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You’re being irrational; that never happened. Stop being so sensitive. I have never encountered this issue with anyone but you. It was always your idea, not mine! Seriously, you’re just imagining things. Everyone else concurs, apart from you. You’re simply fabricating stories.

These are merely a few examples of what you might hear if someone is gaslighting you. It typically arises when you confront them about their negative behavior, only to have your truth distorted in return…in ways that can genuinely disorient you!

Gaslighting is a type of psychological abuse that frequently appears in toxic romantic relationships, but it can also emerge in interactions with friends, colleagues, bosses, family members, and even neighbors and landlords.

At its essence, gaslighting manipulates your sense of reality, leaving you bewildered, anxious, and questioning your own perceptions and feelings. Sometimes it is apparent and overt. Other times, it occurs so subtly that you might not even recognize you’re being influenced.

The phrase “gaslighting” originates from the 1938 stage play Gas Light, which was adapted into the 1944 film of the same name.

In the narrative, a husband deceives his affluent wife into believing she is losing her mind by making minor alterations to their environment, such as dimming the gas lights, and then denying any changes. His objective is to instill doubt in her sanity, allowing him to have her committed to a psychiatric facility and gain access to her inheritance.

As a psychic reader, I frequently meet clients grappling with perplexing or painful relational dynamics. Their experiences often unambiguously indicate the presence of gaslighting.

I have witnessed numerous instances of this manipulation in my readings, and it is much more prevalent and detrimental than people generally realize. It also emphasizes the necessity of identifying when this is happening to you, whether in your personal life, at work, or online. The digital era facilitates manipulative behaviors manifesting in subtle, widespread manners.

Here are some fundamental signs that may suggest you are experiencing gaslighting:

Self-Doubt

You begin to second-guess everything about yourself. The gaslighter insists you’re misremembering incidents, exaggerating, or even outright fabricating. They may assert that others share their perspective, using false consensus to erode your credibility. They might intentionally set you up to seem forgetful, overly emotional, or unstable in front of others. Privately, they may chastise you until you break down and then publicly accuse you of overreacting. Gradually, you start to consider that perhaps you are at fault.

Confusion

You find yourself questioning your recollection or interpretation of discussions. You start to feel as if you might be unraveling. Even basic decisions become overwhelming without reassurance. Doubt about yourself intensifies like never before.  You put in extra effort to satisfy, tiptoeing around them, eager to avoid provoking them. Yet, the target seems to perpetually shift.

Uncertainty

You feel more anxious, insecure, and dependent than you did previously. You struggle to make even straightforward decisions. You sense a lack of trust in your own judgment. Although deep down you might realize you’re being manipulated, you can’t shake the feeling that perhaps you’re only imagining this.

Rationalization

You justify their behavior to yourself. You convince yourself they didn’t mean harm or are under stress. You might even lie to others to shield their reputation. You start to normalize what previously seemed intolerable.

Dysphoria

You begin to dream about escaping. A different lifestyle. Another version of yourself. Anything to break away from the mental haze and emotional suffering. You feel burdened, as if your spirit is gradually being crushed.

Depression

You experience unhappiness, anxiety, and a disconnection from your true self. You reminisce about a time when you felt joy and clarity, but that seems distant now. Your internal gauge has been skewed. That persistent tightness in your chest or abdomen? It’s your body reacting to prolonged stress and emotional turmoil.

Isolation & Dependency

You increasingly depend on their version of reality instead of your own. They have distanced you from friends and family, consistently criticize your support network, or generate drama to create a division between you and others. Over time, they have become your only emotional anchor.

Shame

You start to absorb the notion that you are too sensitive or emotional. Gaslighters frequently apologize while embedding blame, uttering phrases like, “I’m sorry you’re so easily offended,” or “I’m sorry that the truth hurts you.” These comments may sound like apologies but are meant to make you feel defective.

Invalidation

You feel diminished, unimportant, with your needs and opinions minimized. Your emotions are persistently dismissed. You’re told you’re overreacting or overly dramatic. When you express hurt, they imply you’re too delicate to absorb the truth. Instead of providing comfort, they respond with haughty indifference or mocking remarks.

Paranoia

The unending deceit leaves you wondering if anything you’re told is genuine. You may begin to distrust others too, withdrawing from loved ones out of fear or embarrassment. You stop disclosing details about your life because explaining your circumstances feels draining, or you fear others won’t believe you.

Fear

Gaslighters frequently depend on fear to enforce control. They may raise their voices, threaten to abandon you, withhold affection, or induce guilt to ensure compliance. You may continually find yourself apologizing, even when you’ve done nothing wrong.

Psychosis

You feel as if you are losing touch with reality. The gaslighter may deny uttering things you distinctly remember or change their preferences suddenly, punishing you for not keeping pace. One day they profess a love for strawberries. The next, they assert they despise them and berate you for being inconsiderate for offering them. You’re scolded for cooking wheat spaghetti despite their allergy, then reprimanded for preparing rice pasta because they “only eat wheat.” Your reality is perpetually being rewritten.

If any of this resonates, know that you are not isolated, nor are you merely imagining it. A key part of the gaslighter’s manipulation is to convince you that escape is impossible. That you won’t find another partner. That you can’t secure a different job. That you are too weak to thrive independently.

All of that is false. You are resilient. You possess capabilities. And you deserve love, clarity, and peace.

Begin by confiding in someone you trust. Seek support, whether it’s from a friend, therapist, psychic, or online community. Someone who can assist you in remembering your true self. Someone who will affirm that you are not losing your mind and that your experiences are valid.

The person who gaslights you does so not out of strength, but due to profound insecurity and self-hatred. Those who are truly confident uplift others. They celebrate your achievements and offer solace in your struggles. They do not belittle, manipulate, or disorient.

Gaslighting is not love. It is control disguising itself as concern. It is cruelty masquerading as honesty. Life is too precious to be experienced through someone else’s warped lens. You deserve to be acknowledged, heard, and secure. You deserve more.

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Having been aware of my gifts from a young age, I found myself filled with numerous inquiries, yearning for precise, in-depth responses regarding spiritual matters, psychic occurrences, and the unknown. This curiosity eventually became my lens through which I perceived everything around me. The intricacies of ‘why’ and ‘how’ continually captivate me in all facets of my existence.

Throughout the years, my spirit guides have proven to be invaluable allies, as I discovered that people seldom provided clear or satisfactory answers to my queries. My guides have facilitated numerous pivotal moments for my personal psychic growth.

They assured me from the start that they would never overwhelm me with more than I could manage. They emphasized that the truth about anything can consistently be verified simply by asking. I took their word for it, and each time I felt an unusual sensation or intuition, I sought confirmation. I continue to do so.

My initial paranormal interactions and psychic episodes involved animals. Their energy and communication are more accessible to comprehend, similar to my guides, and they continuously convey messages with pure, unconditional love.

This connection also fostered a unique relationship with nature, particularly the trees. Shortly after, I found solace in the wind and the water; their sounds were incredibly calming and comforting. As a child, I consistently felt a profound sense of well-being, serenity, and inner tranquility whenever I connected with nature. I still experience that today.

My subsequent extra-sensory experiences included premonitions and feelings concerning the safety and welfare of those around me. At such a tender age, these forewarnings were challenging to share with adults.

I’ve always been aware of my gifts, which is not the simplest thing for a person to accept, as you are accountable not for your gift but for how you choose to utilize it ~ Hazel Scott

I would sense danger looming over someone, or that someone should rethink their travel plans, or avoid engaging with individuals exuding negative energy. These foreboding feelings frequently plagued me. How do you convey such warnings to adults who disregard your concerns or fail to take you seriously?

Initially, as a sheltered and privileged child, I believed the world was filled with joy and delight until the day I began to perceive sadness, illness, and suffering in others. You want to embrace them and alleviate their pain, yet you feel powerless in the baffling world of adulthood. I quickly learned that those around me didn’t always project happiness, even when their smiles suggested otherwise.

I also became aware that others’ sadness impacted my energy and well-being. This feeling of hopelessness and despair was overwhelming and difficult to interpret at such a young age. It occasionally moved me to tears.

I longed to assist them, to offer healing and joy. I asked my guides for positive elements in their lives, so I could provide them with hope. It proved effective. I was able to bring smiles to their faces and lessen their sadness. Witnessing them light up with vibrant colors around them was truly wonderful.

What defines a gifted and talented child isn’t always high academic performance, but rather a different perspective on the world and learning ~ Chuck Grassley

<pEventually, it became my purpose to enter every unhappy space I could find and spread messages of love and tranquility, observing how individuals absorbed the warmth and joy. I continue to do this to this day.

My guides labeled my urge to uplift and heal others as a divine gift, stating that the unique spiritual energy I shared with others flowed through me rather than originating from me. This became my first crucial spiritual lesson—understanding that our spiritual gifts simply pass through us and are not something we possess or control. Attempting to wield control over them traps them in a limited, misaligned state, rendering them unrecognizable.

Thus, for our metaphysical talents to have a positive influence in this world, we must refrain from trying to be psychic. One must allow it to unfold naturally. Throughout life, it’s essential to honor your psychic gifts. They are not mere tricks for entertainment but rather genuine blessings from the Divine. When respected and honored, these gifts can grow and evolve, but they can also be taken away if misused.

As young ones, we often possess a heightened awareness of our intuition and psychic abilities without fully comprehending it. Many of us may recall instances that we dismissed as coincidence or fantasy, but in truth, we were accessing our inherent psychic capabilities.

For some, uncovering their psychic gifts during childhood can be a perplexing and daunting journey. They might experience visions, dreams, or sensations that defy explanation, leading them to feel somewhat isolated or different from their peers. However, embracing and comprehending these abilities can pave the way for a deeper connection with themselves and their environment.

Children often discover their psychic talents through dreams. Numerous children recount vivid dreams that later manifest or offer insights into upcoming events. These prophetic dreams can suggest clairvoyant abilities, allowing them to perceive beyond the tangible world.

Others might exhibit an amplified sense of empathy, experiencing others’ emotions as if they were their own. This empathic skill serves as a potent tool for deeper understanding and connection with others.

Some children may also encounter telepathic experiences, communicating with others through thoughts or feelings instead of vocal expressions. They may intuitively know what someone is about to say or feel an intense bond with someone without uttering a word.

It is crucial for children who are beginning to uncover their psychic abilities to have a nurturing and understanding space to explore and cultivate these gifts. Encouraging them to follow their intuition, practice mindfulness and meditation, and seek mentors or resources can assist them in refining their abilities and navigating their psychic experiences with assurance.

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This week kicks off with a lively atmosphere as the Moon wanders through the intellectual realm of Gemini, heightening our curiosity, sociability, and cognitive flexibility. It’s an ideal day for creative brainstorming, engaging discussions, writing, and seeking understanding through knowledge. If you’ve been grappling with a dilemma or feeling creatively stuck, this lunar phase provides the chance to break through those barriers.

In the morning hours, the Moon creates a supportive sextile with Mercury positioned in Leo, igniting clever ideas, delightful communication, and a hint of theatrical flair. This connection enhances our capacity for brilliant thinking and aids in expressing our thoughts with enthusiasm and confidence. Mercury in Leo empowers expressive conversation and storytelling. Don’t hesitate to vocalize your ideas or propose significant concepts.

As we reach mid-afternoon, the Moon aligns with Venus in Gemini, boosting allure and elegance in our social interactions. This is a very beneficial time for nurturing friendships, networking, or even indulging in some light flirtation. Creative projects, design activities, and writing flow smoothly under this influence. Discussions may become light-hearted, witty, and enjoyable, and we might become captivated by beauty in the smallest aspects of life.

Yet, as the day progresses, the emotional ambiance gradually changes. The Moon creates a square with the North Node in Pisces, soon followed by another square to Mars in Virgo. These influences may stir a sense of tension or emotional unease.

Are your actions in harmony with your spiritual journey? Is your mental activity diverting you from your true purpose? Pay attention to any feelings of irritation or impulsivity. These could be indicators that it’s time to reevaluate your path. Employ grounding techniques if you feel disoriented.

The day concludes with Venus also squaring the North Node, reinforcing this cosmic prompt to realign your relationships and values with your soul’s progression. While the day starts off light and breezy, it wraps up with a more contemplative tone. Allow your evening to be a moment to journal, meditate, or softly consider what your heart genuinely seeks.

Tuesday, July 22: Emotional Restoration

The Moon transitions into Cancer early on Tuesday morning, leading us into our emotional core. Following the lively activity of Monday, this transition beckons us to rest, nurture, and reconnect with ourselves. You may feel compelled to spend time at home, care for loved ones, or simply slow down and inhale deeply.

On Tuesday, the Sun moves from sensitive Cancer into vibrant Leo. The energy shifts significantly, directing our focus toward passion, creativity, and personal empowerment. With the Sun now residing in its own sign, you can expect to feel more courageous and expressive in the upcoming weeks. The stage is being set for bold actions and fresh beginnings.

Wednesday, July 23: Matters of the Heart

With the Moon continuing its path through Cancer, Wednesday provides a beautiful opportunity for emotional renewal. It’s a perfect day to declutter your physical or emotional space. Nourish yourself, prepare comforting meals, and reach out to those who uplift your spirit. What nourishes your soul? How can you give that to yourself?

This midweek phase is also favorable for spiritual pursuits, dream journaling, or connecting with ancestral wisdom. Cancer encourages us to honor our origins and inner requirements, making this a significant time for healing the inner child or engaging in family discussions.

Thursday, July 24: New Moon Mystery

By late morning, the Moon transitions into Leo, heralding the start of a fiery and dynamic period. As we approach Thursday evening, we move toward one of the year’s most impactful manifesting New Moons.

This is an excellent moment to set intentions regarding creative endeavors, leadership aspirations, romance, and anything else that ignites your passion. The Leo Moon invites you to shine brightly, but it also prompts introspection: what brings you happiness? What would you create if fear were absent?

From Thursday to Saturday, opportunities to step into your own spotlight emerge. Embrace bravery, express your authenticity, and gear up to plant new seeds for your personal and professional development.

Friday, July 25: Shine & Action

The Leo Moon continues to invigorate us, infusing playful and enthusiastic energy as the workweek comes to a close. Friday is an ideal day to advance your passion projects, connect with inspiring individuals, or present something you’ve been developing.

If procrastination has been your nemesis, this is your cosmic cue to take action. With Leo’s bravery and the waxing lunar energy, you’ll find it easier to move beyond self-doubt. Remember: Leo teaches us that joy is a strength, not an interference.

Saturday, July 26: Grounded Productivity

In the late afternoon, the Moon enters Virgo, grounding all the fiery energy from the preceding days. You may suddenly feel inclined to organize your closet, tidy your workspace, or outline your aspirations. This evening is perfect for practical magic, spellwork, journaling, or creating vision boards that blend clarity with creativity.

Utilize this lunar energy to focus on what requires attention in your tangible world. Even small efforts toward tidiness or organization will enhance your sense of empowerment.

Sunday, July 27: A Soulful Conclusion

With the Virgo Moon in full effect, Sunday is favorable for preparing for the upcoming week. Create lists, prioritize your health, or spend time outdoors. If emotions surface, approach them with kindness. Virgo emphasizes mindfulness and service. How can you show up for yourself in a more loving and present manner?

Astrology followers, brace yourselves for another thrilling week filled with cosmic energies and celestial connections! As we navigate through the week of July 21 – 27, 2025, the planets are gearing up for some major transitions that will influence all zodiac signs. Let’s delve into what the stars have in store for us in this week’s astrology forecasts.

Aries (March 21 – April 19): This week, Aries, you might experience a burst of energy and motivation to confront any hurdles in your path. With Mars, your ruling planet, forming a beneficial aspect with Jupiter, you’re equipped with the determination needed to reach your objectives. Utilize this momentum to stretch beyond your comfort zone and embrace new opportunities.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Taurus, during this week, you could find yourself feeling more contemplative and introspective. With Venus, your ruling planet, in a challenging position with Saturn, you may encounter some difficulties in relationships. Use this moment to communicate openly and sincerely with your loved ones to resolve any emerging conflicts.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Gemini, this week may bring feelings of restlessness along with a yearning for change. With Mercury, your ruling planet, in a strained aspect with Uranus, you might feel a bit unfocused and scattered. Dedicate some time to center yourself and prioritize your objectives to prevent feeling overwhelmed.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Cancer, throughout this week, you may notice heightened emotions and sensitivity. With the Sun illuminating your sign, you might feel a stronger connection to your intuition and inner guidance. Trust your instincts and allow your heart to lead your decision-making this week.

Leo (July 23 – August 22): Leo, this week, you could feel an influx of creativity and inspiration. With the Sun, your ruling planet, in a positive alignment with Neptune, you might find yourself more attuned to your artistic side. Take advantage of this energy to express yourself through art, music, or any other creative outlet that brings you joy.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22): Virgo, this week, you might focus on health and well-being. With Mercury, your ruling planet, positively aligned with Pluto, you could feel an intense desire to make constructive shifts in your daily habits. Seize this opportunity to prioritize self-care and make healthy choices for both your body and mind.

Libra (September 23 – October 22): Libra, this week you might experience a sense of equilibrium and harmony in your relationships. With Venus, your ruling planet, in a beneficial aspect with Jupiter, you may feel more connected to your loved ones. Use this energy to strengthen your connections and create lasting memories with those who matter to you.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): Scorpio, this week, expect to feel a surge of passion and intensity. With Mars, your ruling planet, in a challenging interaction with Uranus, you might find yourself a bit on edge. Use this energy productively, channeling it into activities that matter to you, and try to avoid unnecessary conflicts.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21): Sagittarius, this week may fill you with a spirit of adventure and excitement. With Jupiter, your ruling planet, harmoniously aligned with Mars, optimism and enthusiasm for the future may be palpable. Embrace this energy to explore new possibilities and broaden your horizons.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): Capricorn, this week, you may concentrate on career and long-term ambitions. With Saturn, your ruling planet, harmoniously positioned with Venus, ambition and determination may drive you to succeed. Use this influence to set clear goals and take actionable steps toward realizing your dreams.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Aquarius, this week could inspire feelings of creativity and innovation. With Uranus, your ruling planet, favorably aspecting Mercury, you may become more motivated to brainstorm new ideas and solutions to challenges you might face.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20): Pisces, this week, heightened intuitiveness and empathy may be prominent. With Neptune, your ruling planet, favorably aspecting the Sun, a strong connection to your spiritual side may arise. Use this energy to tap into your inner wisdom and trust your instincts when making choices.

In summary, this week is set to be a time of growth, transformation, and positive shifts for all zodiac signs. Embrace the cosmic energies and utilize them to materialize your aspirations and ambitions. Remember to stay grounded and heed your intuition. Continue reading →

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An emotional connection entails a profound sense of being recognized and understood on an empathic level. It’s that feeling when someone truly gets us. They comprehend what inspires us, what soothes us, and what hurts us. This varies for each individual since emotional security is an exceptionally personal experience.

Nonetheless, establishing an emotional connection engenders a strong mutual awareness of what cultivates joy, love, and safety, along with what can incite pain. In relationships, this level of realization can be extraordinarily healing and supportive. It feels instinctive and centered in the heart.

Mental Connection

A robust mental connection is manifested through invigorating and captivating conversations that ignite our minds and create a desire for companionship. It is characterized by effortless communication, alignment in thought processes, and shared intellectual curiosity.

When we forge a mental connection, we grasp how the other person thinks and the reasons behind their worldview. Practical alignment, such as unified priorities and compatible life approaches, often arises from this connection level.

Spiritual Connection

A spiritual connection emerges when our core values and beliefs resonate with someone else’s. It does not necessarily involve sharing the same faith or doctrine, but rather a deeper agreement in our perspectives on life, growth, purpose, and meaning. There is often an energetic resonance and a feeling that the connection surpasses the ordinary.

Among all connection levels, the spiritual aspect holds the capacity to create the most profound intimacy, impacting the soul in subtle yet significant manners.

Intimacy is not merely physical. It’s the process of connecting with someone so intimately, you feel like you can see into their soul ~ Reshall Varsos

Physical Connection

Physical connection refers to the tangible chemistry we experience with another individual: the electric energy, the magnetic attraction, and the excitement in our gut. It’s about more than mere physical attraction; our bodies react instinctively to their presence.

This form of connection brings sensual pleasure and a sensation of being alive and vibrant. While potent, physical chemistry by itself is seldom sufficient for a lasting relationship, it certainly enriches the experience.

When we initially feel a strong connection with someone, it often indicates resonance with them on one or more of these levels. As we spend time together, we gain insight into which levels genuinely align. This explains why some relationships start intensely but fizzle out when deeper layers fail to sync. A single-level connection, albeit beautiful, may lack sufficient depth for long-term satisfaction. However, when two or more levels are in alignment, the bond can become extraordinary.

Relationships are fundamental to human existence, shaping our experiences, emotions, and overall wellness. Grasping the various levels of relationship connections can assist us in navigating our interactions with others and forging stronger, more satisfying relationships.

There are four primary levels of relationship connections, each signifying a different degree of intimacy and emotional closeness. These levels can aid in categorizing and comprehending the diverse types of relationships we cultivate in our lives.

The initial level of relationship connection is the superficial level. This level is noted for casual interactions and acquaintanceships. These relationships are frequently based on surface-level details and may not involve a substantial emotional bond. Instances of superficial relationships include interactions with colleagues, acquaintances, or individuals we encounter briefly.

The second level of relationship connection is the functional level. This level characterizes relationships that fulfill a specific mission or function in our lives. These relationships may encompass shared activities, interests, or aims, but may not necessarily entail a profound emotional connection. Examples of functional relationships include connections with service providers, such as doctors or hairstylists, or associations with classmates or teammates.

The third level of relationship connection is the personal level. This level is marked by more profound emotional connections and greater intimacy. Personal relationships involve the sharing of personal thoughts, feelings, and experiences with another individual. These relationships often hinge on mutual trust, respect, and understanding. Examples include friendships, romantic partnerships, and close family ties.

The fourth level of relationship connection is the intimate level. This level is defined by the deepest emotional bonds and intimacy. Intimate relationships involve high levels of trust, vulnerability, and emotional closeness. These connections typically entail a strong bond and a deep sense of attachment with another individual. Examples include long-term romantic partnerships, close family relations, and deep friendships.

Comprehending the four levels of relationship connection can guide us in navigating the intricacies of our interactions with others and fostering stronger, more fulfilling connections. By recognizing the different degrees of intimacy and emotional closeness in our relationships, we can better understand the dynamics at play and strive towards developing deeper, more meaningful relationships with those around us. Continue reading →