves — regardless of size, yet I believe a wooden pedestal table works best. Initially, I used an ornate antique for my first table. After an extensive search and investment of time and resources, I realized that antiques were not practical for teaching table turning classes. One day, while shopping for Christmas decorations, I stumbled upon several cute little wooden octagonal pedestal tables offered at a very reasonable price — just the right dimensions for comfortable use. They work wonderfully.

Invocation: Commence with a brief grounding and protection prayer, meditation, or ritual, such as envisioning a circle of light or an energy shield, calling on spirit guides or ancestors, or surrounding yourself with a protective circle of angels. It’s crucial to acknowledge that all types of spirits may wish to communicate, so seek only the highest, most beneficial insights for everyone present. Dedicate a few minutes to silence or guided meditation to elevate the group’s energy.

Invitation: Ideally, designate one individual to speak for the group. Invite the spirit to step forward and communicate. Keep the invitation clear, respectful, and aligned with your intention. Maintain stillness, attentiveness, and patience.

Activation: Initially, you may perceive a tapping or knocking sound. With time and patience, the table may start to feel vibratory and begin to move gradually. Eventually, it might rock, tap, or lift from one side. Sometimes people find it necessary to stand to keep pace with it. It could engage in a little dance or even traverse the room — with the group closely trailing to maintain contact with the table. If needed, you can ask the table to settle down. Most spirits are eager to oblige and get to work, although some may require several requests.

It may take a few minutes or multiple sessions to stimulate spirit activity, so it’s essential to exercise patience. Sustain a high energy level and steer clear of doubt or distraction. Always prioritize the emotional and energetic safety of all participants.

Communication: Once the table’s activity has stabilized, set communication guidelines, such as, “Spirit, please tilt the table once for yes, twice for no.” Pose clear, respectful inquiries. Observe and be attuned to the table’s movement responses. Avoid coercion — table movement should emerge organically and not be forced.

You might also circulate around the table to determine with whom the spirit wishes to communicate. Occasionally, the table will instinctively move toward that person without being prompted! Once it’s ascertained who the spirit is engaging with, the dialogue can commence. The participant might inquire, “Are you my grandmother?” or even name a relative, friend, or a cherished pet, etc. It’s also valuable to jot down a few questions from each attendee prior to initiating the session.

Closing: Conclude the session by expressing gratitude to the spirit and disbanding the circle respectfully and calmly. Initially, keep sessions brief (not exceeding 20 to 30 minutes).

I’ve had many remarkable experiences with table tipping. The table can move in various ways — lifting an inch off the floor, swaying, and sometimes even going fully upright. While I’ve yet to see a tabletop fall, we’ve observed tables coming loose or developing cracks from all the paranormal activity. (Not an ideal situation for antiques!)

Occasionally, the table will gently tip into a sitter’s lap. I like to think of this as a “spirit hug.” It can evoke strong emotions. Sitters may laugh or cry, but more often, they feel grateful for having witnessed this extraordinary phenomenon.

I’ve even been fortunate enough to join a group of medium friends at a historic table that once belonged to the esteemed spiritualist Harrison D. Barrett. He was a pivotal figure in the Spiritualist community of the 1800s and served as President of the National Spiritualist Association of Churches (NSAC) in both the United States and Canada. His aim was to establish Spiritualism as a legitimate religious philosophy, merging scientific exploration with spiritual beliefs.

Exploring the Captivating Phenomenon of Table Turning

Table turning, also termed table tipping or table tilting, is a captivating phenomenon that has fascinated and mystified individuals for ages. This practice involves a table being moved or tipped without any discernible physical force acting upon it. While some dismiss it as mere trickery or deception, others regard it as a genuine paranormal event. In this discussion, we will delve into the history, theories, and possible insights surrounding this captivating phenomenon.

Historical Overview of Table Turning:

Table turning gained traction during the 19th century as part of the spiritualist movement. Spiritualism emerged as a belief system in the mid-1800s, emphasizing the notion that the living could establish communication with the spirits of the departed. Table turning became a standardized practice during séances, where individuals gathered around a table, placed their hands upon it, and endeavored to communicate with spirits.

The Phenomenon Unfolded:

During a typical table turning session, participants usually form a circle around a table, lightly resting their hands on its surface. They then pose questions or make requests to the spirits, anticipating a response. In some instances, the table may exhibit vibrations, movement, or even levitation. The motions are frequently described as gentle, but they can also be vigorous and rapid at times.

Theories and Possible Explanations:

1. Ideomotor Effect: One of the prevalent explanations for table turning is the ideomotor effect. This psychological phenomenon indicates that unintentional muscle movements can ensue without conscious awareness. When participants touch the table, subconscious desires or anticipations may trigger slight movements, giving the appearance of the table moving.

2. Group Psychology: Another theory posits that table turning arises from group psychology and suggestion. When people congregate around a shared belief in the paranormal, they may unconsciously affect one another’s actions. This collective energy can manifest as table movement.

3. Supernatural or Spiritual Explanation: Some advocates of table turning assert that the phenomenon is authentically supernatural or spiritual in nature. They believe that spirits or otherworldly beings are behind the movements. However, this argument remains speculative and subjective due to a lack of solid proof.

4. Physical Forces: Skeptics often attribute table turning to physical factors such as vibrations, uneven surfaces, or subtle air currents. These elements can cause the table to shift or tip, presenting an illusion of paranormal activity. Nonetheless, this reasoning fails to account for scenarios wherein the table moves against gravity or when numerous observers witness the event.

In Summary:

Table turning continues to intrigue and captivate individuals globally. Whether a result of psychological factors, group dynamics, or authentic paranormal activity, the phenomenon remains a topic of debate and fascination. While skeptics may regard it as mere mental trickery, others find themselves drawn to the potential for connecting with the unknown. Regardless of personal beliefs, table turning serves as a testament to the enduring mysteries that inhabit our world, awaiting exploration and understanding. Continue reading →

Our inner dialogue and self-talk are integral components for enhancing our overall health — in body, mind, and spirit. The narratives we build around ourselves can shape our reality, influencing not just our moods and emotions, but our physical condition as well.

For instance, if we wake up and immediately think, “I feel awful. I’m still so tired. I dread facing the day,” our body will mirror that sentiment. We’ll move lethargically, experience aches more acutely, and reinforce our sense of exhaustion.

Negative self-talk can even impact digestion, metabolism, and immune system functioning since the body responds to the mind’s signals. When we continuously affirm that we lack vitality, the body’s natural response is to slow down.

On the other hand, by intentionally redirecting our thoughts toward a more optimistic viewpoint, we create an internal environment that facilitates healing, adaptability, and energy.

This concept extends to our physical self-perception. If we stand in front of a mirror and pinpoint our flaws, our posture and energy levels will mirror this self-judgment. We may inadvertently select outfits that reinforce a negative self-image and spend the day with hunched shoulders and reduced confidence. Our physical states reflect our self-beliefs.

In contrast, when we engage in uplifting and empowering self-talk, our body responds positively. By consciously choosing to carry ourselves with assurance, even if it feels awkward initially, we trigger a transformation in our emotional and physical states.

Our concern lies with the negative thought patterns that yield uncomfortable, unfulfilling experiences. We wish to transmute our unease into vibrant health ~ Louise L. Hay

The Relationship Between Mind and Body In Healing

The strength of the mind is particularly visible in matters of health and recovery. During medical procedures or health obstacles, our mindset can greatly influence the results. If a person prepares for surgery with the thoughts, “I will be just fine. My body will recover swiftly. I am resilient and strong,” they set up a pathway for a more seamless healing journey. The mind serves as a blueprint for the body to adhere to.

I’ve witnessed this phenomenon personally. Years ago, I was slated for gallbladder surgery. Although initial anxiety was present, I found solace in self-hypnosis and guided meditation for preparation and recovery. In the two weeks leading up to the procedure, I listened daily to recordings aimed at promoting healing, relaxation, and a positive mindset.

Upon arriving at the hospital, I felt calm and collected. The anesthesiologist even remarked on my tranquility and inquired how I managed to remain so relaxed. I simply shared that I was employing self-hypnosis to ensure a favorable result.

The outcome was astonishing. My surgery started at 9:30 a.m., and by 11:30 a.m., I was dressed and on my way home — alert, feeling hungry, and in good spirits. I humorously mentioned having had a “drive-thru” surgery experience. To my astonishment, I never required pain medication and returned to work within three days.

This experience solidified my conviction in the mind’s significant power over the body’s healing process.

Positive thinking extends beyond a mere catchphrase. It transforms our behaviors. I firmly believe that a positive mindset not only benefits me but also enhances the experience of those around me ~ Harvey Mackay

The Research Behind Mind-Body Healing

The capabilities of the mind, positive thinking, and expressions like “fake it until you make it” or “you create your reality” are not simply abstract ideas or hopeful musings. Scientific evidence strongly supports the profound interconnection between our thoughts, emotions, and physical processes. Modern research continues to affirm what ancient wisdom has long recognized — the mind greatly influences the body.

THE PLACEBO EFFECT

One of the best-documented examples showcasing the mind-body connection is the placebo effect. This phenomenon occurs when individuals experience real improvements in their medical conditions following treatments that lack therapeutic properties, such as sugar pills. Simply believing in a treatment’s effectiveness can lead to tangible physiological changes.

For instance, Harvard Health notes that placebos have proven particularly effective for issues like pain management, stress-related insomnia, and side effects from cancer treatments including fatigue and nausea.

PSYCHONEUROIMMUNOLOGY (PNI)

The field of psychoneuroimmunology investigates the interplay between psychological processes, the nervous system, and immune function. Research within PNI has established that chronic stress and negative emotions can compromise immune system function and overall health. On the flip side, positive emotions and actions like regular social interactions have been linked to boosted immune responses.

MEDITATION & PRAYER

Meditation and prayer have long been acknowledged as practices that enhance the mind-body connection, contributing to health, well-being, and healing. Scientific inquiries increasingly validate their advantages and illuminate their profound effects.

Meditation, especially mindfulness meditation, has been shown to alleviate stress, anxiety, and depression. Research highlights its capacity to alter brain structures associated with emotional regulation and focus, fostering calmness and resilience. Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) programs, for example, have demonstrated effectiveness in managing chronic pain and boosting overall mental health. Furthermore, meditation enhances immune response and aids the body’s natural healing processes.

Prayer, often integrated with various spiritual practices, has undergone examination for its psychological and physiological effects. Although the efficacy of intercessory prayer remains debatable, personal prayer is linked to diminished stress and enhanced mental well-being. Research suggests that prayer can nurture a sense of hope, purpose, and interconnectedness — all vital for emotional health. Additionally, the meditative aspects of prayer can foster relaxation and ease stress, akin to mindfulness techniques5.

Together, meditation and prayer provide holistic health approaches that blend mental, emotional, and spiritual components. Their incorporation into daily life can empower individuals to navigate challenges, boost well-being, and facilitate healing.

VISUALIZATION TECHNIQUES

Visualization, or mental imagery, also powerfully illustrates the mind-body connection. Athletes frequently utilize visualization to enhance performance, mentally rehearsing successful outcomes to achieve better actual performance. Patients may similarly employ visualization techniques in their healing journeys, though specific studies on this application remain limited.

Even the simple act of forcing a smile can catalyze biochemical changes that alleviate stress and elevate mood. For example, a study in Psychological Science revealed that participants who smiled during stressful tasks exhibited lower heart rates during recovery compared to those with neutral expressions. Additionally, research noted by the National Institutes of Health indicates that certain smiles can mitigate stress effects, facilitating a quicker return to baseline cortisol levels.

These instances highlight the substantial impact mental states have on physical health, emphasizing the necessity of nurturing positive thoughts and emotions for overall well-being.

You possess abilities beyond your wildest imagination. You can accomplish things you never envisioned possible. The limitations of what you can achieve are solely dictated by your mind ~ Darwin P. Kingsley

Intentional Choices & Daily Routines

While we may lack control over external factors, we can manage our thoughts, beliefs, and self-talk. Each day offers an opportunity to select thoughts that uplift and enhance our well-being.

One of the most empowering decisions we can make is to adopt a perspective that views challenges as avenues for growth rather than barriers. When we reframe obstacles in a way that aligns with our higher good, we elevate our energy and perception.

For instance, instead of viewing an illness as a setback, we could interpret it as a prompt to nurture ourselves more deeply. Rather than dreading a challenging situation, we can affirm our capacity to navigate it with grace and strength.

Here are some suggested daily practices to align your mind, body, and spirit for optimal health and well-being:

Morning Intentions: Start each day with an uplifting affirmation such as I am strong, healthy, and prepared to embrace this day with joy.

Daily Prayer: Connect with your higher self, divine source, or spiritual beliefs through regular prayer to cultivate a sense of support and guidance.

Mindful Breathing: Engage in deep, conscious breaths to ground yourself, especially in moments of stress.

Gratitude Practice: Focus on the positive aspects of your life instead of fixating on what is lacking.

Healing Affirmations: Repeat declarations such as My body is capable of healing. I trust my internal strength.

Visualization: Picture yourself thriving in health and happiness to reinforce positive expectations.

Compassionate Self-Talk: Treat yourself kindly. When a negative thought surfaces, gently substitute it with a more uplifting thought.

Mindful Meditation: Dedicate time each day for meditation to cultivate inner peace and emotional stability.

Although we may not be able to alter every facet of our destiny, we hold the power to shape our life experiences. Personally, I believe we enter and exit this physical realm at predetermined junctures, but within that framework, we possess the free will to shape our path. How we care for our body, mind, and spirit remains within our control.

We can opt to view the glass as half full instead of half empty. We can engage in self-talk that nurtures healing rather than obstructs it. The body responds to the narrative the mind tells — so why not share a tale of strength, resilience, and wellness?

Your mind and heart’s beliefs influence what your body experiences. Choose thoughts that uplift you, and your body will respond in kind. You are deserving of this. Embrace the potency of your mind, and watch as your health and well-being flourish.

The Connection Between Beliefs and Perceptions in the Mind and Body

Beliefs and perceptions are vital in shaping our experiences and how we perceive the world around us. They are intricately linked and exert a powerful influence on our mental and physical health. Understanding the dynamics between beliefs and perceptions can offer valuable insights into the functioning of our minds and bodies.

Beliefs represent the deeply ingrained convictions and assumptions we hold about ourselves, others, and our surroundings. They arise from a mix of personal experiences, cultural backgrounds, and social conditioning. Beliefs can be either conscious or unconscious, and they can manifest positively or negatively. For instance, an individual might believe in their capability and right to succeed, while another may feel unworthy or destined for failure.

Perceptions, conversely, denote how we interpret and understand information received through our senses. They serve as the lenses through which we view our surroundings and can be shaped by our beliefs. Perceptions are not unbiased reflections of reality; rather, they are subjective interpretations influenced by our unique experiences.

The connection between beliefs and perceptions is intricate and fluid. Our beliefs shape our perceptions by directing how we interpret and ascribe meaning to the information we encounter. For example, if someone believes that the world is a perilous place, they may perceive mundane situations as worrisome or threatening. Conversely, someone who trusts in human goodness may see the same situations as chances for connection and growth.

Moreover, our perceptions can reinforce our beliefs, a phenomenon known as confirmation bias, where we tend to seek out and interpret information that validates our preexisting beliefs. For example, if someone believes they are inadequate, they may interpret neutral or positive feedback as proof of their failure while disregarding any contrary evidence.

The interplay between beliefs and perceptions reaches beyond mental processes and has tangible consequences for physical health. Research indicates that our beliefs and perceptions can sway our immune system functionality, cardiovascular health, and even our recovery capability from illness or injuries. Studies show that individuals with confidence in their healing potential after surgery or illness typically achieve improved outcomes and quicker recoveries.

In addition, beliefs and perceptions significantly influence our actions and decision-making. When we believe we are capable and deserving of success, we tend to take chances, pursue opportunities, and persist in overcoming challenges. Conversely, self-doubting beliefs may induce hesitance towards new opportunities, fostering self-sabotage and limiting our potential.

The good news is that beliefs and perceptions aren’t fixed or unchangeable. With mindfulness and deliberate effort, we can challenge and reshape our beliefs and perceptions towards generating more positive and empowering experiences. This transformation can be achieved through various strategies such as cognitive restructuring, mindfulness exercises, and engaging in experiences that question our established beliefs.

In summary, the relationship between beliefs and perceptions is a powerful force influencing our thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and physical health. Our beliefs mold our perceptions, while our perceptions can strengthen our beliefs, establishing a cycle that can either uplift or restrict us. By gaining understanding and actively seeking to transform our beliefs and perceptions, we can enhance the quality of our life experience. Continue reading →

Only you can determine when it is time to embrace your true self. You alone know when it’s time to liberate yourself from the limitations of a life that no longer fulfills you and begin living the life that is truly yours.

If your everyday existence feels like an endless loop – monotonous, tiring, and uninspiring – then it’s time to disembark and welcome transformation.

Repeating the same actions in the same manner will always yield identical outcomes. However, by implementing small adjustments, you can foster a life filled with equilibrium, joy, and satisfaction.

We often tend to be our harshest critics. That nagging voice inside your head might be murmuring, “I can’t manage this. I’m not worthy. I don’t merit happiness.” Such adverse thoughts serve as unseen obstacles preventing your personal development.

It’s crucial to eliminate mental chaos and create space for self-acceptance and self-assurance. Substituting negative self-talk with uplifting affirmations will transform your viewpoint and assist you in aligning with your highest potential.

Release the notion that you can alter the past. What’s done is done, and you hold the key to crafting a new, gratifying present. Living in the here and now enables you to genuinely experience life unencumbered by regret or fear of what lies ahead.

Your thoughts shape your reality. A positive mindset draws in positive experiences, while negativity breeds more negativity. The language you utilize—both in speech and thought—carries energy and influences your feelings and interactions. Even minor word selections can alter the tone of a conversation and sway results. By deliberately choosing optimism, you can enhance your relationships, well-being, and overall happiness.

Self-care is never an act of selfishness — rather, it is wise stewardship of the sole gift I possess, the gift I was meant to offer others ~ Parker Palmer

At the core of self-care lies self-acceptance. When you glance in the mirror, remove the façade and proclaim, “I cherish you. I believe in you. I have faith in you.” Treat yourself with the same compassion you extend to others. Trust that the cosmos is perpetually guiding you toward your ultimate good, and welcome the journey with an open spirit.

The Significance Of Inner Guidance

We are led by spirit and the divine towards pathways that promote our highest good. Choices are continually presented to us – veer right, veer left, or chart our own course. Listening to the inner wisdom of your higher self will consistently steer you toward the most favorable outcomes.

In our current fast-moving society, however, silencing the mind long enough to receive this guidance can be difficult. Meditation, mindfulness, and moments of silence aid you in tuning into your soul’s wisdom, enabling you to make decisions congruent with your true purpose.

Taking care of your body, mind, and spirit is vital, and it’s your duty to nurture them. When you eventually transition to the other side, one pivotal question you may ponder is: How did I care for myself? Prioritizing self-care guarantees that you can show up completely for yourself and others and lead a life full of vitality and intention.

Grow your own garden and nurture your own soul, rather than waiting for someone to offer you flowers. ~ Veronica A. Shoffstall

Actions You Can Initiate Today

The first step is invariably the most challenging, yet once you embark on the journey, you’ll wonder why you hesitated. Here are some ideas of actions you can take today to improve your self-care:

Value Rest And Sleep: Adequate sleep is critical for physical well-being, mental lucidity, and emotional stability. Create a soothing nightly routine and aim for no less than seven to eight hours of restorative sleep.

Feed Your Body With Nutritious Foods: The sustenance you consume influences your energy, mood, and general wellness. Prioritize whole, nutrient-rich foods and keep hydrated.

Engage in Daily Physical Activity: Staying active is not just about fitness; it’s about enhancing how you feel. Whether it’s yoga, a leisurely walk, dancing, or stretching, exercise alleviates stress and stimulates endorphins.

Mindfulness, Prayer, Meditation: Dedicating even five minutes daily to calm your thoughts can significantly lower stress, improve concentration, and bolster mental health and emotional resilience. Most importantly, it strengthens your bond with the inner guidance of your higher self, spirit, and the divine.

Use Kind Words with Yourself: Your subconscious hears everything you express. Replace self-judgment with affirmations like, “I love myself. I am sufficient. I am worthy of happiness.”

Establish Healthy Boundaries: Safeguard your energy by declining activities that drain you and embracing those that elevate you.

Surround Yourself with Positivity: Spend time with individuals who uplift and support you. Release toxic connections that introduce negativity into your life.

Connect With Nature: Spending time outdoors helps ground you, clear your thoughts, and reconnect with the present moment.

Engage in Joyful Activities:  Create space for hobbies and creative expressions that nourish your spirit, whether it be painting, writing, making music, or gardening.

Cultivate Daily Gratitude: Focusing on what you appreciate shifts your perspective and draws more blessings toward you.

By emphasizing physical, mental, and spiritual self-care, you lay a foundation for a more satisfying and balanced existence. It’s time to own your power, prioritize self-care, and embark on the life you were destined to live!

The Significance of Enhancing Self-Care: An Urgent Call to Action

In today’s fast-paced, demanding environment, it’s easy to overlook our own well-being. We frequently prioritize responsibilities such as work, family, and other obligations over self-care. However, enhancing self-care is not merely an indulgence; it’s a crucial aspect of our overall health and happiness. Now is the moment to recognize the necessity of prioritizing self-care and making it a core element of our daily routines.

Self-care consists of a vast array of actions that foster physical, mental, and emotional wellness. It involves taking care of our bodies, minds, and souls. From ensuring adequate rest and consuming nutritious foods to participating in activities that bring us joy and relaxation, self-care is fundamentally about nurturing ourselves and replenishing our energy.

One significant reason why enhancing self-care is essential is its beneficial effect on our physical health. Neglecting self-care makes us more vulnerable to stress, burnout, and various health problems. Chronic stress can result in elevated blood pressure, compromised immune function, and cardiovascular issues. By valuing self-care, we can mitigate stress, bolster our immune systems, and improve our overall physical condition.

Furthermore, self-care is vital for maintaining good mental health. In contemporary society, mental health challenges such as anxiety and depression are increasingly prevalent. Overlooking self-care can worsen these conditions and hamper individuals’ ability to manage daily stresses. Engaging in relaxing activities, such as meditation, yoga, or spending time outdoors, can significantly enhance mental health and alleviate stress and anxiety.

In addition, self-care is crucial for emotional well-being. It allows us to engage with our emotions, understand them, and progress toward healing and growth. Through self-care, we can gain greater self-awareness, develop resilience, and foster healthier relationships with others. Carving out time for self-reflection, journaling, or engaging in therapy are all beneficial self-care practices that can elevate emotional well-being.

Moreover, improving self-care can positively affect our productivity and achievements. When we ignore our own needs, we become less efficient, less focused, and more prone to errors. By prioritizing self-care, we can rejuvenate our energy, enhance our concentration, and spark our creativity. This can subsequently lead to improved performance in both our personal and professional ventures.

So, how can we take proactive steps to enhance our self-care? It starts with a conscious decision to value ourselves and our well-being. We must establish boundaries, learn to say no, and allocate time for activities that bring us joy. It’s vital to create a routine that includes regular physical activity, healthy eating, and adequate rest. Additionally, seeking assistance from loved ones or professionals may be beneficial in sustaining a consistent self-care practice.

In conclusion, enhancing self-care is not optional; it is imperative in today’s fast-paced world. It is fundamental for our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. By prioritizing self-care, we can reduce stress, improve our overall health, and enrich our relationships. It’s time for an urgent call to action: let us embed self-care into our daily routines and take the necessary steps to nurture ourselves for a more balanced and fulfilling life. Continue reading →

Numerous techniques exist for connecting with the spirit world, all ultimately achieving a similar goal. Among the mystical instruments employed to engage with the spirit dimension, the psychomanteum presents itself as a fascinating alternative.

A psychomanteum, sometimes referred to as a mirror gazing chamber, is a compact and enclosed environment designed to enhance communication with the spiritual realm, featuring a mirror positioned to reflect solely darkness.

The practice involves peering into the dark mirror to encourage intense concentration, sensory deprivation, and a shift in consciousness.

This technique, known as scrying, originates from ancient Greek customs where analogous practices were utilized for divination, prophecy, and dialogues with the afterlife. Scrying entails gazing at a reflective surface to perceive psychic visions or gain foresight into future events whilst in a trance-like condition.

The renowned French seer, Nostradamus, used a water-filled scrying bowl in his prophetic endeavors. He would place a brass bowl on a tripod and focus on the water to receive psychic impressions for his predictions.

While traditional scryers might utilize crystal balls, bowls of water, or polished stones, the mirror in a psychomanteum delivers a uniquely immersive encounter. As the participant gazes into the reflective surface, the mirror functions as a cognitive gateway between different realms.

The label “psychomanteum” originates from the Greek term psyche, signifying “soul” or “mind”, and manteion, denoting “oracle” or “divination site.” It fundamentally translates to “oracle of souls” or “venue for soul communication.”

The yearning to once more see and be with a loved one who has passed away ranks among the most heartfelt and profound of human aspirations. This desire is sometimes fulfilled as visions or manifestations of the departed ~ Raymond A. Moody, Jr.

<pFor centuries, tools like the psychomanteum have been employed by those striving to transcend the physical world and connect with departed loved ones, spiritual guides, and celestial beings. The contemporary resurgence of psychomanteum scrying was sparked by Dr. Raymond Moody, a researcher of near-death experiences, who examined it in his publication Reunions: Visionary Encounters With Departed Loved Ones. He is widely recognized for his pioneering work on near-death occurrences and the mysteries surrounding death.

Moody discovered that engagements in the psychomanteum with deceased individuals had a significant restorative effect, aiding the grieving in processing loss and sorrow. He conducted studies with numerous individuals, chronicling their experiences and the healing advantages they described. Moody’s findings have fostered a richer comprehension of afterlife communication and its potential for emotional recovery.

Establishing Your Psychomanteum

A classical psychomanteum is a specifically constructed space designed to heighten the chances of spirit interactions via sensory deprivation. It essentially serves as a dedicated scrying room, with the mirror being the central element for visions and messages.

This area is usually a small, confined space adorned with dark, light-absorbing materials such as black fabric or wood. A simplified version can conveniently be set up in any quiet, dim location in your home, such as a spacious closet. If you opt for a room with windows, utilize blackout curtains to prevent light infiltration.

The focal point is a cozy chair placed before a large, angled mirror. Some guides also suggest employing a subtle red light, akin to that found in photographic darkrooms, to foster an environment suitable for trance induction.

You can discover comprehensive instructions for establishing a psychomanteum in numerous online resources. They provide detailed guidance on sculpting a psychomanteum experience, encompassing the setup of the area, lighting, and relaxation techniques. There are also online courses offering step-by-step blueprints for constructing a psychomanteum, including necessary materials and arrangement instructions. Additionally, informative videos are accessible, such as one featuring Dr. Raymond Moody himself, detailing how he constructed a psychomanteum in his residence.

Psycomanteum gazing shares similarities with the modern ganzfeld technique, employed in parapsychological studies to assess extrasensory perception (ESP) or telepathy. The term “ganzfeld” derives from the German word for “whole field,” indicating the technique’s aim of establishing a uniform sensory environment to invoke a mild sensory deprivation state.

In a ganzfeld trial, participants also sit comfortably in a dimly illuminated room, but instead of gazing into a mirror, they use halved ping-pong balls over their eyes to block visual elements and create a consistent field of view. The participant, dubbed the “receiver,” listens to “white noise” through headphones to eliminate all auditory distractions. A second participant, the “sender,” attempts to mentally convey images or information to the receiver from a different location.

Incredible as it may sound, for many centuries in ancient Greece, institutions referred to as psychomanteums, or oracles of the dead, existed where individuals journeyed to consult with the spirits of the departed ~ Raymond A. Moody, Jr.

The Mirror Gazing Procedure

The act of utilizing a psychomanteum is termed mirror gazing or catoptromancy. It entails focusing intently on a mirror to achieve an altered state of consciousness and promote spirit communication. The word catoptromancy derives from the Greek terms katoptron (mirror) and manteia (divination).

Preparation constitutes a critical component of a fruitful psychomanteum session. Prior to entering the trance phase, it is beneficial to formulate specific inquiries for the spirit realm. This focus offers direction and intention, steering the experience. However, remaining open and receptive to whatever transpires is equally vital.

When engaging with the psychomanteum, you comfortably sit in the chair and gaze into the mirror, letting your mind rest and drift into a light trance. Similar to other forms of scrying, successful outcomes with the psychomanteum hinge upon your ability to enter a calm, receptive mental state. The more at ease you are, the more susceptible you will be to subtle energies and messages from the spirit. Conversely, excessive effort or forcing the experience typically leads to disappointment and minimal achievements.

As you transition into an altered state of consciousness, the lines between the physical and spirit worlds become hazy, facilitating the perception of visions, auditory sounds, or alternative forms of spirit communication. Patience and determination are essential for achieving fruitful results with mirror gazing. Have faith in the process, release expectations, and allow spirit to communicate in its distinct manner and timing.

Confidence and belief in the process are crucial as well. Approaching the experience with apprehension or doubt can create mental barriers that impede communication. Allowing yourself to sink into the trance state and permitting the process to unfold organically often yields the most satisfactory results. Trust that all that occurs is for your greatest benefit, rooted in love and a desire for connection.

The mirror gazing technique known as the “psychomanteum” was crafted to facilitate reunion experiences with those who have passed, addressing the feelings surrounding loss ~ Alejandro Parra & Jorge Villanueva

Common Psychomanteum Experiences

One of the extraordinary features of psychomanteum work is the broad range of manifestations encountered in spirit communication. In Moody’s studies, participants reported vivid sensory experiences, such as bright light sightings, feeling a presence, or hearing reassuring voices. Many encountered and interacted with deceased family members or friends, often resulting in feelings of tranquillity and resolution. One in four participants encountered a spirit other than their intended contact.

In approximately 10% of encounters, spirit apparitions appeared to emerge from the mirror, occasionally imparting a sensation of physical interaction. Some participants described the experience as feeling like they had stepped into the mirror, crossing over into a different realm. About half of the participants engaged in dialogues with the apparitions, either vocally or through mental exchanges. Notably, in a quarter of cases, the spirit interaction occurred not during the actual session but within 24 hours afterward.

Nearly all of Moody’s participants regarded these afterlife reunions as authentic, confident that they experienced real connections rather than mere imaginations or fantasies. Much like near-death experiences (NDEs), these encounters with the departed significantly influenced the participants, often reshaping their perceptions of reality and life’s significance.

Spirit communication via the psychomanteum is self-contained, with a defined beginning and conclusion. It is vital to honor the natural progression of the session. If the experience seems complete, refrain from pushing for more. Spirits discern when it’s time to retreat, and future opportunities for further communication will always arise.

For this reason, maintaining a journal is highly recommended. Document every facet, from visual impressions and auditory sensations to physical feelings and emotional responses. Over time, patterns and insights may emerge that enhance your understanding of the spirit realm.

The psychomanteum provides a deep and transformative avenue for connecting with spirit. Its straightforwardness and effectiveness have rendered it a cherished tool for seekers of spiritual truth throughout history. By crafting a relaxed and focused atmosphere and approaching the experience with confidence and receptiveness, anyone can employ this technique to explore beyond the veil.

Utilizing Psychomanteum Gazing as a Technique to Foster Communication with Spirits

The yearning to communicate with spirits or connect with the beyond has permeated human culture for ages. Individuals have pursued numerous methods to create this link, and one such technique involves the utilization of a psychomanteum. A psychomanteum is a specifically designed environment that permits individuals to engage in focused meditation or gazing aimed at potentially reaching out to spirits.

What is a Psychomanteum?

The term “psychomanteum” was introduced by Dr. Raymond Moody, a distinguished psychologist and investigator in near-death experience studies. The term amalgamates the Greek words “psyche” (denoting soul or mind) and “manteia” (signifying divination or prophecy). A psychomanteum typically consists of a small, dimly lit space that contains a mirror or reflective surface, an ergonomic chair, and subdued lighting. The reflective surface is generally positioned at eye level, enabling the individual to gaze into it comfortably.

The Function and Process

The objective of a psychomanteum is to cultivate an atmosphere conducive to engaging with spirits or deceased loved ones. The procedure involves resting in the chair, relaxing, and focusing on the mirror or reflective surface. The subdued lighting encourages a meditative state, allowing the mind to become more receptive to subtle messages or impressions.

Psychomanteum gazing is not centered on actively seeking spirits or imposing communication; rather, it’s a practice of making oneself open to receiving messages or forming connections. The reflective surface serves as a focal point that helps in quieting the mind and facilitating deeper concentration.

Advantages and Experiences

Proponents of psychomanteum gazing assert that it can offer several advantages, including:

1. Closure and Healing: For those mourning the loss of a loved one, engaging with the psychomanteum can provide a pathway to closure and healing. Making contact with the spirit of a departed loved one can bring solace and a sense of tranquility.

2. Guidance and Insight: Some seek spirit communication to obtain guidance or insights relevant to their lives. They may wish to receive advice or answers to significant questions.

3. Spiritual Growth: Participating in psychomanteum gazing can be a transformative journey, leading to personal evolution and a broadened comprehension of the spiritual dimension.

Experiences that occur within the psychomanteum can differ greatly. Some report vivid visual experiences, while others may sense messages through thoughts, emotions, or physical sensations. It’s essential to approach these experiences with an open mindset and no preconceptions, allowing the process to happen organically.

Cautions and Ethical Considerations

While psychomanteum gazing can be a potent and potentially transformative practice, it must be approached with care and reverence. Here are several critical considerations:

1. Psychological Readiness: Individuals with past mental health challenges, such as psychosis or severe depression, should proceed with caution and consult a mental health expert prior to attempting psychomanteum gazing.

2. Emotional Stability: It’s vital to be emotionally prepared and stable for any potential outcomes or messages that might arise during the practice. Seek support from friends, family, or professionals when necessary.

3. Ethical Duty: In endeavoring to engage with spirits, it is imperative to approach the practice with respect and integrity. Avoid seeking spirits for amusement or trying to manipulate the process for selfish gain.

Conclusion

Psychomanteum gazing serves as a technique enabling individuals to potentially establish communication with spirits or departed loved ones. While it may lack scientific validation, numerous individuals report profound experiences and rewards from engaging in this practice. If you are inclined to explore the psychomanteum, approach it with a willing spirit, respect, and a readiness to embrace the unknown. Continue reading →

Over the past year, I have undergone an extensive training program in evidential mediumship, during which I have pondered the most significant lessons and experiences gained from this life-altering exploration.

This endeavor enhanced my appreciation for the medium’s capacity to provide solace and healing to those grappling with profound loss. It served as a striking reminder of how a skillfully executed channeled reading can elevate, embrace, and motivate clients by validating that love and existence prevail beyond the physical realm.

Evidential mediumship constitutes a spiritual practice wherein a medium communicates specific, verifiable details to substantiate the ongoing existence of a loved one post-physical demise.

The contemporary practice of evidential mediumship traces its origins to the 19th-century spiritualist movement, which aimed to connect the living with the spirit world through organized communication.

However, its roots extend back to ancient civilizations, where various cultures have consistently sought to engage with the spiritual domain via intermediaries.

From shamans and fortune tellers to the oracles and seers of earlier societies, humanity has persistently sought guidance, knowledge, and comfort from beyond the physical sphere. Evidential mediumship carries on this age-old tradition, fine-tuned through modern methodologies to address current needs.

Evidential mediumship is also referred to as psychic mediumship or mental mediumship, underscoring the idea that the process involves the medium sensing information as mental impressions to relay messages from the spirit world.

My personal journey led me to comprehend the true essence of healing mediumship, revealing it as something sacred rather than intimidating ~ Kim Coots

In contrast, physical mediumship pertains to the tangible manifestation of spirit and associated phenomena, whereas trance mediumship exists in a space between, where the medium enters an altered state of consciousness that permits spirit to communicate directly through them. In this trance state, the medium or channeler may have little to no awareness of the messages being conveyed, as the spirit partially assumes control of their voice or body for communication.

Given that grief and loss affect everyone, psychic mediumship serves as a beacon of hope and healing. It enables individuals to reconnect with their departed loved ones and reassures them that the ties of love surpass physical separation. Beyond its individual impact, this practice highlights our interconnectedness and the enduring spirit of humanity.

As we navigate a modern world where grief and loss are universal, this practice presents a source of hope and healing, offering ways to reconnect with our loved ones and affirming that love transcends physical distance. Furthermore, it emphasizes our interconnectedness and the everlasting essence of consciousness.

Here are some of the essential insights I have obtained from this year’s training:

The Healing Power Of Mediumship

Mediums play a pivotal role not only for the living but also for those who have passed on, aiding those in the afterlife attempting to connect with their grieving relatives. This is particularly vital for individuals who transitioned unexpectedly, leaving behind unresolved feelings or incomplete dialogues. When a medium communicates clear, specific messages, it can foster profound healing for the bereaved. For those in mourning, it reassures them that love persists beyond physical existence.

The Importance Of Breath

A significant takeaway from this program was the focus on breath. Mastering conscious breathing has transformed my approach to all my endeavors. Intentional breathwork leads to heightened awareness, facilitating a stronger connection to spirit. This simple yet powerful technique has illuminated the importance of maintaining both physical and energetic balance in my practice.

Seasonal Rhythms And Well-Being

The training also underscored the necessity of recognizing our bodily rhythms. As psychics and mediums, our efficiency can be influenced by seasonal changes and specific times of the year. Equally vital are our mental, physical, and emotional health, which directly impact our ability to reach the spirit realm and provide meaningful insights to those who seek our support.

Exceptional evidential mediums are rare, but once you find one who genuinely embraces the light, your reading is apt to be healing, exhilarating, and full of growth opportunities ~ Rose Claire

Out-of-Body Empowerment

It was captivating to hear accounts from mentors and fellow students regarding their out-of-body adventures, astral travel, and visions of the afterlife. Many recounted how these profound experiences alleviated their fear of transition to the other side. Such moments seemed to impart a profound sense of tranquility and eagerness for what awaits, fortifying their commitment to serve the spirit world with love and dedication.

Developing Mediumship Skills

A key lesson from this journey has been the understanding that everyone possesses the potential to connect with their spirit loved ones. While some individuals exhibit a natural talent from an early age, others pursue mentorship to refine their abilities or broaden their skills. This course encouraged us to venture outside our comfort zones, often necessitating on-the-spot readings for classmates or mentors. These activities highlighted the importance of setting aside the ego and creating a pure, energetic link with spirit.

The Challenges And Rewards

We had the opportunity to witness esteemed evidential mediums conducting gallery readings globally. Their capacity to evoke both laughter and tears exemplifies the deep impact of this work. Whether in a public setting or a private session, assisting the spirit world proves to be both rewarding and demanding. Numerous psychics and mediums endure significant personal challenges and traumas – physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual – which can enhance their empathy and strengthen their ability to comfort others.

During this course, I’ve come to realize that the trials faced by psychics and mediums are integral to their soul’s preordained journey. These challenges prepare us for our role and foster the empathy essential for supporting those in distress. This path demands continual spiritual development and personal growth, alongside a willingness to step beyond one’s comfort zones.

To honor this path, I will strive to continually challenge myself to “step out of my own way.” The spirit realm deserves our utmost efforts, and with each reading, I am reminded of the privilege it is to serve both the living and those on the other side.

Key Insights Gained from Evidential Mediumship

Evidential mediumship encompasses the practice of engaging with spirits and delivering verifiable evidence regarding their presence and messages. By means of this process, mediums can offer comfort, closure, and direction to those wishing to connect with their departed loved ones. While some skeptics may question the authenticity of mediumship, key insights derived from this practice can yield a significant influence on individual lives.

1. Validation of the Afterlife:

One of the most substantial insights derived from evidential mediumship is the confirmation of the afterlife. Through communication with spirits, mediums can convey specific facts and details that only the deceased and their loved ones would comprehend. This evidence serves as confirmation that consciousness persists beyond physical demise, granting solace to those in mourning and contemplating the reality of an afterlife.

2. Healing and Closure:

Evidential mediumship can foster healing and closure for individuals who have experienced loss. The ability to receive messages from loved ones who have departed can bring comfort and reassurance, allowing people to attain peace and progress in their grieving journey. The insights provided through mediumship can help individuals recognize that their loved ones remain present, watching over them and offering guidance from the spiritual domain.

3. Personal Growth and Transformation:

Mediumship can facilitate personal development and transformation. The wisdom and guidance gained from spirit communication can provide individuals with profound insights into themselves and their life’s purpose. Mediumship sessions frequently offer valuable revelations that encourage self-examination and inspire positive changes in individuals’ lives.

4. Connection with Spirit Guides:

Mediumship can assist individuals in forming bonds with their spirit guides. Spirit guides are ethereal beings who provide counsel, support, and protection throughout one’s life journey. Through evidential mediumship, mediums can communicate messages from these guides, offering valuable insights and directions on one’s spiritual journey. This connection can instill a greater sense of purpose, clarity, and spiritual advancement.

5. Reassurance of Love and Support:

Evidential mediumship commonly reveals messages from departed loved ones that emphasize love, encouragement, and support. Such communications can provide comfort and assurance, reminding people that their loved ones remain a part of their lives, albeit in a different form. The insights obtained from mediumship can help individuals feel less isolated and more supported, fostering a sense of connection and belonging.

In summary, evidential mediumship presents critical insights that can enormously influence individuals’ lives. From affirming the existence of an afterlife to providing healing, closure, and personal development, mediumship can deliver comfort, guidance, and reassurance to those endeavoring to connect with their deceased loved ones. While skepticism might still exist, the transformative experiences and insights derived from mediumship continue to bring peace and hope to innumerable individuals worldwide. Continue reading →

The phrase “higher self” frequently appears in discussions of spirituality, metaphysics, and psychic practices, yet it can lead to much confusion. What does it truly mean? Is it our subconscious mind, our conscience, our alter ego, our soul, or our spirit?

Although these elements are all connected to the higher self in some manner, it is most accurately regarded as the most enlightened and transcendental aspect of our existence.

Our spirit or soul represents the conscious, developing part of us during this lifetime, while the higher self embodies our soul’s utmost potential. It acts as our divine blueprint and represents our eternal spiritual essence, which transcends our physical form in the non-physical realm. It constitutes the timeless, everlasting segment of us that embodies the divine essence of our identity.

While the incarnated aspect of the soul represents the conscious experiencer throughout our existence, the higher self is the constant component of the soul residing in elevated realms.

The higher self does not represent a distinct personality or individual entity; rather, it stands as a deeply integrated, elevated foundation of our soul. It functions like a spiritual repository for all the wisdom, experiences, and lessons gathered from our past lives, along with our soul agreements and higher purpose for this life, serving as a framework for our soul’s growth and life journey. It mirrors the finest aspects of our essence.

Establishing a connection with our higher self enables us to sync with this elevated dimension of our true identity and our goals for this life and the next. This relationship provides us with clarity and profound insights into our soul’s path. It allows us to view life through a broader lens and directs us in making decisions that foster personal and spiritual advancement. Engaging with the higher self aids us in navigating life’s obstacles with increased ease and intention, facilitating our soul’s growth and expansion.

Energetically, we connect with our higher self through the crown chakra (7th chakra), positioned just above the top of our head. This chakra is conventionally viewed as the link to spiritual enlightenment, universal consciousness, and the divine. It governs our spiritual awareness, higher consciousness, and understanding of the universe. It acts as the gateway to the higher self, the spirit realm, and the divine.

Nonetheless, some contemporary spiritual instructors also allude to the soul star chakra (or 8th chakra), also referred to as the ‘angel chakra’ or the ‘higher self gateway,’ as the elevated energy point that links us to our higher self. While the crown chakra connects us to universal consciousness, the angel chakra is believed to be more closely associated with our individual soul’s objectives, wisdom, and karmic lessons acquired along our journey.

Regardless, the energy center at the top of our chakra system serves as a bridge between our human experience and the higher, spiritual aspect of our nature, assisting us in understanding our soul’s path and stimulating our spiritual growth.

The higher self does not “communicate” with us as a distinct entity. Instead, it embodies divine energy that appears as intuitive knowing, inner guidance, and inspiration from above. Occasionally, this intrinsic soul wisdom’s emergence drives us to let go of what no longer serves our growth or to pursue new avenues aligned with our soul purpose.

Interacting with this elevated wisdom necessitates an open and aligned state, readiness to confront truths that might challenge our existing aspirations or beliefs, and the willingness to explore new routes of personal and spiritual progression.

How To Access Your Higher Self

To connect and attune with your higher self, consider the following practical techniques:

Self-reflection: Allocating time for reflection, especially through journaling, helps reveal deeper sentiments and patterns. Setting an intention to engage with your higher self can illuminate queries or trials you’re encountering. Over time, revisiting your journal entries might uncover recurring themes and insights that enhance your understanding of your soul purpose and karmic lessons.

Meditation: Meditating is one of the most effective means of connecting with your higher self. By calming your mind and turning inward, you create space for clarity and wisdom to surface. Whether through breathwork, guided sessions, chanting, or simply sitting in quiet reflection, meditation amplifies your awareness and assists in tuning into higher consciousness.

Psychic Mediumship: A session with a trusted psychic medium or channeler can provide direct access to your higher self. During these consultations, the medium accesses the Akashic Records – your soul’s energetic archives – to deliver profound insights regarding your life path and spiritual journey.

Divination Practices: Utilizing tools such as tarot cards, runes, or pendulums can facilitate access to your higher self. These instruments serve as conduits, providing information and guidance that resonate with your soul purpose. With an open heart and clear intention, you can employ divination practices to uncover valuable insights.

Past Life Regression: Exploring past lives through regression therapy can unveil karmic lessons needing attention. This approach assists in releasing outdated beliefs, healing past traumas, and raising awareness of unresolved soul-level lessons, aiding you in aligning with your higher self.

Energy Work: Techniques such as Reiki, chakra balancing, and sound or crystal healing can eliminate blockages hindering your connection with your higher self. Concentrating on energy flow in the crown (or angel chakra) can enhance your ability to access the wisdom of your higher self.

Shadow Work: Addressing the suppressed aspects of ourselves – often tied to fear, shame, or previous trauma – helps heal deep emotional wounds and dispel energetic blockages. Embracing our shadow allows us to eradicate limiting beliefs, energy obstructions, and negative patterns, eliminating barriers to spiritual advancement and alignment with the higher self.

Dreamwork: Your dreams are a potent resource for connecting with your higher self. Before sleep, set an intention to receive guidance from your higher self and maintain a dream journal. Analyzing your dreams can uncover patterns, insights, and inspirations from your higher self.

Rituals & Ceremonies: Personal rituals or ceremonies can create sacred spaces where you can mindfully connect with your higher self. Lighting candles, offering prayers, invoking ancestors, spirit guides, or angels, and performing moon rituals can all serve as pathways to deeper understanding. Rituals help realign you with your true essence and soul purpose, fostering a lasting connection with spiritual guidance.

Aligning with your higher self will illuminate your life path and soul purpose and strengthen your ability to face everyday challenges with courage, wisdom and grace. Though confronting the realities of our soul journey and highest potential may bring challenges, it ultimately guides us toward a fulfilling life of karmic achievement and spiritual development.

Understanding the Significance of Aligning with Your Higher Self

In the path of self-exploration and growth, the idea of aligning with your higher self frequently arises. This concept implies that within each person resides a deeper, more enlightened, and authentic version of themselves. By forming a connection with this higher self, individuals can access their true capabilities, experience deeper fulfillment, and lead a more meaningful existence. But what does aligning with your higher self truly entail, and why is it important?

To comprehend the significance of this alignment, it’s essential to first grasp the concept. Your higher self is the aspect of you that is linked to your intuition, inner wisdom, and divine insight. It represents the part of you that understands what is genuinely beneficial for your growth, joy, and fulfillment. Aligning with your higher self means intentionally choosing to live in harmony with this inner wisdom and permitting it to steer your thoughts, actions, and decisions.

A primary reason why connecting with your higher self is important is that it enables you to live authentically. In today’s fast-paced and often chaotic environment, it’s easy to become ensnared by societal expectations, external influences, and the thoughts of others. By aligning with your higher self, you can access your true desires, values, and passions. This alignment empowers you to live in accordance with your authentic self, rather than conforming to external molds or society’s standards.

Furthermore, aligning with your higher self fosters a sense of inner peace and clarity. When you resonate with your inner wisdom, you can make choices that reflect your genuine values and aspirations. This alignment mitigates the internal strife and uncertainty that often occur when you are disconnected from your higher self. Instead of second-guessing your thoughts or feeling overwhelmed by the options before you, you can rely on your higher self to lead you to the correct path.

In addition, aligning with your higher self paves the way for personal growth and transformation. Your higher self continuously encourages you to expand, evolve, and reach your fullest potential. By connecting with this inner wisdom, you become more open to growth possibilities, learn from challenges, and venture outside of your comfort zone. This alignment allows you to welcome change, challenge limiting beliefs, and unveil your true potential.

Another vital aspect of aligning with your higher self is the profound sense of fulfillment and purpose it provides. When you operate in unison with your authentic self and heed the guidance of your higher self, you are more prone to engage in pursuits and activities that truly resonate with you. This connection enables you to create a meaningful, purpose-driven life, where you derive joy and satisfaction from your endeavors.

In summary, aligning with your higher self is a powerful and transformative process. It involves establishing a connection with your inner wisdom, living authentically, and allowing your higher self to illuminate your journey. By aligning with your higher self, you can enjoy greater fulfillment, clarity, personal growth, and a sense of direction. So, take the time to attune to your inner voice, trust your intuition, and experience alignment with your higher self. Your life will undoubtedly change for the better. Continue reading →

Ah, forgiveness! A concept that is often misunderstood. For numerous individuals, forgiveness, no matter how honorable it may sound, proves to be a formidable challenge, if not an insurmountable one.

At times, certain offenses are so severe in our eyes that the wrongdoer appears unworthy of forgiveness. Additionally, there’s a common belief that to forgive someone equates to excusing or justifying their awful acts. However, forgiveness isn’t about exonerating someone from blame. Rather, it represents a significant and personal act of liberation and healing.

When we extend forgiveness to someone, whether they have emotionally wounded us, betrayed our trust, or inflicted physical damage, we are not absolving them of their misdeeds.

We do not condone their behaviors or grant them clearance to repeat those wrongs. Instead, we are opting to liberate ourselves from the burdens of resentment, sorrow, and bitterness that tie us to them and their previous actions.

Forgiveness is a present we offer ourselves. It empowers us to progress without the weight of former grievances and with hearts open, untainted by resentment.

By choosing to forgive, we assert that the offender’s actions and the recollection of their wrongs will no longer keep us captive or accompany us into the future.

While we may not bear responsibility for the events of our past, we do hold responsibility for how we decide to carry those memories into our future. This encapsulates the essence of forgiveness: it bestows upon us the power to embrace our current reality with clarity, understanding, and liberation. It also reshapes our future, as it is ultimately a karmic decision that will influence our destiny in ways we might only comprehend much later in this life and another.

When you harbor resentment towards another, you are tethered to that individual or situation by an emotional bond that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the sole method to sever that bond and achieve freedom ~ Catherine Ponder

The Empowering Advantages of Forgiveness

The act of forgiving liberates the heart, mind, and spirit. Through forgiveness, we permit ourselves to rediscover hope and strength; we reclaim our power to be unshackled from anger, guilt, regret, or self-pity. Forgiveness grants us tranquility by concluding the endless loop of “why did this happen to me” or “what if” scenarios that tether us to the painful experience.

Revisiting a distressing event from our past only serves to spawn more negative thoughts and emotions within us, breeding resentments that can embed deeply over time. As the adage suggests, “Hindsight is 20/20,” but rehashing events in an attempt to rewrite history only fortifies the soul’s poison of bitterness. This entrenched negativity morphs into a malignant force with time, proliferating like a cancer that hinders our spiritual development and devastates our mental, emotional, and even physical health.

Life is too brief to cling to resentment or remain obsessed with blame, not to mention the long-term karmic ramifications of vengeance and hostility. Recognizing the importance of forgiveness empowers us to advance. By opting to forgive, we grant ourselves permission to move positively forward, unfettered by the heavy chains of our past.

Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory does not equate to a forgotten one. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We transform the memory of our past into a hopeful vision for our future ~ Louis B. Smedes

Strategies for Nurturing Forgiveness

In my psychic mediumship practice, I observe that clients who find forgiveness challenging frequently possess the desire to forgive but lack the knowledge of how to proceed. Here are some strategies to cultivate and embrace forgiveness, making it an essential component of your personal and spiritual evolution.

Recognize your feelings. Start by recognizing the effects of what has occurred and how it impacts you emotionally. Identify your emotions: anger, betrayal, sadness, disappointment. Accept how these feelings influence you. Do not shun or suppress these sentiments; permit yourself to genuinely experience them as part of the healing journey.

Consider the advantages. Reflect on how forgiveness benefits you both personally and spiritually. Remember that forgiveness centers on liberating yourself, not on absolving the other individual. When you relinquish resentment, you create space in your life for peace, joy, and fresh opportunities.

Distinguish the individual from the act. It’s often beneficial to separate the person from their actions. Individuals are typically more than their mistakes, just as you are. Although it may be challenging, strive to perceive the individual beyond the pain they have caused you. This perspective can diminish resentment and make forgiveness feel more achievable.

Exercise compassion and understanding. Attempt to comprehend the circumstances that may have led to the other’s harmful actions. This does not justify their behavior but fosters a sense of empathy that can facilitate an open-hearted approach to forgiveness.

Be kind to yourself. Self-forgiveness is frequently essential for forgiving others. Before we can extend forgiveness to others, we often need to forgive ourselves first for feelings of guilt, shame, or perceived frailty. Practicing self-compassion is critical to personal development and healing. It lays the groundwork for a compassionate and forgiving outlook towards others. Self-compassion empowers us to take ownership of our actions rather than being dominated by the actions of others. It also liberates us from lingering resentment, providing space to grow, evolve, and pursue our best selves.

Opt to release it. Resentment can tightly grip the mind and heart, but maintaining it is a choice. So, consciously decide to let it go. Once you muster the courage to release it, you may find it far more liberating than you anticipated.

Incorporate it into your spiritual practice. Weave the forgiveness process into your daily spiritual regimen. Focus on it in meditation or prayer. Visualize relinquishing resentment, bitterness, or anger while inviting feelings of peace, comprehension, and serenity into your life. Set intentions for what forgiveness would manifest and feel like for you. Envision yourself feeling lighter, more comforted, and less encumbered by the past. Imagining a future devoid of resentment can inspire you to genuinely let go of the hurt.

Communicate your feelings. Articulating your thoughts and emotions about the situation through writing, artistic expression, or conversation with a trusted friend or therapist can be immensely valuable. Such outlets allow you to process emotions constructively, simplifying the release of anger and resentment. Sharing your experience also provides support and a sense of solidarity.

Establish boundaries. Forgiving someone doesn’t imply allowing them back into your life without limitations. If the relationship necessitates ongoing interaction, set healthy boundaries to safeguard your emotional well-being. Boundaries create safe havens for personal and interpersonal healing. Additionally, you need not be physically present with the individual you are forgiving; they don’t even need to be aware of your decision. Forgiveness is a deeply individual journey that originates from your own heart. When you forgive, you aren’t letting someone else off the hook; you are choosing liberation from anger and resentment, reclaiming your own peace.

Forgiveness isn’t typically a singular event. More often, it’s a journey that may require revisiting and processing the hurt at various junctures. Grant yourself grace and patience as you traverse this road, recognizing that forgiveness unfolds gradually rather than being a quick solution.

Ultimately, forgiveness enables us to conclude the chapter on past wounds and concentrate on the possibilities present in the moment. It’s a choice that aligns us with a future driven not by pain but by peace, resilience, and emotional freedom. Each step draws us nearer to a life that celebrates healing and empowers us to fulfill our full potential, unencumbered by the burdens of the past.

Forgiveness represents a transformative act of love and liberation—for ourselves and, indirectly, for those we forgive. It stands as the ultimate expression of self-empowerment.

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