I have always been fond of stories that make me think. One of my cherished tales dates back to when I was just seven years old. Its deep insight has resonated with me throughout my entire life. Allow me to share it with you:

A solitary elderly woman, around 85 years old, resided in a decaying log cabin amidst the woods. Though challenged by her age, she possessed an indomitable spirit, recognizing the necessity of persisting to ensure her survival.

While she was collecting firewood, a mysterious sorcerer came up to her.

“I have fantastic news for you,” stated the sorcerer as he greeted her in the morning. “Today is a fortunate day for you!” He proceeded to introduce himself as the Forest Wizard and assured her that he could fulfill any heartfelt wish she had.

The generous offer made the old woman stop and think. However, before she could decide, the wizard interrupted her thoughts by offering to transform all of her wood into gold, envisioning the wealth it would bring.

“Oh, what good would that do?” replied the old woman. “I could hardly carry it back to my hut, for the gold would be much heavier than the wood!

“I could potentially transform all the water in your residence into wine,” exclaimed the wizard enthusiastically.

Happiness is not a matter of intensity, but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony ~ Thomas Merton

“Oh, what good would that do a woman of my age?” replied the old woman. “I can hardly keep my wits about me, so drinking a lot of wine would certainly not help.”

“Would you be interested in obtaining an entirely new collection of elegantly crafted apparel consisting of the most luxurious and exorbitantly priced fabrics available worldwide?”

“I’m afraid that wouldn’t be of much use to someone like me, a lonely elderly person,” the old woman responded. “I have nowhere to go that requires fancy clothing, so it would be a waste for me.”

At this point, the wizard was growing slightly restless and inquired, “Undoubtedly, there must be something on your mind, my dear?”

After some contemplation, the elderly lady expressed, “If it’s feasible, would you mind restoring my youth? My desire lies not in wealth, luxury, or riches, but solely in regaining my youthful vigor – I yearn for good health, strength, and vitality, and nothing beyond that.”

Pleased with her discovery, the wizard expressed contentment and replied, “Certainly! I have the ability to make anything possible. Therefore, get ready to regain your youth as I rewind time.”

The old lady’s wish was granted by the wizard, much to her delight. In an instant, she underwent a magical transformation, turning into a strong, agile, and youthful woman. Her previously gray and thin hair became long and beautiful, while her body became healthy and well-defined. Her face also brightened up, displaying a healthy and radiant complexion.

After observing the remarkable change, the lady, who is now youthful, expressed gratitude to the wizard for his gift. She picked up the wood, carried it on her shoulders, and joyfully raced back to her cabin in the forest, laughing and dancing with each stride.

Many people sacrifice their health to acquire wealth, only to then use their wealth to try and regain their health.

A wishful fairy tale? Sure, but one that stuck in a young girl’s mind and taught her the wisdom of prioritizing her health and well-being above all else at an early age. It taught her that health is wealth.

I recently discovered another fable that is both old and thought-provoking. It tells the story of the Mexican fisherman and the merchant banker.

An investment banker made the decision to go on a much-needed vacation in a quaint seaside village. There, he encountered a fisherman from the area who had successfully caught a number of large, recently-caught fish.

The curious banker inquired about the amount of time the fisherman needed to catch the fish. In response, the fisherman stated that it didn’t take much time. The banker then wondered why the fisherman didn’t prolong his stay and catch a greater quantity of fish.

The fisherman responded by stating that he had already caught an ample amount of fish to sustain his family for the day. Rather than continuing to fish excessively and wasting the surplus that his family couldn’t consume, he decided to stop once he had caught enough. This allowed him to enjoy quality time with his children, rest alongside his wife, visit the village later for a glass of wine, and engage in a friendly game of cards with his friends.

The fisherman stated that he would rather lead a complete and joyful existence. He does not wish to devote his entire day to fishing unless it is an essential means of providing sustenance for his family.
The fisherman was sarcastically advised by the merchant banker to seek guidance from a highly educated individual who attended a prestigious university and holds a business administration degree. This could potentially assist him in achieving great success and accumulating wealth.

Stephen Covey points out that many of us prioritize urgent matters over important ones, leading us to spend excessive time on the former and neglect the latter.

“If you dedicated additional time to fishing, you would be able to afford a larger boat, and subsequently expand your collection to include multiple boats. This is because the surplus fish you catch could be sold for a lucrative gain. Furthermore, in the long run, perhaps after a few years, you could establish your own fish processing facility and supply your catch to customers all over the globe!”

“The potential for immense wealth is within your grasp! Imagine the possibilities of making millions by publicly announcing an IPO and selling off all the shares of your fishing company,” continued the banker.

“And what happens next?” inquired the fisherman. The merchant banker offered a response.

“So, in that case, you would have the opportunity to wake up late, spend some time fishing, engage in playful activities with your children, take a nap beside your spouse, and leisurely walk to the village each evening to enjoy a glass of wine while playing card games with your friends.”

The moral of the story is, who would you rather be in life? The wealthy merchant banker or the happy and contented fisherman? It is a matter of work-life balance that only you can decide.

Uncovering the Significance of the Message in a Story: Revealing Our Priorities

Stories have always been an integral part of human culture, captivating our imagination and providing valuable lessons. From generation to generation, stories are passed down or shared through various mediums, such as books and movies. At the core of every story lies a moral, a lesson that enlightens us about life, values, and priorities. Disentangling the moral of a story allows us to explore its deeper meaning and gain insights into our own priorities.

The moral of a story conveys the underlying message or lesson that the author aims to impart. It often reflects the author’s worldview and their perspective on what is right or wrong. However, stories have the unique ability to be interpreted differently by each individual reader or listener. Our personal experiences, beliefs, and values influence our interpretation, making understanding the moral of a story a personal voyage of discovery.

One crucial aspect of comprehending the moral of a story is acknowledging the central conflict or problem faced by the characters. This conflict sets the stage for the story’s development and ultimately leads to the moral lesson. By recognizing the challenges encountered by the characters, we can begin to unravel the underlying message.

For instance, in Aesop’s fable “The Tortoise and the Hare,” the central conflict lies between the slow and steady tortoise and the fast but overconfident hare. The moral lesson often interpreted from this story is “slow and steady wins the race.” This simple fable teaches us about the significance of perseverance, humility, and not underestimating others. By understanding this moral, we can reflect on our own priorities and assess whether we are placing value on speed and instant gratification over hard work and determination.

Another important aspect of understanding the moral of a story is examining the consequences faced by the characters. Often, these consequences highlight the moral lesson and offer insight into the author’s intended message. By analyzing the outcomes of the characters’ actions, we can gain a deeper understanding of the values and priorities that the story seeks to convey.

In Harper Lee’s classic novel “To Kill a Mockingbird,” the moral lesson centers on empathy, justice, and the importance of standing up for what is right. Through the character of Atticus Finch, the story explores the consequences of prejudice and discrimination. Understanding the moral of this story encourages us to examine our own priorities and question whether we are actively promoting justice and equality in our own lives.

Understanding the moral of a story also requires us to reflect on our own values and priorities. Stories act as mirrors, showing us ourselves and our beliefs from a different perspective. By critically analyzing the moral lesson, we can evaluate whether our own priorities align with the values presented in the story.

For example, George Orwell’s dystopian novel “1984” revolves around the moral lesson of the perils of totalitarianism, surveillance, and the importance of individual freedom. Understanding this moral prompts us to reflect on our own priorities and question whether we value personal freedom and privacy in an increasingly digital age.