The Strength of Surrender: How Freeing Yourself from Attachment Can Result in Wonders
We often cling to individuals and possessions that no longer benefit us. Fear binds us, as does the comfort that familiarity provides.
The prospect of the unknown can be disconcerting, even when we instinctively know that releasing our grip is the most beneficial path forward. Our attachments—be it to friendships, belongings, or past experiences—usually stem from emotional connections that render the act of letting go feel daunting.
Some individuals hold onto toxic relationships, even when mistreated, because they doubt their worthiness for something better. Their sense of self-esteem is so intertwined with the presence of the partner that the notion of leaving seems like losing a part of who they are.
Others cling to objects not out of necessity, but because these items offer a misleading sense of security or shape their identity in a specific manner. The more we cling to something, the more energy we invest in it, forming an invisible wall that hinders new opportunities from flowing into our lives.
This was a challenging lesson for me to grasp and overcome. Years ago, I listed my father’s house for sale. It remained on the market for over a year without a single offer. Initially, I was baffled as to why. The house was structurally sound, located well, and reasonably priced. However, despite my efforts, no potential buyers came forward.
Later, I came to understand that my own resistance was blocking the sale. I was neither emotionally nor spiritually prepared to let go. My attachment—rooted in unresolved emotions and anger—created an energetic barrier that repelled interested buyers.
Unknowingly, I was sending the universe a message saying, ‘I don’t want this house to sell.’ As a result, it remained unsold.
To let go is to release the images and emotions, the grudges and fears, the clingings and disappointments of the past that bind our spirit ~ Jack Kornfield
The house felt like a burden to me. I didn’t love it; in fact, I detested what it represented. The weight of past hurts and negative memories had left a significant mark on me. Yet, despite my desire to let go, my unresolved emotions kept me tethered to it.
Then, a shift occurred.
One day, I visited the tenants living in the house. They had been a true blessing. They moved in not long after I took the house off the market, and for the first time in over 50 years, I entered the house and felt… serene. It radiated love. The energy had transformed, and instantly, I felt at peace with it.
Around the same time, I found a new estate agent—a Reiki Master. Unlike my previous agent, this individual resonated with my energy and comprehended the deeper aspects of energy flow and intention.
The situation now felt right. The timing was perfect. I no longer viewed the house with bitterness or sorrow. Instead, I perceived it as a dwelling someone else could cherish, and I wished to pass it on with gratitude.
My new agent met me at the house, and we explored the options. She took photographs, and when we reviewed them, we both recognized the truth: nothing required fixing to sell it. The house was prepared. The obstacle had not been the property—it had been me. My energy had hindered the sale, but now I was ready.
In that moment, I chose to sell. I signed the paperwork, and my tenants, who were already planning a move into the city, fully supported my decision.
The “For Sale” sign was placed, and the next day it was sold. Just one day from the sign going up to the sale. Exactly one day!
The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday ~ Steve Maraboli
Upon returning home with my sales documents, I performed Reiki on them, expressing, “Thank you for selling this house quickly and for a favorable price.” My agent and her husband also did Reiki on their copy of the papers. The outcome? The sale finalized for only $1,000 under my asking price.
There was, however, one final concern—at least from a human standpoint. The sale terms required possession within a month. Legally, I had to give my tenants two months’ notice. I was unsure how I would manage, but once more, the universe was on my side.
I explained the situation to my tenants and assured them that they would not be evicted. To my astonishment, they responded with grace and trust, encouraging me to proceed as needed and that everything would work out. That same day, they found a new place with an earlier move-in date—two days prior to the sale closing.
Everything aligned seamlessly. The universe once again supported me.
Not only were my own needs met, but my tenants were also guided to a wonderful new opportunity. They moved into a beautiful townhouse and soon took on management of the entire complex, which was a financially beneficial circumstance for them. The universe orchestrated a perfect win-win solution that ensured everyone involved was cared for.
I share this narrative to illustrate the potency of manifestation, alignment, and letting go. This experience marked a pivotal moment for me—an opportunity to learn how to co-create with the Universe.
For six years, the house had been a heavy load, an emotional burden I’d carried throughout my life. However, when I altered my perspective and released my negative attachments, everything changed immediately. The moment I chose to let go and surrender, the universe intervened, and miracles unfolded.
I realize there’s something incredibly honest about trees in winter, how they’re experts at letting things go ~ Jeffrey McDaniel
We all possess something in our lives that we wish to change. Each of us has goals, dreams, and aspirations. Are you actively pursuing them, or allowing doubt and fear to anchor you? Are you caught in a loop of ‘what if’ and ‘it will never happen’ thoughts?
Nothing is impossible when you prioritize the positive. Nothing is unachievable when your intentions align with love, trust, and faith. When we release fear, when we shed our outdated narratives, when we welcome the flow of divine timing…miracles manifest.
If you’re clinging to something out of fear, I encourage you to closely examine it. Ask yourself: Is this attachment beneficial for me? Or does it hinder me? By relinquishing those things that no longer resonate, we create room for new blessings to enter.
Letting go is not about loss or surrendering; it’s about creating space for something greater.
The universe is always there to support you. Trust in it. Believe in it. And most importantly, believe in yourself. If you do, you may just witness miracles unfolding in unexpected ways.
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Sheri is an internationally recognized psychic and angel reader who offers clear insights on finances, careers, relationships, manifesting dreams, and navigating life’s complexities. Since 2004, she has been the owner of an International Spiritual Healing Centre where she practices Reiki—either working directly with clients or teaching the levels of Usui Reiki. She conducts readings via mail, phone, chat, or in person within her office space. Since 2008, she has refined her abilities on various psychic service platforms, providing readings through telephone, chat, or email. Additionally, she contributes to a spiritual network for individuals who have experienced profound loss, drawing from her own first-hand experiences with such grief. Sheri’s work has been characterized as genuine, compassionate, and transformative, and she aspires for all her clients to rise to a greater level of spirituality and development, aiming to create a better world. You can obtain a psychic reading from Sheri at PsychicAccess.com. |
The Power of Letting Go: How Releasing Attachment Can Lead to Miracles
In our hurried and demanding lives, it is all too easy to form attachments to people, possessions, and desired outcomes. We clutch our ambitions, belongings, and connections with a firm grip, fearing that relinquishing them might result in loss of control or an opportunity missed. However, what if the pathway to experiencing genuine happiness and miracles lies in the ability to let go?
Attachment, at its core, is the act of clinging to someone or something. It stems from our desires, fears, and uncertainties. We attach ourselves to notions of success, material goods, relationships, and even our self-image, believing these ties define who we are and bring us joy. Yet, such attachment often leads to pain and obstructs us from witnessing the miracles life has in store.
When we detach, we liberate ourselves from the chains that confine us, paving the way for new opportunities, growth, and transformation. Letting go does not equate to giving up or showing indifference; it entails surrendering to the flow of life and having faith that everything will evolve in its rightful time.
One of the most remarkable advantages of letting go is the freedom from the weight of expectations. When we tie our happiness to particular outcomes, we create a setup for disappointment and frustration. By releasing our attachment to specific ways things should unfold, we allow ourselves to tap into the endless potential of the universe. Miracles can transpire when we permit life to amaze us and guide us toward paths we could not have foreseen.
Letting go also enables us to develop a sense of inner tranquility and contentment. By detaching from outside circumstances and discovering joy within ourselves, we lessen our dependence on external validation or material possessions for well-being. We learn that genuine happiness emanates from within and is not contingent upon outside influences. This newfound liberation equips us to face life’s obstacles with dignity and resilience.
Furthermore, releasing attachment can spur personal growth and self-discovery. As we discard old beliefs, patterns, and attachments, we make room for new experiences and insights. We become receptive to learning, expanding our perspectives, and recognizing our true capabilities. Letting go allows us to shed the layers that no longer benefit us and embrace our authentic selves.
However, letting go is often not straightforward. It demands courage, trust, and a readiness to cede control. It is a process that takes time and commitment. Nonetheless, the rewards are invaluable. By letting go of our attachments, we create space for miracles in our lives. We become co-creators with the universe, inviting it to guide us toward our highest good.
So, how can we initiate the process of letting go and harness the power of releasing attachments? Here are several practical steps to consider:
1. Awareness: Identify the attachments that are hindering your progress. Contemplate what you are holding onto and the reasons behind it.
2. Acceptance: Acknowledge the transient nature of life. Recognize that change is essential and that clinging induces suffering.
3. Surrender: Work on relinquishing control and trusting in the journey of life. Let go of the compulsion to micromanage every part of your life, allowing things to develop naturally.
4. Practice mindfulness: Focus on being present in the moment. Concentrate on now rather than ruminating on the past or fretting about the future.
5. Self-reflection: Regularly assess your attachments and evaluate their significance in your life. Question whether they truly contribute to your highest good.
Remember that letting go is an ongoing expedition. It is not a singular event but a lifelong habit. As you release your attachments, you will observe the miracles that emerge in your life. Embrace the transformative power of letting go and allow yourself to experience the freedom, joy, and miracles that await you.