A former colleague I hadn’t spoken to in ages recently reached out to me. She wanted to know how I was faring.

“I’m thriving!” I replied. “Working remotely, engaged in my passion, and surrounded by my diverse array of companions.”

Post-conversation, I began to reflect on my words. The expression “in my element” isn’t something I frequently use, prompting a moment of contemplation regarding its true significance. What does it mean to be in one’s element?

The phrase “being in your element” has ancient mystical origins. Historically, the notion of “elements” referred to the four classical elements — earth, water, air, and fire — thought to compose the universe. Each element was believed to possess its own traits, with individuals metaphorically linked to the element aligning with their character or environment.

For instance, to say someone is “in their element” likens them to a fish swimming in water — ideally adapted to their surroundings. Over time, this literal interpretation evolved into the figurative meaning we understand today: feeling at ease, confident, and successful in a scenario that aligns with one’s abilities or inclinations.

As I contemplated my present circumstances, I recognized that I had deliberately crafted my vision and manifested precisely the work environment I desired. This wasn’t a coincidence — it was the result of focused intention and alignment with my true purpose.

Previously, I was entrenched in the corporate sphere and faced its pressures firsthand. I endured long, arduous hours under the dominion of unethical supervisors who manipulated the schedules to disguise unfairness.

It’s your place in the world; it’s your life. Go ahead and do all you can with it, and create the life you wish to lead ~ Mae Jemison

These work experiences were draining to the soul, physically laborious, and contrary to my deeper sense of purpose. This period of my life was nowhere near “being in my element.”

These hardships led me to deeply empathize with my clients’ struggles. Many individuals I consult are overwhelmed with work-related stress, and many young people in particular are suffering from autoimmune issues stemming from their high-pressure lifestyles. They cannot be in their element while ensnared in such exhausting situations.

When I connect with these clients, I motivate them to establish clear intentions for transformation, envision their ideal settings, and have faith in their capability to manifest a life in harmony with their passions and well-being.

This understanding didn’t merely stem from observation — it arose from my own journey of metamorphosis.

Nearly thirty years ago, I embarked on a significant transformation in my life. I entered the realm of psychic reading, energy healing, herbalism, and aromatherapy.

At that point, I was operating out of a shared office space with my ex-boyfriend, managing a small herbal shop along the breathtaking coast of KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa. Yet my aspirations were grander — I dreamed of practicing aromatherapy while gazing at the ocean, observing dolphins frolicking in the surf.

The chapter shifted when my relationship concluded, and my ex and I decided to pursue separate living and working arrangements.

There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living ~ Nelson Mandela

<pOne day, while discussing my quest for a new place with a client, she informed me that her parents were relocating to town to assist with the family business. Their beautiful apartment overlooking the ocean was soon to be available for rent at a very reasonable rate.

It felt as if the universe had conspired to perfectly align everything. Was it mere luck? I don’t think so. In retrospect, I believe that my persistent vision — envisioning myself through a window, watching dolphins while practicing healing — helped create the synchronistic events that manifested this reality.

And thus, the dream materialized. Every time a pod of dolphins passed by, I took a moment to observe them while listening to calming recordings of dolphin and whale calls during my healing sessions. It served as a profound reminder that when we align with our deepest wishes, the universe responds in kind.

So, what does it truly mean to be in your element? I would characterize it as a profound connection to what nurtures your soul — something that resonates with your core identity, purpose, and well-being.

It involves merging passion and skill in a manner that results in both fulfillment and success. It’s about feeling entirely at home in your pursuits, losing track of time because you’re engaged in something that feels innate, effortless, and profoundly rewarding.

Sometimes uncovering what we cherish necessitates first encountering what we don’t. It’s frequently through adversity and misalignment that we gain clarity about what genuinely brings us light. This knowledge, born from experience, fosters the confidence to chase a life that mirrors our most authentic selves.

If you feel that there’s something out there that you’re meant to be doing, if you have a passion for it, then stop wishing and just pursue it ~ Wanda Sykes

If you seek to uncover your element, begin by contemplating these questions:

✵ What energizes me? When do I feel the most vibrant, fulfilled, or “in flow”?

✵ What came naturally to me as a child, and why did I abandon it?

✵ What childhood dreams or passions have I put aside but still feel attracted to?

✵ What activities cause me to lose track of time because I enjoy them immensely?

✵ What comes easily to me that may pose challenges for others?

✵ What skills or talents do others frequently compliment or seek my guidance on?

✵ If financial constraints and responsibilities were non-existent, how would I choose to spend my time?

✵ What subjects or issues do I inherently gravitate towards during discussions, readings, or media?

✵ What social issues deeply resonate with or motivate me to create change?

✵ What values or principles do I uphold, regardless of circumstances?

✵ When have I felt most proud of myself, and what was I engaged in at that moment?

✵ What legacy do I aspire to leave — how do I wish to be remembered?

If you can’t determine your purpose, identify your passion. For your passion will lead you directly into your purpose ~ T.D. Jakes

Many individuals describe being in their element as tapping into a universal flow — a state of awareness where creativity, inspiration, and joy seem to materialize effortlessly. When we exist in this state of spiritual presence, time feels irrelevant, and we simply immerse ourselves in our passions. There’s an authenticity, an essence of being entirely ourselves without limitations.

It’s easy to believe that these moments of alignment are infrequent or reserved for the fortunate, but the reality is that we each possess the capability to attain and sustain this state of being. The crucial factor is to have faith that we are able to change at any age, in any situation. We are never too old, too entrenched, or too far gone to reinvent ourselves. Every day presents an opportunity for renewal.

If you currently don’t feel “in your element,” start setting the intention for it. Visualize the surroundings, the work, and the connections that would provide you with maximum fulfillment. Concentrate on the sensation of being in alignment and trust that the appropriate conditions will gradually manifest.

It may not materialize immediately, but as you refine your vision and take actionable steps, synchronicities will emerge — just as they did for me when I discovered the perfect ocean-view apartment.

Remember, life isn’t about accepting a course that drains and discourages you; it’s about embracing the journey that uplifts and invigorates you. You hold the power to design a life that reflects your authentic passions and purpose. The Universe is always prepared to align with the intentions you put forth.

So, take that leap. Tune into your desires. Unearth your inner truth. Follow the calling of your soul. Step courageously into your true element, where you are destined to shine!

Discover the Happiness of Being in Your Element

Have you ever observed how some individuals seem to effortlessly flourish in specific aspects of their lives? They exude self-assurance and passion, with their enthusiasm being infectious. These individuals have located their “element,” a notion popularized by Sir Ken Robinson, an esteemed educator and author. Being in your element signifies engaging in pursuits that align with your inherent talents, passions, and interests. It represents a state of being where you feel most alive, fulfilled, and happy.

Uncovering your element transcends mere hobbies or careers; it involves discovering your authentic self and living a life that resonates with your genuine desires. When you are in your element, time feels like it flies, and you experience a deep sense of fulfillment and purpose. It’s a state of flow where your skills and passions coalesce, enabling you to realize your full potential.

So, how can you uncover the happiness of being in your element? Here are several steps to assist you on this transformative journey:

1. Contemplate your passions and interests: Dedicate time to reflect on the activities that bring you joy and allow you to lose track of time. What are the things you love to do? What subjects or themes captivate you? Identifying your passions and interests is the initial step towards finding your element.

2. Identify your strengths and talents: Everyone possesses unique strengths and abilities. Reflect on the skills at which you excel effortlessly. What are you naturally skilled at? These strengths may range from problem-solving, creativity, leadership, empathy, or analytical thinking. Acknowledging your strengths will aid you in aligning them with your passions.

3. Experiment and explore: After pinpointing your passions and strengths, begin exploring various paths that enable you to engage with them. Try new hobbies, sign up for courses, or join communities related to your interests. This exploration will provide clarity and insight into what resonates with you.

4. Embrace challenges and setbacks: The search for your element may not always be straightforward. Embrace challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning. Remember, setbacks are not failures, but rather steps toward discovering your true calling.

5. Seek guidance and support: Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who can support and inspire you throughout your journey. Look for mentorship or coaching to help guide you through the process of discovering your element. Their insights and experiences can offer valuable support and encouragement.

6. Trust your intuition: As you explore diverse paths, rely on your intuition for guidance. Pay attention to how certain activities make you feel. If something feels right and brings you joy, it’s likely a sign that you are inching closer to your element.

7. Embrace lifelong learning: Finding your element is not a one-time endeavor; it’s an ongoing journey. Embrace lifelong learning and continuously seek opportunities to enhance your knowledge and skills. This will aid your evolution and growth within your element.

Discovering the happiness of being in your element is a deeply personal and transformative journey. It requires self-reflection, courage, and a willingness to step outside your comfort zone. However, the rewards are immeasurable. When you are in your element, you exude joy, inspire those around you, and make a significant impact on the world. So, begin this journey of self-discovery, and unlock the happiness of being in your element. Continue reading →

During a meditation one afternoon while deeply immersed in an alpha state, I heard a voice clairaudiently declare: “It’s time to get to work as someone requires the message you received last night.”

I wasn’t in a particularly sociable mood that day and was definitely not inclined to work, but the voice was extremely clear and rather insistent.

I mentally requested the voice to show or explain to me how and what this message entailed. Almost instantly, I envisioned my dream journal in my mind.

Thus, I ended the meditation and went to fetch my dream journal from my nightstand. I always keep it close alongside a clip-on night light, enabling me to jot down my dreams whenever I wish.

Throughout the years, I’ve taught myself to remember significant dreams and document as much as I can recall.

Maintaining a dream journal has proven immensely beneficial to me personally and in my psychic endeavors. Dreams serve as a conduit between the physical world and the spiritual realm, providing profound insights and guidance.

One of the most significant advantages of dream journaling is the capacity to track ‘warning dreams,’ also referred to as premonition or precognitive dreams. These dreams act as harbingers of forthcoming events, alerting us to possible threats, challenges, or undesirable occurrences that may soon manifest in our waking life.

Though warning dreams are infrequent, when they do appear, they are often vivid, intense, and emotionally unsettling, leaving a lasting impression. By closely examining the content of these dreams, you can recognize areas of concern, take proactive measures to tackle potential issues, or make safer choices. At times, it can truly be a transformative experience!

No, there was nothing out of the ordinary in any of those dreams as dreams. They were simply displaced in Time ~ J.W. Dunne

<pUpon opening my journal, there it was — my latest entry from that morning when I awoke, word for word:

— Wolves surrounding the house. Unfamiliar house.
— Aware of someone beside me, behind me? “Inform them they already know, be prepared.”
— Repeated knocking on the door; it finally opens.
— Someone inside is afraid. Tell them to relax; everything is fine.
— Fireplace ablaze; warm and inviting indoors. Rustic ambiance.
— Suddenly everyone vanished, no one inside. Where did they go?
— Look out the window. A massive wolf gazing directly at me. Open the window, the door? Wolf remains, howling.

I was still not in the mood to work, so I prepared some herbal tea and started humming my favorite ‘lazy’ tune: “The best part of waking up is going back to bed…” I can’t recall where I initially heard this, but it’s a playful twist on the well-known Folgers Coffee jingle from the 90s, “The best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup.” This altered version has gained popularity through various internet memes and social media platforms, humorously suggesting that returning to sleep is more enjoyable than beginning the day with coffee! I frequently sing it when I’m about to take a nap when I shouldn’t.

However, as I savored my tea, I recalled the voice’s words — you must get back to work! I sighed and reminded myself that the spirit must be guiding me for a reason — this is likely significant. So, I powered my phone on again and logged back into the Psychic Access platform.

Well, I barely had time to finish my tea before my phone rang. It was a woman for whom I had read previously.

For it is in the arcana of dreams that existences merge and renew themselves, change and yet keep the same — like the soul of a musician in a fugue. And so memory swooned, again and again, in sleep ~ Bram Stoker

“Happy New Year!” I greeted warmly, but she didn’t waste any time and got right to the point.

“My daughter has been experiencing recurring nightmares about wolves. Can you help us interpret what they signify?“

Wolves. Naturally. The link between her daughter’s nightmares and my wolf dream from the night was immediately evident to me.

The spirit guide of her daughter — a protective great-grandmother from her mother’s lineage — emerged with powerful, clear energy. Then I realized that the enigmatic figure in my dream was the same guiding presence relaying a message through me.

“She has also been feeling apprehensive or uneasy lately, as though she’s being observed or followed, correct?” I inquired.

“Yes! Precisely! It frightens her and I’m unsure how to help. Is this what the dream is about?“

“This dream serves as a warning,” I stated firmly. “Someone is monitoring the house or plotting something ominous.”

I recounted every aspect of my dream, described the grandmother’s emergence, and stressed the situation’s urgency. Their intuition had already sounded the alarm, and now their fears were validated. Equipped with this knowledge, she could now take action.

Once the call concluded, I felt an overwhelming sense of relief and thankfulness. I had shared a protective message from a spirit guide that assisted a mother and daughter in trusting their instincts and remaining safe. We all possess an inner knowing — that quiet, intuitive voice that speaks when we meditate, reflect, or dream. The challenge lies in learning to heed and trust it.

When I’ve lost my way or when I am uncertain about which path to follow, I remember that most answers I seek I already hold – deep within. I am inherently creative, resourceful, and whole. If I consult my invisible compass, I’ll know what to do ~ Steve Goodier

It turned out that the daughter’s ex-boyfriend had been stalking her for weeks, lurking near her home and shadowing her around town. With the wisdom shared by her grandmother’s spirit, they were able to identify him watching the house from his vehicle. Law enforcement was notified, and eventually, the family secured a restraining order.

The daughter’s wolf nightmares ceased.

There’s something immensely fulfilling about interpreting dreams — not only for personal insight but to support others, even those far away. With just one phone call and the guidance of spirit, I was able to avert potential harm to someone and convey a message of love and protection. There’s no better feeling than being of service in this manner!

Moral of the story: Keep a record of all your dreams. They are potent instruments for personal and spiritual development, providing guidance, warnings, and even foresight into the future.

In this instance, a dream safeguarded a family. Later, the woman conveyed that my reading also made her feel more spiritually connected and aware. That’s the beauty of intuition and dreams — when you trust them, you become more attuned to the subtle energies surrounding us and the divine essence within.

As I contemplated the experience that afternoon, I felt invigorated rather than lazy or fatigued. I forwent that nap. I remained online, handling more calls and assisting others in connecting. Spirit had summoned me to serve in that moment, and in doing so, I received so much more in return.

Your dreams are continually whispering to you — listen intently and document them. One dream can alter everything, or even rescue a life.

How a Premonition Dream Can Potentially Save Your Life

Have you ever had a dream that felt so strikingly vivid and realistic that it lingered with you long after you awoke? Perhaps you envisioned a specific event or circumstance that seemed improbable at the time, only to witness it unfolding in reality later. These dreams, known as premonition dreams, have intrigued and baffled people for ages. While some brush them off as mere coincidences or products of imagination, others maintain that premonition dreams can indeed save lives.

A premonition dream is a type of psychic dream that offers glimpses into future events or situations. It can range from dreaming about a specific conversation to predicting a life-threatening incident. These dreams often feel distinct from ordinary dreams, being more vivid, intense, and emotionally charged. Many individuals report experiencing a potent sense of déjà vu when the events from their dreams manifest.

So, how can a premonition dream potentially safeguard your life? Let’s examine a few scenarios:

1. Warning of Impending Peril: One of the most prevalent ways premonition dreams can save lives is by alerting individuals to looming danger. For instance, someone might dream of a car accident and choose an alternate route the next day, thereby averting a potentially catastrophic collision. These dreams function as early warning signals, empowering individuals to take necessary precautions to prevent harm.

2. Medical Awareness: Premonition dreams have also been known to provide insights pertaining to health issues. Some individuals report dreaming of specific symptoms or conditions before they actually experience them in their waking life. These dreams can motivate individuals to seek medical assistance sooner, potentially identifying serious ailments in their early stages and improving the odds of successful treatment.

3. Guiding Intuition: Premonition dreams can also act as intuitive guides, assisting individuals in making significant decisions that may affect their lives. For example, someone might dream about a job opportunity in a different city and elect to pursue it, leading to a rewarding career and enhanced quality of life. Such dreams can furnish valuable insights and guidance, steering individuals toward favorable outcomes.

While premonition dreams can hold immense power, it’s crucial to approach them with an open mind and a healthy degree of skepticism. Not every dream will be prophetic, and distinguishing between a regular dream and a premonition dream can be challenging. However, certain signs can aid in recognizing a premonition dream:

1. Vividness and Emotional Burden: Premonition dreams are typically more vivid and emotionally charged than standard dreams. The details are often crisp and memorable, making them hard to forget.

2. Recurring Concepts: If you observe recurring themes or symbols within your dreams, take note. These could be clues or messages regarding future events.

3. Strong Gut Feeling: Premonition dreams frequently come accompanied by an intense gut feeling or intuition. Trust your instincts and take them seriously.

If you suspect you’ve experienced a premonition dream, it’s vital to document it immediately upon waking. Record all the details you can recall, including specific events, individuals, and emotions. This documentation will assist you in comparing your dream with real-life events in the future.

In summary, premonition dreams possess the potential to save lives by warning individuals of impending hazards, providing health-related insights, and directing crucial life choices. While the essence of these dreams remains enigmatic, they offer a glimpse into the captivating domain of the human mind and its link to the future. So, the next time you have an intense dream that feels too significant to overlook, pay attention — it may just be your subconscious striving to protect your life. Continue reading →

When you dream about your ex-boyfriend, it could symbolize several different things. It might mean that you are still not over him and are holding onto the past. Alternatively, it could mean that some unresolved issues between the two of you must be addressed. Dreams are often a way for our subconscious to communicate with … Continue reading →